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The Real Mitt Romney

Posted: 10/10/2012 5:49 pm

Mitt Romney is unbelievable. Literally. On Tuesday the GOP presidential candidate told the Des Moines Register's editorial board: "There's no legislation with regards to abortion that I'm familiar with that would become part of my agenda."

With four weeks left until the election, Romney unquestionably needs to win over undecided voters by camouflaging his anti-choice stance. But he's on record championing some of the most extreme -- and more importantly, extremely unpopular -- tactics aimed at blocking women's access to basic reproductive health care, including abortion and birth control.

Throughout his campaign for president, Romney has said again and again that he would end funding for family planning clinics like Planned Parenthood that provide abortion services as part of a broader range of women's health care.

His own party's platform states: "We support a human life amendment to the Constitution and endorse legislation to make clear that the Fourteenth Amendment's protections apply to unborn children." Plain English translation: they support criminalizing abortion.

In October 2011, Romney told Mike Huckabee on FOX News that when he was governor of Massachusetts he "absolutely" would have supported a state constitutional amendment establishing that life begins at conception. Like the measure defeated in Mississippi earlier this year, such "fetal personhood" laws not only criminalize abortion, but would also outlaw popular forms of contraception, fertility treatment and stem cell research. Romney added, "My view is that the Supreme Court should reverse Roe v. Wade," and promised that he would send justices to the high court who would be inclined to do just that -- take us back to the days when abortion was criminalized in much of the country.

But somehow we're supposed to believe that a President Romney wouldn't pose any threat to reproductive choice? With a candidate this dishonest, voters have to decide for themselves which version would preside over the nation. Right-wing supporters of Romney are standing by the socially conservative incarnation of their guy.

Marjorie Dannenfelser, president of the anti-abortion Susan B. Anthony List, told USA TODAY:
"We have full confidence that as president, Gov. Romney will stand by the pro-life commitments he laid out in National Review in June 2011," including his promise to "advocate for a bill to promote unborn children capable of feeling pain."

I'm inclined to agree with Dannenfelser. In that National Review piece, penned by Romney himself, the candidate said: "If I have the opportunity to serve as our nation's next president, I commit to doing everything in my power to cultivate, promote, and support a culture of life in America."

Interestingly, Romney spokesperson Andrea Saul sent to the conservative National Review a stronger backtrack of her boss's latest pronouncement than the one she delivered more widely. In an email to the National Review, Saul had this to say: "Governor Romney would of course support legislation aimed at providing greater protections for life."

It's not hard to figure out why, where women's reproductive health care is concerned, Romney flips here, flops there, gives the old Etch-A-Sketch a good shake, and slicks out a sound bite for each new audience du jour. The simple reason: Romney's policy agenda for women's health is deeply unpopular with all voters, and especially women voters.

So now it has dawned on Romney that his unpopular positions may hurt him with the voters who are still up for grabs. So what does he do? Lie. Shape his message not to reality but to the goal of winning debates, winning votes, winning at all costs.

Here's my newsflash for Governor Etch-A-Sketch: Women are not fooled by his shape-shifting public persona. The real Mitt Romney is revealed by what he says in private, when the cameras aren't rolling (or so he assumes). In these unmasked moments, Romney has revealed a more accurate version of himself. He is the guy who glibly wrote off 47 percent of the U.S. population as lazy, irresponsible moochers. He is the guy who used his position as lay bishop to bully women in his church about their pregnancies, their health and their families. That guy's the real Romney.

Romney Knows Best

The following stories reveal just how chilling the real Mitt Romney can be. Repeatedly, he has shown himself to be a man who thinks he knows best what women should do with their bodies and how (or even if) they should raise their children.

Before entering politics, Romney served in several positions of authority in the Mormon Church. Judith Dushku, a Mormon feminist who stood up to Romney numerous times when she was in his congregation, shared with the Boston Globe and other media outlets her impression that Mitt's fleeting pro-choice stance was a strategic move to win votes when he ran for the U.S. Senate. Dushku said Romney told her face-to-face: "Well, they told me in Salt Lake City I could take this position, and in fact I probably had to in order to win in a liberal state like Massachusetts."

