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The Art of Sleeping

Posted: 04/15/2012 11:32 am

I was in the elevator the other day with one of the new mothers on our team. I had to ask, "How's everyone sleeping?" Sleep is the hot topic these days, new mom or not -- who's getting it, how much and when?

I'm lucky that I have never needed a lot of sleep, but I know people who need at least eight hours. My brother is an early-to-bed, early-to-rise kind of guy, while my boys... well, you can imagine what the sleep patterns of teenagers are.

On The Tory Blog, we dedicated a playlist to the art of sleeping.

Dr. Samantha Boardman, a clinical instructor in psychiatry and public health and an assistant attending psychiatrist at Weill Cornell Medical College, wrote a column for The Tory Blog on why sleep is so important and how to get more of it.

Here is what Dr. Sam had to say on sleep:

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Doctors and sleep experts recommend anywhere between 6.5 and 8 hours of sleep every night. Too often, work, school, everyday worries, snoring spouses, crying babies and outside noises interfere with a proper night's sleep, and it's taking a toll on our bodies, brains and faces.

I spoke to renowned sleep expert Dr. Michael Breus, author of Beauty Sleep and The Sleep Doctor's Diet Plan.

"When we experience long-term exhaustion, disappointment in our productivity, illness, weight gain and general feelings of depression and dissatisfaction with life," he says, "few of us stop to consider the one thing that can alleviate, if not prevent, all that: sleep."

Sleep is transformative, he says. While sleeping, the body regulates hormones that control appetite and metabolism. During deep sleep, the body releases a growth hormone that has a rejuvenating effect on the mind and body. Dr. Breus considers sleep to be a "natural cosmetic" that restores skin elasticity, smoothes wrinkles, strengthens hair and nails and boosts metabolism.


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I asked Dr. Breus for some tips on how to get more sleep:

1. Rise. Shine. Repeat. Waking up at the same time every day sets your body on the right sleeping schedule regardless of the time you went to bed.

2. Let the Sun Shine In. Whether it's through the window or on your way to work, getting direct sun for 15 minutes every day helps your body reset its internal clock.

3. Have a Nap-a-Latte. If you need a midday pick-me-up, drink one cup of cool-drip coffee followed by a 20-minute nap before 2 p.m. The caffeine kicks in by the time the nap ends.

4. Schedule Coffee, Cocktails and Cardio. Eliminate caffeine after 2 p.m. Resist alcohol three hours before bedtime and stop exercising four hours before bed.

5. Make Your Bed. Clean Your Room. People sleep better in a made bed and a tidy bedroom. Change your sheets at least once a week. Invest time and money in a pillow and mattress that is comfortable for you.

6. "Turn Off" 60 Minutes Before Bed... Dr. Breus calls this the "Power Down Hour." No email, no video games, no work, no bills -- nothing stimulating or anxiety-provoking. Think 20 minutes for hygiene, 20 minutes for meditation, 20 minutes for relaxation.

7....Or Tune In. As counterintuitive as this sounds, it's okay to watch television in bed. Some people need it to turn their brain off. Try a half-hour sitcom. Avoid the news, action movies or stimulating reality shows.

8. To Read or To Be Read To. Try reading fiction, especially familiar stories, or have your partner read to you. Listening to an audio book works, too.

9. Warning: Over-the-Counter Medication. If you take over-the-counter "PM" medication more than 10 nights per month, Dr. Breus suggests talking to your doctor. Their effects can last for 12 hours and leave you feeling groggy. Also, they contain ingredients that may be harmful if taken regularly.

10. Melatonin: Natural Doesn't Mean Safe. Melatonin is a hormone that regulates sleep, and can be safe and effective when used properly, however most take too high of a dose. Before taking melatonin, discuss with your doctor.

Read more from Dr. Sam.

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I was in the elevator the other day with one of the new mothers on our team. I had to ask, "How's everyone sleeping?" Sleep is the hot topic these days, new mom or not -- who's getting it, how much an...
I was in the elevator the other day with one of the new mothers on our team. I had to ask, "How's everyone sleeping?" Sleep is the hot topic these days, new mom or not -- who's getting it, how much an...
 
 
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JewishPhysician
fraternity, trust, discourse
05:12 AM on 04/17/2012
Getting to sleep is always Bliss. Our children are deprived of sleep in our constructed schooling plans today as there is a little bit of greed on part of the school systems to keep the kids there very early regardless of their family structure. Either way, the fact is that the best you can do is live as free as possible and without an alarm whenever possible. Sleep is essential to health and humanity. We need our sleep and we should be given more forebearance to do so.

(how many children must use study hall hours and even class time to get their full amount of sleep?)
02:02 AM on 04/17/2012
My advice to add to #6 or #7: Set your alarm for bedtime (and/or "wind down" time) based on when you have to wake up. That way, you're reminded and not so tempted to push it ahead, especially when watching TV or reading or whatever.
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jeb50
Retired.
10:10 PM on 04/16/2012
I have been a big supporter of sleep for years. Don't feel good or just a little off. At least lay down. If sleep comes you needed it ,if it doesn't at least you body can relax. Sleep is a great healer. I've read "experts" say a bed is just to sleep and that's all you use it for. Bull. I do all my reading and writing when I'm on the bed. It is a great way for me to unwind from a day and causally work out problems. And on occasion I have found the solutions to problems in the twilight between being awake and falling to sleep. Naturally a good diet and active working hours are important but solid, deep sleep wither you need 3 hrs., or 5 are important. The time spent over 3 to 5 hours are going into or waking from deep sleep.
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Baryl
The answer to everything is BACON!!
09:10 PM on 04/16/2012
If you think your sleep patterns suck now, wait till menopause!!!!
05:35 PM on 04/17/2012
Yes, I have a "wardrobe" of 2 to 4 bed covers at all times, and have recently switched to short-sleeved silk shirts to sleep in.
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SeptimusDSX
Always question the obvious.
08:47 PM on 04/16/2012
From what I've experienced, stress seems to be my biggest factor in getting a good night's sleep. If I am stressed, I can't sleep well. Nothing else seems to really matter. I break all the "rules", such as exercising in the evenings (I have a set workout schedule), eating just before I turn in for the night and watching a show as I doze off.

