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Dear Oscar: Women Have Stories, Too

Posted: 02/27/2012 5:11 pm

At Sunday's Oscars, we were treated to a montage of great moments from movies from the past few decades.

There was something quite surprising and quite disturbing about the montage.

In the first clip in the montage, Forrest Gump ate from his box of chocolates.

Next, a series of couples gazed lovingly into each other's eyes: Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio on the Titanic, Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart in Twilight, Patrick Swayze and Demi Moore in Ghost.

Then came a stream of 25 clips showing male heroes talking to, leading or fighting other men. In the middle were a few women, one screaming in stress about her wedding, one screaming because she was being attacked and one screaming to fake an orgasm.

And with that, the montage ended.

In the highlights of movies from the past few decades, there wasn't a single clip of a woman doing something that related to her children, her friends, her work or her contribution to the world. There wasn't a single clip of a woman leading, making a choice, making a decision or showing agency. There wasn't even a single clip of a woman experiencing a moment of meaning or joy.

There wasn't a single clip of a woman that didn't have to do with either her romance with a man or with her getting attacked.

Here are the four things we hear from the women in the montage:

  1. We're getting married in five hours! (Yelling angrily at fiance).
  2. Woman screaming in fear in shower
  3. Yes!...Yes!...Ohhhhh! (Meg Ryan faking her orgasm).
  4. I'll have what she's having. (Response to Meg Ryan's fake orgasm).
Here are the 19 things we hear from men in the montage: 1. Life is like a box of chocolates. 2. I love you, Molly. 3. We're gonna need a bigger boat! 4. Houston, we have a problem. 5. That's not gonna happen. 6. Those aren't pillows! 7. Aaaah! 8. Hahahaha Haaaa! (Laugh) 9. Hahahahahahahah! (Belly laugh) 10. Yeah, baby! 11. Are you the little girl making all that big noise? 12. Heh heh ha ha ha ha ha! (Belly laugh) 13. I love the smell of napalm in the morning. 14. I'm gonna make him an offer he can't refuse. 15. I want the truth. 16. You can't handle the truth. 17. Use the force, Luke. 18. I'm walkin' here! I'm walkin' here! 19. Adrianne!

If I weren't so saddened by this omission of women's stories, I would have to thank the Academy for creating a montage so stunningly emblematic of how they imagine women and their lives.

The montage reflected a view that, unfortunately, too many popular movies still reflect: men are the protagonists and women are background figures who show up only as romantic interests or victims to be saved.

Oscar, I have news for you: there is another world of women's lives. We work, we create, we relate, we reflect. We choose, we risk, we grow. We love friends, children and parents. We have quests and adventures of our own. We have experienced the most amazing journeys. We'd like to see that reflected in the movies we see, and the movies you recognize.

It's not a huge surprise that women's stories are so absent from the most popular and acclaimed films. The film industry, though growing more diverse, remains male-dominated and primarily caucasian at the top. Oscar voters are nearly 94 percent caucasian and 77 percent male, The LA Times recently found. The LA Times reported that men compose more than 90 percent of the five branches of the Academy, such as cinematography and visual effects. Only 6 of the 43 members of the governing board of the Academy are female, and only one is a person of color.

Does this really matter? Should those of us concerned about women's empowerment and diversity spend our energy worrying about the Academy when there are so many other pressing issues affecting marginalized populations? So many forms of discrimination, extreme oppression, and horrific violence?

I think it does. We should dedicate a portion of our energy to what is happening in Hollywood because films are not fluff. They aren't just entertainment. Films shape our culture and they shape us. Popular films become part of our cultural fabric, stories that paint a particular picture of what it means to be a man, to be a woman, to be white or black. Over time, the images we see in story after story subtly impact our ideas about who we are. Films -- whether realistic or fantastical --teach us underlying ideas about what is possible and what is true.

When women can't see strong, interesting, female protagonists in the stories we watch, it becomes harder for us to see ourselves as the strong, interesting protagonists of our own lives. When girls grow up seeing story after story that tells them they are sex objects, accessories or victims, they will learn that to be a "woman" is to play one of those three roles.

