Troy Roness
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Troy Roness is a 25-year-old exercise/eating disorder survivor and advocate from North Dakota.



He is honored to serve as the Inaugural United States Male Representative for the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) Junior Board, the Inaugural United States Male Advisory Board Member and Facilitator for the global eating disorders organization, Mentor-connect, Project Director for NORMAL in Schools, and former Advisory Board Member for the National Association of Males with Eating Disorders (NAMED).



He currently loves writing for PBS’ This Emotional Life and The Huffington Post and participating nationally in documentaries, media interviews, PSAs, and webinars and with news stations on the topics of exercise addiction/eating disorders, recovery, self-esteem, and healthy body image.



It wasn’t until he was nearly 20 years of age that he realized his exercise habits and eating patterns had completely taken control of his life. Following a guest appearance on the Dr. Phil Show in January 2009, he entered a residential eating disorder facility for an 81-day treatment regimen.



After his return home, he realized that he hadn’t conquered all the inner demons that had subconsciously robbed him of life, eventually pulling him farther down than he had ever been before. After admitting that his struggles were still alive and well, he re-entered himself into treatment, ironically for another 81 days. This time, he tackled his fears, inner demons, and distorted views. He then grasped hold of recovery, a strong faith, his health, and, ultimately, his life. He believes each day is a gift from God, who not only gave him a second chance at life but a third, and he fully intends on using past experiences to motivate and support others who are dealing with similar struggles.



In reflecting on his recovery and as an educator and graduate student, his priority is to promote and provide the safest and healthiest learning environment for youth and their families. By bringing this “taboo” and “underground” issue to the surface, he believes it will ultimately save thousands of lives.



Troy has been blessed with opportunities to speak to thousands of people in North Dakota and reach millions of people across the United States and world. He loves when he can reach out in many ways, speaking on behalf of males and spreading the message that recovery is possible.



Attending Minot State University in Minot, N.D., he graduated (with honors) with a B.S.E. in Health/Physical Education and Minor in Athletic Coaching in 2008. Presently, he is pursuing his masters degree (M.Ed. C/S) in Education and Cognitive Science from Minot State University, as well.



In his free time, Troy enjoys music, sports, spending time with family and friends, and being outdoors reflecting on God’s amazing work.

Blog Entries by Troy Roness

Call Me a 'Milksop' All You Wish, But I'm No 'Yes Man'

(2) Comments | Posted May 26, 2012 | 3:09 AM

What are we going to do about all of the "non-manly" guys running around the United States? Apparently, the great assumption is that by engaging in activities ranging from military exercises to boy scouting, we could eliminate the "problem" altogether.

I am 100-percent in support of greater parental involvement...

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A Maverick?

(1) Comments | Posted May 14, 2012 | 12:47 PM

I have always had a difficult time finding out where I stand concerning the various spectrums of today's society. Growing up gay; being "born again" in my teens and a strong Christian; having a mixed family; being faced with the potential struggles and choices associated with family; alcoholism and much,...

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Consistency From Hypocrisy

(0) Comments | Posted May 9, 2012 | 4:50 PM

If you find yourself in this world speaking out as an activist or advocate, passionately voicing your opinions for the good of your fellow man, don't make waves for the sake of being different. Do it because you wholeheartedly believe in what you're fighting for.

I and Matthew David,...

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Through a Shocking Epiphany, I'll Stand with You

(1) Comments | Posted April 11, 2012 | 2:55 PM

Through the process of completing a class for my graduate program, I had a very eye-opening experience concerning my sexuality, my faith, my eating disorder, my emotional hurt, etc., and knew that others in my position would benefit from the words circling inside this 10-pound bobble on my shoulders.

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Labels Bite: Feeding Your Recovery, Relationships, and Others' Education

(0) Comments | Posted March 26, 2012 | 8:27 PM

Since my "coming out" piece in February, I have received, for the most part, positive feedback. However, the topic of how my sexuality and my recovery from an eating disorder might tie together continues to be a troublesome one to bring up without eliciting anger and frustration from...

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The Voice of Conscience: Use It

(0) Comments | Posted March 5, 2012 | 9:55 AM

What if you could conquer something straight away, or speak various words that were able to move the world today? Well, the time is now, because for the first time in our lives, we can know we'll be OK.

I'm not going to spend my entire existence seeking something that...

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It's Time: Yes, I'm Gay, and I'm Unapologetic

(137) Comments | Posted February 17, 2012 | 7:53 PM

Growing up in North Dakota in an environment abundant with oceans of wheat, vast plains, rolling hills, and wonderful people, it's hard to believe that such a tumultuous journey could lie ahead in a young man's life.

To each outcast, in every sense possible, this piece is for you.

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PBS' 'This Emotional Life': Objective vs. Subjective: How to See the Real You

(1) Comments | Posted January 31, 2011 | 8:15 AM

Look in a mirror and one thing's sure; what we see is not who we are. -- Richard Bach

It's 5:55 AM and I'm turning over to start the day. I stumble to the bathroom and begin to prepare myself for what may come. I used to dread those first...

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PBS' 'This Emotional Life': When It Comes to Eating Disorder Recovery, Avoid the Endless 'Whys'

(0) Comments | Posted January 24, 2011 | 7:39 PM

Instead of constantly asking why things have happened in my life, I've come to the conclusion that the best way to find out is to gradually admit that I may never know.

As I remember a time when I stared down at my damaged body, trying to peer into my...

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PBS's 'This Emotional Life': A Message to Eating-Disorder Sufferers: It Gets Better

(0) Comments | Posted November 30, 2010 | 4:05 AM

"Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies."
--Ann Landers

Current and tragic events in our society have recently catapulted a campaign to fight stigma and stereotypes in reference to hate crimes against the gay community. While I frequently encourage my audiences to...

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PBS's 'This Emotional Life': The Power of Regret

(1) Comments | Posted September 7, 2010 | 7:00 AM

"Now that my past is erased
I feel the healing
I found the meaning of grace;
I'm not what I have done
I'm what I've overcome"

-- F.F.

It's time to have the conversation about regret. I've always worried about the decisions I...

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PBS's 'This Emotional Life': Finding Your Support Structure

(0) Comments | Posted July 30, 2010 | 4:36 PM

"I could care less if you love or hate me. I'm way past that. I'm asking that you respect me as a human being, anyway."

About a year and a half ago when I began treatment for my illness, my therapist at the time told me something....

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A Birthday to Remember: Beating Eating and Exercise Disorders

(4) Comments | Posted June 25, 2010 | 2:43 PM

"It was really hard for me. Although I liked the fact that I was losing weight, I hated who I was. I thought that by losing weight, the weight signified the bad experiences and emotional hurts in my life and I could exchange that with artificial good things instead: my...

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