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Remembering Ted Kennedy, My Friend of 56 Years

Posted: 08/27/09 02:40 PM ET

After all the magnificent eulogies and obituaries, what more and what new can be said about Ted Kennedy, my friend of almost exactly 56 years and the leader of all the causes in Washington in which I believe -- a more peaceful world, a more just America, a more humane and progressive United States government.

Too many people still think about the human frailties that characterized his youth; and those without sin are permitted by scripture to cast the first stone against him. But that past only emphasizes the extraordinary extent to which, like his brothers Jack and Bobby, Ted grew as his responsibilities increased. His determination to achieve his brothers' goals was genuine and unrelenting, his devotion to each of his own many causes over the years was sincere and unflagging. He became known on both sides of the Senate aisle for his careful selection and retention of a brilliant staff, and - with their help - doing his homework in preparation for every Senate debate.

Most people do not realize the extent to which he was, in the final analysis, a survivor. Both his oldest brother and his oldest sister were killed in plane crashes, but he survived the plane crash that broke his back and killed the pilot and co-pilot. As the younger brother of two assassinated young liberal heros, he received his own share of anonymous hate mail and death threats, but he survived to age 77. Both after his plane crash and his automobile accident, I sat at his bedside, wondering if he would have the strength to go on. But he did, and for this last year I had hoped that somehow he would come back again and go on to even greater heights as a champion of America's final effort to achieve accessible health care for all of its citizens.

As a friend, he could be funny, full of laughter and as interested in frivolity and gossip as anyone else in Washington. He had the good fortune to meet and marry Victoria Reggie, whose parents were a wonderful politically-oriented and active Democratic Party couple in Louisiana whom John F. Kennedy and I had met long before Teddy had met Vicki. But she was the saving grace of the latter portion of his life, even before he was suddenly struck by brain cancer; and she was as well the caregiver and schedule coordinator who made his last year a time of peace that included recreation as well as a continuing voice in legislation.

He is fortunate as well to be survived by three remarkable children, who have had their own encounters with illness and adversity: Rhode Island Congressman Patrick Kennedy, who could someday rise, if all goes well, to be a leader of not only his Party but the House of Representatives; Edward Kennedy, Jr., who has learned from his father's leadership on health care, his two uncles' fight for universal access to quality medical care, and his own early setback -- when cancer took his leg -- to make a career out of providing advice and assistance to medical and hospital facilities -- particularly those helping the orthopedically disabled -- all over the world; and Kara Kennedy Allen, Ted's daughter, who has shown the same caring for the least fortunate in her own career. Kara works for Very Special Arts, the creative counterpart to Special Olympics founded by her aunt Jean; and serves as well on the Board of the National Organization on Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Facing lung cancer in 2003 but currently in remission, she too has personal experience with the highs and lows of healthcare in this country.

Clearly, Teddy Kennedy's own legacy will live on through his children, through the hundreds of important pieces of legislation that he authored, through the brilliant staff that he assembled and dispersed to other important roles around the country, and through the books, articles and speeches he has produced in his 46 years as a United States Senator. Above all, his legacy will live on through the millions of friends he has made and nurtured over the years, both in and out of politics, both in and out of the United States, among members of many races, religions and nationalities. Among all those friends for whom he did so much good, some will mourn and miss him more than others. I am among those who will miss him most.


Ted Sorensen is the former Special Counsel and Advisor to President John F. Kennedy and most recently the author of Counselor: A Life at the Edge of History.

 
 
 
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Tex1969
09:07 PM on 08/30/2009
I am sorry for your loss.
Thank you for writing this piece. It is a really nice perspective from a close friend of a great family.
10:10 PM on 08/30/2009
Thank You Mr. Sorenson,

Like Percival, you are the last modern knight of Camelot.

You have kept the fabled lore of Excalibur alive as one of your comrades after another have gone to a better place.

In your tender hands, caressing that mighty pen, the sword of courage has lived on.