Dushku also brought to light the story of her friend Carrel Hilton Sheldon, a Mormon woman who discovered she had a blood clot while pregnant. With her life potentially at risk, this mother of four children decided to have an abortion, and she even got permission from the proper authorities in the church. But Romney tried to talk her out of it, shaming her with comments like, "Well, why do you get off so easy when other women have their babies?" He told her that "as your bishop, my concern is with the child."

And it wasn't just one incident. According to The New York Times, Janna and Randy Sorensen approached Romney in the early 1990s seeking his help in adopting a child. The church did not facilitate adoptions for mothers who worked outside the home, and the couple told Romney they thought the rule was unfair. But Romney would not proceed with helping the couple until he had convinced Janna to quit her job.

Ten years earlier, Romney similarly tried to twist the arm of Peggie Hayes when he was bishop in his local ward. As reported in Vanity Fair, Romney urged the 23-year-old single mother, whom his family had known quite well for years, to give up her soon-to-be-born second child for adoption. When Hayes informed Romney of her intention to keep and raise the child, his response was to threaten her with excommunication from the church.

Bully, lie, manipulate, threaten. Mitt Romney believes these tactics will get him what he wants. But I believe in the good sense of women voters throughout the country. And for the next four weeks, I'll be working along with thousands of NOW chapter leaders and activists to get the word out: Mitt Romney's real agenda is dangerous for women. Come Nov. 6, we will defeat Governor Etch-A-Sketch and re-elect President Obama, who actually means it when he says he is pro-choice.

 

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Mitt Romney is unbelievable. Literally. On Tuesday the GOP presidential candidate told the Des Moines Register's editorial board: "There's no legislation with regards to abortion that I'm familiar wit...
Mitt Romney is unbelievable. Literally. On Tuesday the GOP presidential candidate told the Des Moines Register's editorial board: "There's no legislation with regards to abortion that I'm familiar wit...
 
 
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10:35 AM on 10/13/2012
has your organization questioned the latest polls where POTUS and Mit are neck and neck on women's poll 47/47??
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DeloresT
Writer/retired teacher
09:14 PM on 10/24/2012
Hopefully, as we spread the word about that Mourdock guy, women will realize that Romney/Ryan will set women back 50 years.
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jackieblue93
I may make you feel but I can't make you think
01:16 PM on 10/28/2012
I agree Delores but I am thinking more than 50 years.
12:29 PM on 10/12/2012
This is so frightening. As a mother of 4, I don't really know what I would do if I had a life threatening pregnancy, that would leave my children motherless. But it would be my decision not a bunch of "men" in suits - that don't know me - that don't live near me - that have never been pregnant nor really care about what would happen to my family.
Women and men who love and respect women, BEWARE if he should be elected. Not to mention his running mate that is in the same category as the Missouri Congressman Todd Akin
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DeloresT
Writer/retired teacher
09:14 PM on 10/24/2012
Fanned!
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jackieblue93
I may make you feel but I can't make you think
01:31 PM on 10/28/2012
Agree Mom
I have no idea why any intelligent woman would cast their vote for Romney.

I will say this again: "People will show you who they are, believe them." Maya Angelou.
There is a story on here about a couple who "chose" to have a very ill baby. There are Republicans on there saying she made the right choice "but we shouldn't have to pay for the medical bills." Talk about hypocritical. Not to mention that this child has daily seizures and is in pain. Poor child.

Obama/Biden
ncchick79
Just do the right things for the right reasons...
01:46 PM on 10/11/2012
I still don't know who the real Mitt Romney is.
06:03 PM on 10/11/2012
The real Mitt is an arrogant plutocrat. He can never understand anyone who is not a millionaire. We nirmal folk are beyond his comprehension.
11:13 AM on 10/11/2012
The ones to ask about Romney are Massachusetts voters. They fell for his spiel and elected him governor. However, Romney was so unpopular after his first term that that he chose not to run for a second term. Romney is expected to lose Massachusetts in the Presidential election by double digits.
calidesigner
Progress Wins
12:01 PM on 10/11/2012
Wake up folks. His own state, once he decided which one it was, saw the results of all his confusing words. They paid the price, and got rid of him. We have the opportunity of doing so before we suffer the mess he leaves behind.
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realsurfin
Pardon me, can you help out a fellow American
10:39 AM on 10/11/2012
Women need to send Mitt Romney a pink slip... FIRE HIM AND SEND HIM HOME TO ANNE. Do not be persuaded by a man that is like a lying and cheating spouse... he tells you one thing.. then behind closed doors with his secret mistress he says things a total 180 degrees opposite what he is telling you....

