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My To Do List For 2nd Marriage

(195) Comments | Posted June 24, 2012 | 1:00 AM

I'm getting married for the second time in August. I'm marrying a woman that I truly love, but I truly loved my first wife and that didn't work. So why get married again, when we could just live together?

Because for me being married is saying, "We're in this...

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He Stayed for Three Reasons, Would You?

(117) Comments | Posted May 21, 2012 | 7:00 PM

Interviewing people for the podcast, "My Picker Is Broken" ( and iTunes), I hear a lot of tales of woe, but Fred's story made me grateful for my own little ol' tale of woe.

Fred is fifty-two years old and was "married" for twenty-two of those...

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Should I Stay Or Go?

(9) Comments | Posted April 20, 2012 | 8:05 PM

"She's a therapist, he's a comic, and they're a couple."

Hi Pamela and Todd,

I need help. My husband of two years recently moved out. We've been together seven years and have been through quite a lot in those years. We've been through everything from high school graduations, college graduations...

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Is The Sixth Time The Charm?

(4) Comments | Posted March 8, 2012 | 5:36 PM

I interview people about their worst relationship choices for I had a thought, "I should interview my Dad. He's been married five times and getting ready for number six."

I've been a stand-up comic for over twenty years, I've seen a lot of very funny people, and...

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What Are The Warning Signs?

(14) Comments | Posted March 5, 2012 | 6:36 PM

"She's a therapist, he's a comic, and they're a couple."

Hi Pamela and Todd,

I'm wondering how much you can tell from the first fight of the relationship. Depending on what the first fight is about, can you predict the outcome?

When my ex and I started...

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What Do I Owe My Wife?

(14) Comments | Posted February 9, 2012 | 5:00 PM

Dear Pamela and Todd,

I am in a world of trouble and need guidance! 18 years ago I got an 18 year old pregnant; I was 10 years older and just having fun. We married after the child was born. We were a normal couple for about 12 years, having...

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Ask Pamela And Todd: She's a Therapist, He's a Comic and They're a Couple

(43) Comments | Posted January 19, 2012 | 8:50 PM

Dear Pamela and Todd,

I thought this might be a good place to turn to for advice since it pertains to a woman who happens to be divorced.

I met a really attractive and intelligent woman at a holiday party. She was her early 30's, a couple of years...

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Did You Settle When You Picked Your Partner?

(17) Comments | Posted December 29, 2011 | 4:10 PM

Pamela and I interview people about their worst relationship choices (podcast at iTunes and In one of our recent interviews, Brian, a 43 year old man that had been married for 12 years, told us his story.

I couldn't tell if Brian or his ex-wife sold...

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Trust Your Gut to Pick Your Partner

(477) Comments | Posted December 6, 2011 | 1:30 PM

I met a guy on the golf course one morning. Turns out he was recently divorced. I asked him when he knew the marriage wasn't going to work. He said, "Walking down the aisle. Walking down the aisle...and I just kept walking!"

The next day I'm on the same...

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