God bless you!
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05:00 PM on 08/30/2009
You're a class act Mr. Sorensen. The Kennedy family is truly fortunate to have you as a friend.
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OldHick
04:46 PM on 08/30/2009
Why is that house so plain? Is that the show house?

Where are the Kennedy women? Why doesn't the Pope want to acknowledge a relation?
04:37 PM on 08/30/2009
Supposedly 1/6 dollars in the economy goes to healthcare so the industry is huge. But a lot of this money just worsens the deficit; we're spending money we don't have.

We can't imrpove healthcare if we don't expand as an economic power. Obama believes there will always be an inexhaustible source of wealth for him to tap and redistribute. Yeah, keep thinking that O; China almost has us in their rear view mirror.

We need to prioritize getting on our feet economically and then we can improve HC for all.
02:29 PM on 08/30/2009
Thank you, very much, Ted Sorensen, for this report. Kennedy family members are doing so many good things. Other examples---- What, Joe Kennedy, Robert F Kennedy, Jr., and Caroline Kennedy, are doing.

I will appologize for "big media" for the total lack of recognition of what younger family members are doing. I feel shame for this.
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JavaManiac
...with liberty and justice for all
08:02 AM on 08/30/2009
On big and small issues Kennedy was right

Civil Rights
Vietnam
Disibilities and mental health acts
The Iraq War

When are we going to learn and pass healthcare - if we do not - it is going to bankrupt the country!
08:12 AM on 08/29/2009
Ted Sorenson is probably the best speech writer in the modern history of the presidency.
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05:34 AM on 08/29/2009
That was an excellent tribute. I will miss Teddy, a politician whom I always trusted but never knew. When will I ever do that again?
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William Bradley
I have no microbe bio.
06:30 PM on 08/28/2009
This is a wonderful piece by someone I was honored to work with when he served as national co-chairman of Gary Hart's presidential campaign.
05:26 PM on 08/28/2009
Ted Sorenson - a geat American confidente and a man who always had his finger on the pulse of the virtues of the Declaration of Independence and Constitution. There can be no doubt that this it is from within that context his greatest works sprang forth.
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DHFabian
05:16 PM on 08/28/2009
An issue we continue to ignore: One of the leading causes of poverty is the lack of access to health care. We know the powerful link between poverty and illness/disability. In spite of this, the many tributes to Sen. Kennedy today disregard his advocacy for our poor, and recognition of the need establish a legitimate, non-punitive welfare system, such as the more modern nations have.

Sen. Kennedy's work on behalf of America's poor is being censored out, and this is an ugly insult to the senator. I urge people to go to http://www.ontheissues.org/Senate/Ted_Kennedy.htm to see for themselves where Sen. Kennedy stood on this issue.

Voted NO on welfare overhaul.
Status: Bill Passed Y)87; N)12; NV)1
Reference: Contract w/ America (Welfare Refm); Bill H.R. 4 ; vote number 1995-443 on

Sep 19, 1995
Voted NO on allowing state welfare waivers.
Vote on a procedural motion to allow consideration of an amendment to express the
sense of Congress that the president should approve the waivers requested by states
that want to implement welfare reform.
Reference: Bill S.1956 ; vote number 1996-208 on Jul 19, 1996

* Voted NO on welfare block grants. (Aug 1996)
* Voted YES on eliminating block grants for food stamps. (Jul 1996)
* Voted NO on allowing state welfare waivers. (Jul 1996)
* Voted NO on welfare overhaul. (Sep 1995)

--http://www.ontheissues.org/Background_Welfare_+_Poverty.htm
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Winning09
04:24 PM on 08/28/2009
Of course, few are commenting on the offering of the real Kennedy person here, the best speechwriter in the history of America ...
10:04 PM on 08/30/2009
Absolutely right. (And he also apparently deserved to -at least- share the Pulitzer for "Profiles in Courage").

A brilliant writer and a great and loyal friend. I only wish we could hear and read MORE (much more) from Ted Sorenson--and that he would pen some of Obama's speeches. Mr. Sorenson's inspiring and authentic words, spoken by yet another sincere and skilled orator, would be so wonderful to hear.