he has lied his way this far by alienating the poor, women, seniors on social security, people on medicare, students, folks getting food stamps.. the military, the unemployed...

the truth with Mitt Romney comes out if you have 50 thousand to spend on a dinner with him and his supporters.. then he really lets the real Mitt Romney out. The Mitt ROMNEY that is not concerned with the lower 47 percent of the country... the folk that don't wine him and dine him.. the folk that have no money left for his private health care savings accounts or retirement accounts after they pay the day to day bills to live...

MITT ROMNEY ONLY CARES ABOUT MITT ROMNEY'S WORLD.. THE MITT ROMNEY BUBBLE... WHERE ALL HE SAYS IS ALL THAT MATTERS...

VOTE OUT MITT ROMNEY AND ANY AND EVERY ONE OF THOSE GOP REPUBLICAN CANDIDATES YOU CAN THIS NOVEMBER. Do not let Mitt Romney put another NEO Conservative judge on the supreme court.. Your rights and more importantly your children's rights depend on it.

OBAMA AND BIDEN 2012
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ncal
ON MY SOAP BOX
10:19 AM on 10/11/2012
Men must attempt to legislate reproduction, because they are powerless to do anything about it otherwise. Wise up! There is a reason she is called 'Mother Nature'.

The reason that the male/female dichotomy and power struggle is occurring now is because we have lost our original frame of reference. While males were always more physically commanding and mentally focused (think bearhunter), females held their own power and mystique because of their unique ability to create life. When the scientific knowledge grew to include sperm in the equation in an understandable way, women lost that hold. This right to make all decisions related to reproduction is an essential right that women must reclaim.
04:40 PM on 10/11/2012
If women make all reproductive decisions should men be responsible to contribute their tax dollars for reproductive issues they have no say in? I'm curious, does controlling these issues mean women are in charge of the man's contribution? I'm also assuming contraceptives should be the sole responsibility of the female. She's accountable for an unwanted pregnancy.

One final thought, while women create life they also destroy it when they have an abortion.
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kmsbears
09:40 AM on 10/11/2012
I have a very dear friend who is Jewish, a criminal defense attorney, former SDS, and passionate believer in Progressive causes. I am none of the above. We often discuss issues and I tell him it's hopeless to try and convert me at my age(we're both 63). Much of what he says sounds silly to me. Much of what I say, he discounts as cynical. I ascribe to him the title "True Believer" when it comes to the efficacy of government programs. He dismisses my views as giving up. Despite our differences of opinion, I would never dream of dismissing his as a liar or scoundrel. My friend would never stoop to such tactics in describing me. This president of NOW, in this ad hominem screed against Romney, has burned whatever rhetorical bridges existed between her organization and the potential next President of the United States. If Obama wins, it will be by the thinnest of margins. Ditto for Romney. Neither will have any type of mandate from the citizenry. The whole basis for politics since the beginning of time is compromise. This lady, with her scorched earth rhetoric towards Romney, has eliminated that possibility.
12:17 PM on 10/11/2012
I admire your goodheartedness, but is there anything like truth or lie in your world? What is so uncompromising about calling out a lie?....if I may ask.
ncchick79
Just do the right things for the right reasons...
01:50 PM on 10/11/2012
Your friend isn't a liar. He is being true to his convictions. You didn't mention that he changed his opinions in the years you have known him, so that means what he is true to what he believes. He isn't trying to confirm to your perspective. He is trying to convince you to open your mind but never once did you say he changed his perspective thirty times in one week. That, my friend to the rights, is the problem with Mitt. No one is saying what he believes is right or wrong. The fact is we don't know what he will believe in any given day. Tell him to stay consistent. But when a person change their story constantly....those people are rightly called liars.
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mike711l
The universe is laughing at you behind your back
09:14 AM on 10/11/2012
What Mitt needs are separate channels that only certain people watch. Then he could get on each one and state clearly his position as completely anti-abortion, go on the next channel and proclaim his tight to choose stance, then go on a third and say he will let each state decide for themselves.

