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Trish Kinney

Trish Kinney

Posted: December 17, 2009 09:57 AM

Oprah and the Obamas Hit the Wrong Note at Christmas

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Do you think it is a sign of the times, or a sign of the administration, that Oprah hosted the White House Christmas television special this year? It is enough to make you long for the good ole days when Jackie Kennedy gave the American people a tour of the White House in black and white on CBS with Chris Collingwood. That was 1961, pre-social networking, pre-we have to know everything about everyone's life. Jackie's idea of the "people's house" was to preserve its history by acquiring objects and works that were historically significant funded by private donations at the direction of a Fine Arts Committee. She did a lovely voice over in the program using archival photographs and wonderful stories of the evolution of the White House before she appeared to speak about her restoration efforts and the magnificence of the building she and her family temporarily called home for such a brief time.

Fast forward to 2009 and you have Oprah hanging out with her pals chatting them up about whether they can really believe they get to live there. Greeting the first couple with a kiss and a hug, the three of them seemed almost giddy. Bo made an appearance that made us regular dog owners green with envy. Perfectly groomed, shiny coat, with holiday bells on, and oh so well trained. He gave two high fives to the First Lady and then Oprah wanted one for herself. As the owner of an 8 month old puppy, let's just say I couldn't relate.

There were a few segments about certain rooms and why they were decorated as they were. And we got a quick peek at how the huge gingerbread house was made and a very quick look at the older couple who provided the national tree. How interesting it would have been to find out how they felt about being selected for that honor. I actually thought the show was going to be about the White House and its Christmas traditions. But that took a back seat to the personal angle, Oprah's trademark.

I know they have made a decision not to parade the kids around on camera after they made that mistake once during the campaign. But I, for one, am tired of hearing about how smart and beautiful and healthy and happy they are. I'm sure they are all those things but I don't want to know about their sleepovers with Secret Service close by and I sure didn't want to know what I recently read about Sasha flying friends in to visit since the family doesn't get back to Chicago all that often. It just makes me think about all the children in this country who are poor and hungry, who are abused and neglected, and whose parents are out of work.

And we could have done without the gift giving chat where the President claimed to give better gifts than he receives. The First Lady objected but then had to admit that the spectacular pearl necklace she was wearing with the diamond clasp, an anniversary gift from her husband, wasn't bad at all, urging him to keep up the good work. And as to the Christmas season in the White House, the First Lady said there were a lot of parties.

A more formal look at the White House itself, its Christmas traditions and its breathtaking history would have been more appropriate at this time, more patriotic. And a little journalistic decorum never hurt anyone. But to throw a limited amount of serious political talk, almost token talk, into such a personal format felt off. A little touch of war, a little touch of peace prize, and a little grading of his own performance so far was just too lightweight, considering our current national circumstance.

President Obama is in danger of being overexposed on television and it would do him good to remember what we used to love about him during the campaign. His sweeping rhetoric, the way he could make us believe in things that have always seemed just out of reach, the way he gave us hope in the midst of our collective despair. Frankly, I don't want to know what it is like for him to live in the White House and look out his window at the girls' swing set from the Oval Office or that his wife occasionally looks at him sitting behind the presidential desk and wonders what he's doing there. I would rather imagine what all that is like for him. What we need from him is seriousness, earnest contemplation, and reassurance that everything is going to be ok.

A little less "Baby It's Cold Outside" and a little more "O Christmas Tree". Maybe next year ABC could get Arianna.


 
 
 
Do you think it is a sign of the times, or a sign of the administration, that Oprah hosted the White House Christmas television special this year? It is enough to make you long for the good ole days ...
Do you think it is a sign of the times, or a sign of the administration, that Oprah hosted the White House Christmas television special this year? It is enough to make you long for the good ole days ...
 
 
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06:00 AM on 12/21/2009
This author says she THINKS about all the poor and hungry children around the country but she nevers goes in to any detail about what SHE HAS DONE to help them in an effort to compare and contrast her own experiences with that of the OBAMAS at Christmas. This article hits all the wrong notes.
06:50 PM on 12/20/2009
Nothing personal against any of them, but the show was poorly written, without any real focus/point of view. It vacillated between too chummy and too lightweight- couldn't decide what it wanted to be.
Was half-expecting them to burst out in 'Solid like Barack' (a. la SNL variety show)...
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04:58 PM on 12/19/2009
Are you guys provided some financial incentive to criticize anything and everything about the Obamas?

I watched is special and other than that ridiculous question on "grading yourself" it was quite lovely. In fact, I must have received a half dozen calls reminding me it was on television.
01:44 AM on 12/19/2009
I didn't see the special. I wasn't interested, and I'm not an Oprah fan. That being said. I don't see what harm was done. If anything it's a time to put aside the pettiness, and celebrate the tradition of the Presidency and White House. It's a time to put aside politics.

I wasn't a fan of Bush the president. But I enjoyed seeing him as a loving husband and father.

First Lady Kennedy was a lovely woman, but that special was 48 years ago. I'm sure it's up on YouTube if you really need to see it.