Let's bring this era to a close, this era when the film industry was dominated by a single segment of the population that chose the narratives that shape our culture.

It is time for more women and people of color to courageously write, perform, direct and advocate for their own stories. It is time for all of us to invest in and support the programs that help them do that. It is time for the film industry to wake up to the tremendous business opportunity it is missing out on by ignoring these stories. It is time for the Academy to adopt new practices and criteria for membership that allow it to diversify its membership quickly - not over the next few decades.

It is time for the movies to look like us.

Reference: Statistics on the Academy's composition are from the February 19, 2012 article "Oscar voters overwhelmingly white, male" by John Horn, Nicole Sperling and Doug Smith.

Tara Sophia Mohr is an expert on women's leadership and wellbeing. The founder and leader of the Playing Big women's leadership program, Tara is also the creator of 10 Rules for Brilliant Women, and the free, online 10 Rules for Brilliant Women Workbook. Visit www.taramohr.com to learn more.

 

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At Sunday's Oscars, we were treated to a montage of great moments from movies from the past few decades. There was something quite surprising and quite disturbing about the montage. In the first c...
At Sunday's Oscars, we were treated to a montage of great moments from movies from the past few decades. There was something quite surprising and quite disturbing about the montage. In the first c...
 
 
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03:11 PM on 03/06/2012
I totally agree with this article. As you say, girls *see* that their options in the world are sex object, accessory, or victim to be saved -- and yet their is an impulse in them as strong as the big bang to do something Big and World-changing. But as a girl, there is nobody reflecting these possiblilties to them; and certainly not our pop-culture, movies or even art.

There is though, a movement showing that things are evolving otherwise. When this movement becomes more mainstream, hopefully there will be popluar figureheads that emerge. Instead of Sex in the City we will see Enlightenment in the City! :)

I wrote a blog post related to women that ties in well to this idea for those who would like to read it, http://aspiritfull.wordpress.com/2012/02/29/flowing-into-your-juicy-middle/

Leigh
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12:18 PM on 03/02/2012
I so appreciate this article, and I know my colleagues on the Women's Steering Committee at the Directors Guild do, too. I'd like to reiterate a story from when I was directing a male-oriented soccer film in England in 1996. I was interviewed by the local newspaper; the reporter and I spoke for two hours about Huizinga's "Homo Ludens,"about the relationship between sports and war, about the universality of trying to succeed in a culture of alcoholism and failure, we spoke of many things. When the article came out, the paper had printed a photo of me that looked like I was screaming and headlined it: "Maria Struggles as She Focuses on Film." The rest of the article was a prediction that I would fail and the film would fail. This is what women face from beginning to end in their efforts to stand up with the boys in cinema. One or two of us break through-- like Lina Wertmuller and Agnieszka Holland-- but where were the clips from their great films in this Oscar montage? No wonder A. Holland once asked why so many women directors only direct one film and then disappear. There is a forceful tide in our culture that makes it nearly impossible for women to succeed. It's time for a revolution in thinking about powerful women and what they can and do accomplish in all areas of life. It's time for zero-tolerance for misogyny on all levels of the film industry.
12:09 PM on 03/02/2012
Thelma & Louise!!!!
03:46 PM on 03/01/2012
Right on Tara! As a DGA director of 25 years I applaud you!! Bravo. ADD WOMEN - CHANGE EVERYTHING!!
04:37 PM on 02/29/2012
In addition, the montage sequences broke down thusly: 2 women and 7+ men. The first one was so glaringly loaded with male talking heads, my friends and I started counting. In the Award's 84 year history, there have been only two female hosts of the Awards--Whoopi 3x and Ellen Degeneres 1x--and 13 female co-hosts. So, I guess in the minds of this years Oscar producers, women had nothing interesting to say because they were so busy concentrating on their grocery lists, husbands and children. Apparently, this also rendered them incapable of being funny for a few hours. I'd drink on stage too, if I were one of the cast members of Bridesmaids. Tina, Meryl, Sandra, Ellen, Maya, Melissa, Emma, Amy, Emily, Jaime, Kristin, Sarah, thoughts?
04:15 PM on 02/29/2012
Two movies immediately come to mind that portray our stories: Something's Gotta Give and It's Complicated. Both Diane Keaton's and Merryl Streep's characters are women with complex, full and productive protagonist lives. They are interesting and of value other than what you listed above. However, they are also portrayed as sexual in both of those roles, but sexuality is not a bad thing. I applaud both movies for making the point that protagonist women over 40 with complex and productive lives who are not supermodels deserve to be romanced, fallen in love with, and to have great sex too!
01:55 PM on 02/29/2012
I wish instead of citing the clips included in the Oscar montage, that the writer would have dared to list clips that would have proved her point. Where was Sigourney Weaver's Ripley from Alien/Aliens? Or Linda Hamilton's Terminator? Angelina Jolie has several clips that could have been used. And what, no Bette Davis in her rare and wonderful style of telling someone off? What about Ziyi Zhang and Michelle Yeou? And I don't care if Halle Berry's Catwoman was a dog, her famous walk alone should have made the cut. Uma Thurman in Kill Bill. There are quite a few clips from Network. And Sally Field's Places in the Heart heroine was strong and memorable. And one of my favorites: Shirley Maclaine screaming: "Give my daughter the shot!" in Terms of Endearment. If you're going to complain, at least make the case. And I'm a woman.
01:47 PM on 02/29/2012
Dear Hollywood Actresses,

