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Obama and Me

Posted: 08/04/11 10:00 AM ET

We're pretty much the same age, similarly overeducated and both raised in predominantly white neighborhoods (but I'd trade Oahu for Hamden, Connecticut, any day of the week). We're both recovering nerds and his meteoric rise was like rocket fuel to my own love life when I was single.

We're both corny, old-fashioned patriots and pretty hawkish for Democrats. I wrote a play about the Tuskegee Airmen that continues to tour around the country and that centers around his historic election. Though I haven't met him since I gave $100 to one of his senatorial fundraisers, the Ivy Buppoisie being only but so big we have more than a few friends in common. I'd like to think that we could be friends.

That doesn't stop me, however, from vociferously criticizing some of the decisions he and his administration have made and their negotiating tactics. I haven't gone down the road of Professor Cornell West but I am concerned, dismayed and depressed by several of the president's positions since taking office.

And hopeful.

It is extremely difficult judging someone whom you feel is so much like yourself. It can't help but make you reflect on your own psyche, your own imperfections. I had one of the most insightful conversations of my life with Stanford's Dean of the School of Education Claude Steele about how difficult it is for black men to pivot from ambitious striver to Head-Negro-In-Charge. The very skills we had to develop to navigate the treacherous waters of white underestimation: the conciliation, the perpetually even temper, the disarming charm are not always the most effective if we ever actually make it to the top of the heap.

The pivot to becoming the "decider," as the president's predecessor put it, the one who no longer has to care so much what everyone below him thinks, is a terrifically hard one to make. It takes time to understand that you no longer have to react to a received reality but with will and constancy you can create a new one.

It's like moving from dancer to DJ.

Our president is clearly one of the brightest to ever hold office. His political team refreshingly, clinically ruthless for Democrats. Despite the many missteps of this first term I am hopeful that in a second, freed from the need to ever again campaign, President Obama will finally help usher in change that we can believe in.

 
 
 

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We're pretty much the same age, similarly overeducated and both raised in predominantly white neighborhoods (but I'd trade Oahu for Hamden, Connecticut, any day of the week). We're both recovering ner...
We're pretty much the same age, similarly overeducated and both raised in predominantly white neighborhoods (but I'd trade Oahu for Hamden, Connecticut, any day of the week). We're both recovering ner...
 
 
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lgillooly
07:20 PM on 09/29/2011
I think you are right. When they asked some big honcho on Wall St "Why do you guys hate the President? He has done a lot to help you out. The guy answered because the more we complain, the more he does for us.
Same with the smears, lies,attacks and propagnda from talk radio. I know he can't call them out specifically, but where are the people around him to call Rush and Hannity and the other corporate lobbyists disguised as media hosts out when they misinform and make things up out of thin air.
26 percent of R voters STILL believe he was not born here. 12 percent of R voters think he is Muslim.....Call these liars out. Obama has to be clear and strong in his convictions and recognize the opposition party is lead by the likes of Rush Limabaugh. Don't spend a second on trying to compromise or on bipartisanship because their main goal is to see him fail.
GuiltyUndertaker
no se mata la justicia!
09:21 AM on 08/05/2011
If Obama had ushered in the change we can believe in, there would be close to 300 Democrats in the House of Representatives and likely 70 Democratic U.S. senators. He campaigned as a progressive, but has turned into a sepia William Jefferson Clinton. If he's a one-term president it will be because he wasn't the type of president you want him to be in his second term. He squandered so much political capital in 2009 it was heartbreaking and disgusting.
09:14 AM on 08/05/2011
I have a hard time criticizing Obama. Anytime I disagree I ask myself how can he operate when he is faced by supporters of Glen Beck and people like the Tea Party who have not the slightest idea of what government does and why it is important to do what it does. Poor people fight the very things which keep them from being homeless. The thought of the Republicans who created the debt getting back into power is truly terrifying. America may be shaky now but if the republicans get back into power it will fall over.
wbearl
Retired Manager Mechanical Operations
08:37 AM on 08/05/2011
President Obama is a campaigner, it is what he does best and likes to do. President Obama isn't a leader and has no idea how to deal with the daily problems of being President. If he was smart he would gracefully retire and spend his days in Hawaii thinking about how great he thinks he was.
abetterplace
Capitalistic reverand
07:36 AM on 08/05/2011
That's exactly what all of us hard working, conservatives are worried about. It's the "glue" that will keep us together.
06:10 AM on 08/05/2011
LOL....you keep your "brightest," America needs a leader.
01:24 AM on 08/05/2011
I, me, mine.
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12:56 AM on 08/05/2011
I'd be surprised by this commentary, except that I've heard the exact same line from Tavis Smiley and from Al Sharpton.

Sharpton went a step further, during a 60 Minutes interview this Spring: "...if he finds fault with Mr. Obama, he'd be aiding those who want to destroy him. So he has decided not to criticize the president about anything..."

Professor Ellis, would you still be "hopeful" if the President were Hillary?

Exactly.

I would suggest that we have to get past every "ism" out there, including racism.

Because the real issue is class warfare, and the rich (including Obama) don't care about the race or sex or sexual preference of the Medicare and Social Security recipients whose lives they are about to ruin.