Even if you didn't enjoy it, it seems like millions did.
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01:17 AM on 12/19/2009
I am nuts for the historical significance of Obama and i didn't watch it. Enuf said.
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AmericanLeslie
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09:46 PM on 12/18/2009
Well, next year you can volunteer to do the staging and the interviews and just maybe you'll stop whining and complaining that they didn't do it the same way you thought it would be done!
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WiltonDiary
The Obamas: American exceptionalism at it's best!
05:50 AM on 12/19/2009
Well said: Thanks.........
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janie@atthelake
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11:53 AM on 12/19/2009
Thanks from me as well.
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DrCardio
05:29 PM on 12/18/2009
I think you need a man in your life, and preferably one from this century. You sound almost resentful and angry for the first family. I'm happy you loved the year of the bay of pigs, and the introduction of the Ken doll, but things have changed since you sealed the underground shelter. Welcome back; good luck adjusting.
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11:57 AM on 12/22/2009
We caught the same "jealous" vibe from the article. We are not in the 1960's and are glad about that.
04:18 PM on 12/18/2009
I agree Oprah's show was disappointing. I was hardly about Christmas or the White House. Just about Oprah. I guess that's to be expected from her by now. I'm hoping the HGTV White House Christmas show this weekend is more like what we've seen in the past... the decorating process and how splendid the White House looks during the holidays. I read that it's on Sunday night at 8 in most of the country. I saw a preview of the show here:
http://www.hgtv.com/white-house-christmas-2009/show/index.html
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DrCardio
05:29 PM on 12/18/2009
I fell asleep half-way through your comment.
02:13 PM on 12/19/2009
You're right! I love Oprah, now. Thanks for helping me reconsider!
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amyhasopinions
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03:16 PM on 12/18/2009
Mom? Is that you?

(I swear, my very right-wing, traditionalist mom could have written this very article.) (For example, she gets really wigged out when she hears updated versions of Bing Crosby holiday tunes..."it's just not right!" she says, over and over, "It's just not right to take the old and make it new!")

When a person becomes President, life flips. It's just how it is. This is how the Obamas are doing it. Doesn't make it right, doesn't make it wrong. Over all, they're a sweet family. I thought the same about the Bushes (as a family, lord knows, not him as a President).

I guess the un-traditional angle they're taking doesn't phase me quite as much. Change isn't always bad, sometimes it just is (mom). :-D
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NotMcCain
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02:43 PM on 12/18/2009
Uh, the point of the special was to show that our First Family is a nice, intelligent family who, yes, ARE just "temporarily inhabiting" our national home as they try to restore dignity, warmth, humanity, and HONESTY to the White House.

They're human, not paragons (despite the admitted perfection of Bo). And they're doing a great job at a terrible job.

If they didn't hug Oprah--a close personal friend--you would criticize them for being phonies.

I thought it was fun and informative and something that kids might actually be interested to watch (rather than Jackie's breathy tour of the historic WH). Not to detract from other inhabitants of the WH (except a few), but the Obamas bring their own style and personally I find it refreshing.
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02:40 PM on 12/18/2009
Just curious - if we ever have a President who isn't a Christian, will he/she be forced to host a "Christmas special"? And yes, I know they do have a Hanukkah party and note the observance of holidays of other faiths, but this is a whole different level.
02:06 PM on 12/18/2009
I think our president should at least give the impression of being the strong individual that we voted into office. For me, the President was acting more like someone who just got invited over to visit the White House, and was "telling" what it was like. Being interviewed by Oprah, along with all the hugs and kisses, put our own president into the same category as all of the other of Oprah's conquests. Our country is struggling with war and poverty and we need a leader, not a friend.
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DrCardio
05:34 PM on 12/18/2009
Our country is resolving the war and poverty caused by the previous administration. Look how far a militant, strong, cold, and hostile presidency dragged us down, and alienated us from the world community. We are not special, we are just another civilization who was lucky enough to corner the markets on the food industry and paralyze all the other countries in the world from growth. Maybe its time to throw a little human nature into the mix, and see how far that takes us.
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ramblin jack
10:19 PM on 12/19/2009
Started by the previous admin and continued by the present one.
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11:44 AM on 12/18/2009
What did you expect? It was Oprah, after all. Blah blah blah.
10:57 AM on 12/18/2009
I am one of the unemployed also struggling to stay afloat and I enjoyed the Christmas special. It was nice seeing the Obama's in the white house Christmas setting, and they seemed as agh about it as I would. I liked that they changed out the presidents pictures in the hallway to reflect a Christmas theme. So what if they get to go to Hawaai for Christmas. I'm sure you live a rich lifestyle and do not serve the homeless children lunch everyday.
11:52 AM on 12/18/2009
I agree. The special was excellent. And Oprah asked about all the unemployed people & how they can have hope during Christmas. I thought the show struck the perfect balance. All the serious issues of the day were discussed, but we still got to see the fun side too.
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Curandera
10:18 AM on 12/18/2009
Wow, you're really in the Christmas spirit aren't you.

Did you happen to hear anything about something called the "Vietnam War" and the "Civil Rights Movement" when you were doing your research of the Jackie O Christmas special. You know there was economic turmoil at that time too.

Here's some more research for you. Yes, some of the money for the renovations was done with private donations but some was at taxpayer's expense. And some was done with the Kennedy's own funds. Do you know where that money came from? From Grandpa Joe Kennedy and his investment in "bootlegging." Bootlegging was the drug war of its time - illegal booze. I don't know where Jackie's family's money came from but I know she was born in it.

Frankly, I still love the Jackie special but I don't need to denigrate the Obama's to appreciate it.

And finally, for those who posted that they should have canceled it, did you happen to catch the hissy fit some Senator made when President Obama preempted the Charlie Brown Christmas Movie that can be rented for $5.00 at a video store to announce his Afghanistan strategy? He was lambasted and called a Muslim (and not in a tolerant way) by a US Congressman. Can you imagine how he would be crucified (yes, that word is intentional) if he had canceled the Christmas special?

Really, the criticism of this President and his family is absolutely disgusting.
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DrCardio
05:36 PM on 12/18/2009
Great post, I totally agree with you. Some people just need to make friends and find happiness from within.
06:38 PM on 12/18/2009
exactly, and stop pining for a perfect president while riddling him with holes over inconsequential issues.
11:21 PM on 12/18/2009
fanned