I guess there are no hard and fast rules. It depends on the person. However, I do notice that a nice bed makes it easier. My bed is too soft, so more often than not (especially after a 13.1mi like today), I prefer the carpet.
06:08 PM on 04/16/2012
This doesn't address 2 problems:

1. What if your normal sleep time is at 2AM? I can't drink caffeine after 2PM?

2. My problem is that I wake after 4 hours and can't get back to sleep for about 1-2 hours. No problem GETTING to sleep.

Any help?
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jeb50
Retired.
09:49 PM on 04/16/2012
Melatonin.
11:35 AM on 04/17/2012
I sleep the same way, for years doctors etc have been trying to "fix" my sleep pattern with medication etc. After a visit to a new doctor and a little research, I found out that nothing is wrong with this way of sleeping. Here is an article from the BBC, check it out if you have a moment

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16964783
03:01 PM on 04/17/2012
Thanks for the link. Unfortunately, the 2 segment sleep arrangement doesn't allow for having to get up in the morning to get to work by 9AM. So I have to go to bed 2 hours earlier? Damn!
02:57 PM on 04/16/2012
When I have a hard time falling asleep, I ask my husband to tell me about his workday. Then I concentrate very hard on what he is saying--Boom!--out like a light! (I learned years ago that focusing on staying awake exhausts me.)
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MSROADKILL612
love auto biographys. any appS to write mine?
02:33 PM on 04/16/2012
ladies - dont read this - its too gross

but guys, seriously - use 2 liter/.5 gal plastic milk bottles as ensuites - they even have good sealing lids if u r fussy about natural aromas

dont even have to get out of bed really

works in gridlock too
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MSROADKILL612
love auto biographys. any appS to write mine?
02:17 PM on 04/16/2012
to be the devils advocate & perhaps sound a tad snotty unintentionally

am retired & love the freedom of staggered & random sleep

i am an insomniac but i dont fight it - if i cant escape a mental iteration - i get up & do stuff til am tired & sleep til whenever - hard to sleep in arvo in my room in summer tho - must change rooms

what a dull, regimented existence the author must lead - no room for spontaneity in her existence

such folks get more "done", but its arguable they have better lives

lottsa folks have strange sleep, bartenders, cabbies, shift workers, work from home global support long distance freight, pilots...

not all hate it

a mates dad slept max 3hrs & was a v smart cookie - so jealous
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Cassandra45
"Let us do our best, even if it gets us nowhere."
02:12 PM on 04/16/2012
I like the part about taking a little 20-min. nap around 2 PM, after your cool-drip coffee. Since I'm unemployed, I could probably actually do this, but I've never had a boss in my life who would be ok with a little 20-min. nap right around 2 PM. Of course, being unemployed means I'm getting better sleep because I don't have to get up at 6:30 AM anymore.
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12:33 PM on 04/16/2012
as anyone who is unable to sleep well can testify, none of the above works. insomnia is caused by mild physical distress related to digestive system for most unable to sleep. cause and cure.
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MSROADKILL612
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02:19 PM on 04/16/2012
rot - sure isnt my tummy that keeps me awake - its my brain or not being tired enough
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isfturtle
07:43 PM on 04/16/2012
Insomnia has different causes for different people.
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bushitbrain
11:03 AM on 04/16/2012
Obviously missing from this NewAge/BookSales sleep advice (apparent to anyone who just thinks about it), is weed.
Cannabis is The Greatest sleep inducer & maintainer Ever. Period. Alcohol, Exactly the opposite. And of course, pot leads to sex before sleep, which even enhances its hypersomnia. So dispense w/all these protocols which sound more detailed than a 747 pre-flight check list, which no one can manage to perform w/any regularity.
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MSROADKILL612
love auto biographys. any appS to write mine?
02:24 PM on 04/16/2012
alcohol is an upper, not a downer
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ifihadlegs
Green New Deal & Jill Stein 2012
04:12 PM on 04/16/2012
Alcohol is not a stimulant; it is a depressant. It slows the central nervous system.
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AlfredE69
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08:24 AM on 04/16/2012
For me, a few tokes of cannabis will put me to sleep.
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alafonse
It's definitely a crap-shoot.
07:30 AM on 04/16/2012
I do watch the late news but don't generally find it upsetting, I'm mainly interested in the weather. When the sports comes on at about 10:20 pm my time, me and hubby head for the bedroom. Usually by 10:30-10:45 I'm dead in the water.
I do take Suntheanine for anxiety,which I find very helpful with sleeping well.
We have a memory foam bed for our old aching joints, which also helped me sleep much better.
If I can get 6 hours of solid sleep (with maybe one bathroom break), I'm good to go. If I get 8 hours or more, I'm like a zombie coming out of a coma when I get up and it takes me 2 hours to get on my feet for the day.
gotch
..just having my say...
07:05 AM on 04/16/2012
I Always want to know what's going on around the world and it's really hard to go sleep early with the internet and cable TV.

6 hours of sleep is enough for me.