It's all of us against them. And they're winning.
11:56 PM on 08/04/2011
"Our president is clearly one of the brightest to ever hold office"' Even if so, one of the least experienced. "His political team refreshingly, clinically ruthless for Democrats." Agreed, a decidedly socialist if not communist agenda. Socialists no longer need to offer a slate of candidates with the Democratic Party platform in place. "Despite the many missteps of this first term I am hopeful that in a second, freed from the need to ever again campaign, President Obama will finally help usher in change that we can believe in." Having both houses of Congress since 2006 to last November, whar exactly has he not been able to change legislatively? Whar won't he be able to do administratively do to 2013? He knows little else except to campaign.
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msstrick40
OBAMA 2012..and you know this.
01:04 AM on 08/05/2011
"Having both houses of Congress since 2006 to last November, whar exactly has he not been able to change legislativ­ely?"

Wouldn't that be a question best posed to congress?? Cause as I remember it...and I am..and will always be a democrat...but our democrats..yes in both houses...really dragged their feet in a lot of ways...until the lame duck session last year.
Paulo1
Thanks for reading, (even if you disagree)
07:24 AM on 08/05/2011
Easy answer: They were doing exactly what loyal Democrats were supposed to do. They were waiting for leadership from their President. You seem to feel that they should have handed him bills to sign on a silver platter. (Like Leibermann and Collins did with DADT) That's not what a party is supposed to do when their man is in the White House. They are supposed to rally around the bold initiatives and deliver the votes. Obama didn't give them one single battlecry. He negotiated with Republicans and has left the Dems to stand alone.
11:43 PM on 08/04/2011
I fail to see any treacherous waters, whether they existed for you or for the current occupant of the White House. In fact, during the last 35 years, the doors have been WIDE open and other than having a personal chauffeur, anyone of color had a clear advantage whether it was for education or jobs. Within your prose, you are playing the race card and with that capriciously thrown into the verbal mix, it prolongs false information along with being a feeble attempt to rewrite history.

It's great - you got to ride the "Obama wave" for essentially getting laid. How proud your parents must be. The concerns I have are that an educated man as yourself didn't recognize who, how and what was behind Obama's meteoric rise. As for your comment about him being "bright," I must disagree. When his only strength is to play the blame game, or campaign continuously without regard to the real agenda back home, Houston, we have a problem. In some circles it's known as the "burn rate."
Genders
Love, Tolerance, Enlightenment
11:16 PM on 08/04/2011
I love Obama personally, but he is DLC Reaganomics disaster. Sorry.

Obama caved when he did not have to, on the three most important issues of the day: The bush tax cuts, the Debt ceiling, and the recess appointments.

He's a sellout. Charming and intelligent as he is. Sorry.

The CPC needs to leave the corrupt and doomed Democratic party NOW, there will never be a better time. Please give us a real liberal chioce!
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09:59 PM on 08/04/2011
proving once again one of PT Barnum's more famous sayings.
10:36 PM on 08/04/2011
You got that right, eh.
09:02 PM on 08/04/2011
Me? I cannot wait until the Prez starts his 2nd term and proceeds to crush all these detractors. THIS is what the conservatives have nightmares about: The Obama 2nd Term. Game on, folks. It's gonna be sweet! And I'm going to work my butt off to see that it happens.
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10:03 PM on 08/04/2011
since you are expert on fairy tales whats your thoughts on unicorns?
10:40 PM on 08/04/2011
He doesn't believe in unicorns. That would be childish and naive! He believes in hope and change (delivered by politicians who are sponsored by Wall St., the Banking sector and big Insurance.)
Genders
Love, Tolerance, Enlightenment
11:17 PM on 08/04/2011
Obama caved when it counted. Bush taxes, Debt ceiling and recess appointments. It's too late, Obama failed.
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WillofthePeople
Do YOU consent to toxic govt? Change ur thinking!!
08:40 PM on 08/04/2011
Obama is a mediator... a people pleaser... NOT a leader. And I don't see any other candidate that's better.
01:23 AM on 08/05/2011
that's unfortunately, very true...
02:53 AM on 08/05/2011
Obama is not a people-pleaser. He pleases no one: the Republicans whom he serves hate his guts.
07:58 AM on 08/05/2011
Well put!
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07:47 PM on 08/04/2011
That's nice, but we don't have 4 years of on the job training for Presidents. That is why Hillary would have been the better choice. She was ready Day 1 to go in and lead, and govern, and make the tough decisions. This was the worst time to get an academic who couldn't step up and take on the GOP and instead caved all the way. If Obama wasn't ready, he shouldn't have run. We didn't and still don't have the time to wait for him to become a leader.
daltexdude
Equality. Now.
08:25 PM on 08/04/2011
I agree with you -- the first term of a presidency is not a trial run, as many Obama apologists would like to think. I just wish he had a spine and convictions to do the right thing, not the political thing.
09:15 PM on 08/04/2011
Some of us did vote for Hillary in the Primary's. Too bad the American public was already suffering from 2 Bushes to see the light of what was to come. Hillary wouldn't have rolled over for the Repubs.
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Osmona
Its GREAT to be alive and SANE.
09:12 PM on 08/04/2011
No president EVER has experience being president UNTIL he beomes president. Not even Hillary.
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msstrick40
OBAMA 2012..and you know this.
01:06 AM on 08/05/2011
Thaaaaaaank yooooooou.
Paulo1
Thanks for reading, (even if you disagree)
07:33 AM on 08/05/2011
False. There have been many Presidents who hit the ground running and didn't need a full first term training session. FDR for one.