Thank you for your service to our country, Mr. Sorenson. In so many ways..
04:18 PM on 08/28/2009
Senator Ted Kennedy quoted a remark his brother Bobby often made all over the country in his eulogy to him in 1968;

"Some men see things as they are and say why. I dream things that never were and say why not."

Here is the way to fix health care for individuals, businesses, and taxpayers using governments “unfair advantage”.

Why not?

Nobody can collect the money to pay for health care as cheaply as the government can through a national sales tax and nobody can deliver high quality care and medications as cost effectively as the VA has for years.

Offering a choice to everyone in the United States to use either free public health care, funded by a national sales tax, or alternatively using private systems paid for with private funding, would allow proponents of each system the opportunity to use their choice and save taxpayers hundreds of billions of dollars annually doing it.

Going back and forth between free public, and user purchased private care, may suit some people, and it would provide unlimited choices, ultimate freedom, and always free public care would be available when it is needed or desired for everyone who asks for it, no restrictions.

As a volunteer in Wisconsin I distributed hand bills for Jack Kennedy’s presidential primary campaign.

Through my life I have had high hopes that the Kennedy magic could raise all boats, and it has raised many.

I still belive.
04:15 PM on 08/28/2009
Does "youth" now extend to age 60? That's how Ted Kennedy was, when he rousted his nephews out of bed for a rollicking evening in 1991 that ended very badly...

Or perhaps "youth" extends to age 41 -- his age when I met him in 1973 on Nantucket, when he was there regarding the rollicking mis-adventures of a different nephew. At the time, I was the 21-year old employee of the hotel that he was staying in during that court trial, and I had occasion to feel sexually threatened by him and his entirely male group of Kennedy relatives and friends, when I simply entered their hotel suite to perform a simple hotel work task.

At that point, I was only a fervent, young admirer of the Kennedys and nearly completely unaware of their attitudes and behavior with women. Yet I felt lucky to get out of there "intact"...

It's a shame, but true. Do I admire the honorable man he finally became after age 60, and the civil rights work he did to help people across many spectrums? Of course, yes.

He himself acknowledges most of his personal failures, and I think we honor him best by appreciating him fully.
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BARRISTER
06:24 AM on 08/30/2009
Yet, people like you gave and continue to give G.H.W. Bush and his sons lifetime passes on their behaviour, notwithstanding that they have done things which command inspection by the Law well past their fortieth birthdays. Moreover, I therefore take it that Cheney is still under 40??
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respectingothers
09:11 AM on 08/30/2009
you do none of us any favors. She's offering a small personal detail of her own life. I loved the Kennedy's as much as any one person can but that doesn't mean they weren't brought up in a culture that many would call "womanizing". some folks cultural customs are other folks crimes. but the difference that will save us is that we are willing to respect those differences in each other and live and learn to draw lines between us that keep us all feeling respected.

that's something I don't think Cheney et al will ever comprehend, but Ted Kennedy eventually became all the wiser... probably with the aid of a lot of help from folks who loved all the rest of this very complex man
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02:10 PM on 08/28/2009
Mr. Sorensen, you have written a wonderful tribute about a man you knew well. The world is a better place due to his service to our country. But it is well known that you being a part of the Kennedy brother’s political journey was a great asset – your words, your council and your friendship, made them all better men. So my condolences on the passing of a friend, but also many thanks for your service, as well.
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IssuesInFocus
09:57 AM on 08/30/2009
I also add my vote of thanks.
Mr. Sorenson I saw you at a media session at the Council of Foreign Relations a long time ago. On the other hand, I never met or saw Ted Kennedy in person; so thanks that with this piece you have put so much of what I think into words. There is no doubt, the late Senator grew in his later years to become a tremendous asset and leader in our country. I spend no time debating his 'warts' given we all have them, should we take time to look at ourselves.
I watched the final tributes teared up-- speechless; but grateful that this time around I am old enough and knowledgeable on issues to realize he was genuinely about service for the least among us. May his God welcome him with open arms, and may his legacy live on to future generations. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GisOAYMONzY