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Dear President Obama- Please Help Americans Rebuild Their Lives

Posted: 03/ 3/2012 5:00 pm

Dear President Obama,

Greetings to you, our First Lady Michelle and ofcourse your two beautiful daughters. Thank you for daring to take on the position of the presidency during such a tumultuous time in our country's history. I believe in you and so many others do too, thank you.

If I can have your attention for just 3 minutes, I do hope to return the gift of inspiration that you gave to me and this country back in 2007.

In April of 2011 I began an amazing empowerment outreach to teach women to overcome their biggest fear- failure. This fear holds women back from going after their dreams and leaving abusive situations because they are scared that if they lose everything, they wont be able to recover. I was afraid too. I wasn't in the best shape financially, had lost both my jobs and dropped out of grad school due to stress. I was afraid I'd end up homeless.

So what did I do? Instead of fighting tooth and nail to maintain what I had, I decided to face my fear head on. I gave away everything that I owned and became homeless on purpose to overcome my own fear of failure and to understand that if I can get through this issue, I would never have to fear it again.

This is what I called The Rebuild Your Life Project.

During the 4 months I was homeless in Hollywood, Florida I:

1) Researched and reported on the skills women need to survive mentally and physically
2) Raised money for a rental assistance grant
3) Interviewed countless homeless people about their mentalities and what brought them to that point in life
4) Organized a job fair for homeless women and women in distress. Sadly, this job fair- was a failure

Not only could I not find homeless women who wanted to work, I couldn't find the 30 businesses I needed to fill my quota. Although I had pledged to remain homeless until 30 businesses signed up for my job fair, I had to give up on that portion of my project and move on to securing a job for myself and moving myself up from homelessness.

I did that. I got a job as a waitress at Denny's Restaurant and was able to offer a $650 rental assistance grant to a woman through my own tips and wages. I saved enough to leave the homeless shelter and move into a house that I now share with roommates.

In order to make up for what I couldn't do during the project, I developed a jobs initiative that asks big businesses to give back to the communities that have made them successful by offering a mass hiring day event which is ONE DAY that they will open up their doors to interview people who need work and select from these people viable candidates and offer them employment.

Denny's Restaurants was the first to say YES and on December 20, 2011, we held our first hiring day event which attracted more than 100 unemployed residents of Miami-Dade and Broward counties. These residents were interviewed on the spot by representatives from 14 corporate owned restaurants.

I would like to expand this initiative to other businesses and I would love your support. Dear Mr. President, Would you please let me know what I can do to earn your support for The Rebuild Your Life Project's Jobs Initiative- United 9 To 5.

I can't wait to hear back from you.

All My Best Wishes,

Te-Erika
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Dear President Obama, Greetings to you, our First Lady Michelle and ofcourse your two beautiful daughters. Thank you for daring to take on the position of the presidency during such a tumultuous ti...
Dear President Obama, Greetings to you, our First Lady Michelle and ofcourse your two beautiful daughters. Thank you for daring to take on the position of the presidency during such a tumultuous ti...
 
 
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09:42 PM on 03/04/2012
This reminds me of the lesson I learned in school about the power of one person being able to infuse hope and action into a community that was stagnant and at a crossroads. I love your ability to defer your own comforts in the search for helping others. What a great contribution you have made. And another valuable lesson I've learned in life is that it is th giver who gains the best blessings in life.
03:17 AM on 03/04/2012
No College Degree? New data suggests jobs picture Is Bleak for those with out college degree, it is the reality get a degree from "High Speed Universities online
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DanielSC
02:07 AM on 03/05/2012
I think it is even bleak for those with a college degree (speaking as someone that has one)... more so in many cases because of the debt associated with it.
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12:24 PM on 03/05/2012
You sound like the Santorum accusing the President of saying high school students need to go to college to be successful. Not true. President Obama said you can go to a community college for whatever training they have in that part of the country or to a vocational school for job training..
09:53 PM on 03/03/2012
Dear Ericka...what's the rush? With any luck at all I can squander 4 more years while taking away constitutional rights and liberties in the process.
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Democrat in the South
Empathy, the most important word
11:18 PM on 03/03/2012
Republicans aren't wasting time either. They've been very busy taking away Americans rights.
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Sidley
12:24 PM on 03/05/2012
You have no "right" to entitlements like welfare, food stamps, free healthcare and the like. Those are gifts from the working people who pay their taxes. Your "rights" are quite different, like the pursuit of happiness. You have no right to be happy. . . just to pursue happiness. Carefully read the Constitution and the Bill of Rights. Democracts and Republicans often forget how this wonderful country of ours was built in the first place. The best there is on the plant but quickly destroying itself in "rights". Get a job....that's a "right". Behave yourself. There's another one. Shall I go on or do you now understand?
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Sidley
12:26 PM on 03/05/2012
Best there is on the planet I should have said. Just wanted to get the straight before some you spelling teachers jumped me. lol
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vobox3343
Each day is a new day - make the most of it
12:33 PM on 03/05/2012
Wow, I guess President has done what none other could do. He's apparently been able to take the rights of Republicans away, while the rest of us have kept ours. Unless, of course, you're just bearing false witness against this president.
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hawaiianstile
all hail the balance of nature.
09:49 PM on 03/03/2012
when i visited america recently, i went to Vegas, and Louisiana too. never was america's false claim of freedom more obvious to me. house or no house i dont go hungry, but a lot of places in america have no environment left to support life, and people have forgotten utterly how to live on their own power. its odd to me when people are begging to have their asses put to work. seeing people scraping through trash cans, begging others to give them something. without money they cannot even fathom a way to keep themselves alive, and the only way to get money is to be someones work horse. i wait for the day when people will demand some real freedom.
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....is politically radioactive.
08:32 PM on 03/03/2012
I am not the President or anything, but why is your program only about women?
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08:01 PM on 03/03/2012
Why was this issue which she mentions not given more time: "Not only could I not find homeless women who wanted to work..." ? Isn't this the very issue so many of us working poor rebel against when more and more of our taxes are taken to GIVE to others who don't want to work?
04:21 PM on 03/03/2012
Guts, inspiration, determination! G-d bless you! (And G-d bless Denny's, as well!)

What do you think was in the way of finding 30 homeless women who wanted to work? Was it childcare issues? The loss of assistance if wages were taken on? The overwhelming nature of being homeless?

Please keep sharing your experience so that we all may learn.