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11:49 AM on 02/29/2012
Great article! I applaud the author for taking the time to take note of all the scenes depicted, because although I didn't notice at the time, it does really reflect the larger problem in Hollywood, namely caucasian males are the ones making the decisions and it's hard for anyone not in the club to break through. It's why the industry gushes over the success of movies like Bridesmaids or The Help-- they think they can point to these films to show diversity is alive and well in Hollywood, but in truth, the fact that these films are viewed as so groundbreaking shows us how far away we are from truly having a thriving film industry that reflects our diverse country.
10:54 PM on 02/28/2012
While I agree with the author on her overarching idea, I would point out that women certainly did have their moment in the Oscar spotlight. In particular, two or the films honored ("The Help," for which Octavia Spencer won Best Supporting Actress, and "The Iron Lady" for which Meryl Streep won Best Actress) feature strong female characters whose determination and dignity render them excellent role models to male and female viewers alike.
09:57 PM on 02/28/2012
I am a woman but I have never felt victimized or slighted by our patriarchal, male-dominated world because I believe in being an agent of change and creating my own circumstances- not waiting for someone's permission or approval. The women's movement of the 70s has come to a standstill as most women just don't feel fired up about it anymore and many women actually want to stay home and have kids while their husbands support them despite the choices they have (no offense). It seems most women are content with the way things are- there is no hunger or passion for any further change. There is a lot of bullshit in the world and many injustices continue to occur not only toward women but - toward homosexuals, children, animals and various ethnic groups depending on where you are in the world. It is up to the individual to "be the change you wish to see in the world" -Ghandi and in this case, it means women should make more films that tell their stories rather than waiting around for the Academy to validate them. Madonna just did it with her film 'W.E'., and regardless of what the critics say, she was very brave and fierce for telling a story from an entirely female perspective. Angelina Jolie also focused on women in her recent film. Rather than whining or blaming women need to step up and do and create.
Suzana Stankovic
http://www.iAmSuzana.com
12:46 PM on 03/02/2012
I'd take everything you're saying a whole lot more seriously if your profile picture didn't include you posing like a sex kitten in a pink bra. Just sayin'.
01:13 PM on 03/02/2012
Hey thanks Jennifer. I'm of the view that a woman can be both intelligent AND sexy, owning and expressing all of who she is on her own terms. Being sexy is liberating!
03:22 PM on 03/06/2012
I love it Suzana. Are you familiar with "A Call to Evolve" an Encore for Women's Liberation through Evolutionary Enlightenment (Andrew Cohen) headed up by Mary Debold? I am involved with this group and it is a large international community that is the new blood of a modern day "women's movement"; there is a large energy flowing through the consciousness of women right now...most are just confused and don't know what to do about it. As a coach, I work to assist women in holding a larger vision for their lives, as you have mentioned in your post. Cheers! I look forward to checking out your website.
Leigh
www.aspiritfull.wordpress.com
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07:22 PM on 02/28/2012
If Caucasian male-dominated Hollywood doesn't want to cast, write, produce or direct stories with diversity, perhaps those with creative minds can do it themselves. Stop waiting for them to tell a story about your experiences, as evidenced by the climate in Hollywood...fat chance! Your article is insightful and spot on, but things will not change until change happens at the top. Diversity needs to happen in the guilds, the boardrooms and the executive offices...unless that happens, you and I will continue to see the same recycled overtly sexual films we've been inundated with for the last 20 or so years. But it's also our fault, as women we need to stop spending money on films that don't properly represent us and go in droves to the films that are character driven and tells a complete story. Look at what happened with Bridesmaids and The Help...both considered female driven movies, yet both films made massive profits for the studios. It can done, but we have to support them. You can't necessarily change the minds of the men at the top, but you can change the direction of your own thinking and try to make progress happen in your own little corner of the universe.
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03:46 PM on 02/28/2012
Oddly I leave the article about the need for female stories in hollywood films, with the feeling it diminished the importance of women in those same stories.