Trying to be all things to all people just doesn't work when everyone sees you change your tune every five minutes!
calidesigner
Progress Wins
12:03 PM on 10/11/2012
Ah but Mitt is determined to try.
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mike711l
The universe is laughing at you behind your back
09:11 AM on 10/11/2012
The Real Mitt Romney? There ain't no such animal!
08:03 AM on 10/11/2012
Bully, lie, manipulate, threaten. Mitt Romney believes these tactics will get him what he wants.

Sadly, he's probably right.
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mike711l
The universe is laughing at you behind your back
09:15 AM on 10/11/2012
It's gonna be close but I don't think he can win.
calidesigner
Progress Wins
12:03 PM on 10/11/2012
It brought him vast wealth, and it could buy him power, if enough people don't wake up and realize this a wanna be king.
07:32 AM on 10/11/2012
my position will always be if you do not have a personal financial or soical stake in the child in question m.y.f.b and let the people in question make decisions based on how it affects them personally i get tired of your morality in my life and pockets
07:29 AM on 10/11/2012
The real Mitt is the guy that donated all his inheritance to Charities , ,, the guy that worked for No salary as president of the Olympics – 3 years. a guy that shut down his company, Bain, to help find a 14-year-old ........

Learn who Mitt Romney is , without Liberal Media filling your heads full of BS lies
http://mittromneycentral.com/mitt-romney-biography/
09:05 AM on 10/11/2012
get real
ncchick79
Just do the right things for the right reasons...
01:52 PM on 10/11/2012
ualfriend, thanks for speaking for all us common sense voters.
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mike711l
The universe is laughing at you behind your back
09:18 AM on 10/11/2012
he was already rich and didn't want to pay the taxes. Got Billions from the government for the Olympics and plenty of cash probably found it's way into the Mormon coffers. The 14 year old was the child of one of his wealthy partners but he wouldn't have done anything like that if the person was a janitor or something like that.

I don't need to watch whatever BS created by Mitt's people to know that he is WRONG for America.
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gigidemocrat
12:14 AM on 10/11/2012
This woman who lives in the swing state of Florida and voted for Obama last election is voting for Romney so there are many of us out here voting for Romney!
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mike711l
The universe is laughing at you behind your back
09:19 AM on 10/11/2012
Good for Mitt! At least he will have one person in FL voting for him. He will lose the state in a landslide though and the election is something approaching a landslide.
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gigidemocrat
07:54 PM on 10/11/2012
Guess what mikie,
Everyone I know is voting for Romney! Marco Rubio is taking many of the voters who voted for Obama last time! Watch and see!
12:04 AM on 10/11/2012
Romney's position on abortion is not hypocritical. His expression of it is nuanced. During the first debate, Mitt Romney's theme was consistent and simple: States' Rights. Now, the race is defined as States Rights vs. Big Federal Government. An agent of the Mormon Church, Romney idolizes states' rights. To gain an existential understanding of the cult that produced Mitt Romney, and to get your socks scared off, read The Assassination of Spiro Agnew, available in paperback and e-book on Amazon:

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=The+Assassination+of+Spiro+Agnew

Its unwilling, part-Mexican Mormon assassin dramatizes the Mormon superiority complex, manifesting it as racism, sexism, jingoism and an anti-federal government temperament. His research in the new library reveals ominous similarities between Islam and Mormonism. The spiritual power behind the cult, which is not the Holy Ghost, acts out.

"With a clarity of language and vision unsurpassed in contemporary American prose, Steven Janiszewski's Assassination of Spiro Agnew takes us into a U.S. mazed with madness and Mormonism and all things Utah, a U.S. that was then and still is. Do we need a novel, even as brilliant as this one, about a young man on a divine mission to assassinate the Vice President because he is too liberal? Yes, now more than ever. Readers, welcome to a masterpiece."
Tom Whalen
www.tomwhalen.com

Read The Assassination of Spiro Agnew.
11:52 PM on 10/10/2012
An unborn baby's inability to choose should trump a woman's choice to abort a fetus that is in the womb because she made a choice to put it there...except in cases such as rape and incest of course. Someone has to speak up for the unborn children that can't speak for themselves, but surely would if they could. Can anyone doubt they would choose life? Romney is much more likely to support the lives of unborn children than Obama.