The article mentions Forrest Gump, and yet to me, that movie is nothing without Robin Wrights "Jenny", for me her story is as much if not more so than Forrests (interestingly enough her story had nothing to do with her children, her friends, her contribution, leading or any of that)

I like what Catheryn Bigelow says on the topic.

*But you don’t get exasperated with this notion that your movies are not “female”?

*Bigelow: Certainly at the time I was there, there was never a discussion of gender per se. Like, this is a woman’s sculpture or a man’s sculpture. There was never this kind of bifurcation of particular talent. ***It was just looked at as the piece of work. The work had to speak for itself. And that’s still how I look at any particular work.
I think of a person as a filmmaker, not a male or female filmmaker. Or I think of them as a painter, not a male or female painter. I don’t view the world like that. the work has to speak for itself.

She's not making womens and/or mens films, she's making FILMS

The article comes across to me saying that the Lifetime channel should be reflected in hollywood films. And I don't think you can put women in any smaller a box.
02:31 PM on 03/02/2012
I agree with regard to looking at art as art. Period. And I find the Lifetime channel rather condescending toward women and extremely limited in perspective. Thanks for bringing this up.
03:16 PM on 02/28/2012
Terrific post, Tara! You raise some excellent points, a few of which I brought up in a Huff Post article I wrote a few years ago when Geoffrey Fletcher became the first black American screenwriter to win an Oscar (the first its then 82-year history). Yes, we definitely need more diversity in the movies, both in terms of gender and culture. As far as gender goes, there's always been a large degree of gender bias in the movies (men = heroes, women = damsels in distress and/or incomplete halves in search of a man to complete her). And since the success of Star Wars, filmmakers and screenwriters have imbibed the writings of Joseph Campbell (George Lucas's hero) as a way of structuring their stories as "hero's journeys". But while Campbell's views are very insightful, they tend to reaffirm traditional gender roles. So perhaps it's time to rethink that paradigm and broaden the concept of the "hero's journey". Of course, the trick to getting Hollywood to tell more stories about real women is to show that people indeed want to see those stories. Recent successes like The Help and Bridesmaids help to support that argument. But continual pressure is always needed, since Hollywood has a tendency to lead from behind. Consequently, to see the types of movies that reflect the rich diversity of our culture, and the real lives that women lead, we have continue to speak out, voice our discontent -- and of course, vote with our pocket books.
02:40 PM on 02/28/2012
Tara, thanks for this post. I especially agree with this observation: "When women can't see strong, interesting, female protagonists in the stories we watch, it becomes harder for us to see ourselves as the strong, interesting protagonists of our own lives. When girls grow up seeing story after story that tells them they are sex objects, accessories or victims, they will learn that to be a "woman" is to play one of those three roles. "