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Underneath The Turban: Why Sikhs Do Not Hide

Posted: 08/13/2012 8:00 am

Why do we wear turbans?"

Nearly every Sikh American who grows up in the U.S. asks their families this question and as two Sikh Americans who maintain our faith, we were no different when we were little. This week, as Americans join in vigils for the six murdered Sikhs in another violent act of hate, many are now asking us this same question.

"Our ancestors were beheaded so that we could practice our faith without fear," our grandparents told us, detailing stories of torture and heroism, martyrdom and sacrifice, in 500 years of Sikh history. These stories gave us a legacy that infuses the turban with deep meaning: it embodies our community's commitment to devotion, honor, and service to all, a gift made possible by those who died to protect the practice of our faith.

While some non-Sikhs wear turbans as cultural garb, Sikhs are the only community for whom the turban is religious and nearly every person who wears the turban in the U.S. is Sikh. For many of us, abandoning this visible identity is equivalent to abandoning our faith and core values, including the commitment to protect the right of all people to practice whatever faith they choose.

But in the wake of the shootings of Sikh Americans in Oak Creek, Wisconsin, many Americans may silently wonder: If turbans mark Sikhs as targets for hate and violence, then why not take the turban off? Through a vibrant oral tradition, we Sikhs are emboldened by the stories passed down to us through the generations about why we keep the turban:

During a time of tremendous religious strife, a man named Nanak was born in 15th century Punjab (now Northern India and Pakistan). Guru Nanak expressed a unique vision of unity: Na ko Hindu, Na ko Muslim. There is no Hindu, there is no Muslim - beneath all husks and labels, humanity is one. He carried his message across South and Central Asia, rejecting all social inequalities, including caste hierarchies, gender discrimination, and religious persecution. He called for devotion to the One Divine, justice and equality of all people, and a commitment to seva or divinely-inspired service. And he taught that each person has the potential to develop his or her own relationship with the Divine. His followers were called "Sikhs," or disciples and seekers of truth.

As Guru Nanak passed his leadership on to a succession of teachers, many people embraced the Sikh faith and began wearing turbans to represent their devotion. Through the 16th and 17th centuries, thousands of Sikhs died fighting alongside people of many faiths against political oppression, and the ninth Sikh leader, Guru Tegh Bahadur, was executed by the state for defending the right of all communities to freely practice religion.

"The Guru was beheaded before a big crowd," our grandparents would tell us. "When one brave man brought the Guru's head to his young son, his son asked, 'Were there any Sikhs in the crowd to stand up to this injustice?' The man said he didn't know. The young boy responded, 'From now on, Sikhs will never hide.'"

As the story goes, the son grew up as the tenth Sikh leader, Guru Gobind Singh. In 1699, he called all Sikhs together and formalized a standard identity. He gave Sikhs five articles of faith, including kesh (uncut hair), meant for women and men equally. Men traditionally wrapped their long hair in turbans. Some women wear turbans too, but most simply cover their heads with headscarves when praying. Guru Gobind Singh requested all Sikhs to drop their surnames (a marker of social status), and instead, embrace a shared surname: all women adopted the last name "Kaur" and men took the last name "Singh." He declared that our eleventh and lasting teacher would be the sacred scriptures - the Guru Granth Sahib. Sikhs pray together in houses of worship and learning called gurdwaras [Doorways to the Divine] to study and sing devotional prayers from scripture.

Through the 18th century, Sikhs were captured, tortured and executed before giving up their turbans or their faith. The Sikh ideal became the warrior-saint: to live a life devoted to God and fiercely committed to fighting injustice in all forms. When India was conquered by the British, Sikhs joined fellow Hindus and Muslims to fight for independence. In recent history, Sikhs have continued to struggle for rights in India, and many Sikhs fled religious persecution in the 1980s to settle in the U.S.

Today, Sikhs belong to the fifth-largest organized religion in the world and are more than half a million strong in the U.S. However, Sikhs continue to encounter racism and religious bigotry since landing on American shores. Early Sikh pioneers, including one of our grandfathers, waited for decades before they were permitted to become citizens or own land. In our own childhoods, we remember racial slurs and shattered windows in the aftermath of the Iran hostage crisis, the first Gulf war, and the Oklahoma City bombing. In the immediate and long-term aftermath of 9/11, Sikhs have been bullied in schools, profiled at airports, barred from workplaces like the military, and targeted in hate violence - including the brutal massacre last Sunday.

In Oak Creek and across the U.S., Sikhs have drawn upon their history of struggle and resilience to rise up in the wake of this tragedy. We witnessed this in person on Thursday morning, when Sikhs were allowed to return to their gurdwara for the first time since the attack. They walked into a crime scene: there was still blood on the carpets and bullet holes in the walls. In an instant, the community burst into action: they ripped out and replaced carpets, scrubbed the floors, painted over bullet holes, and repaired broken windows. We literally watched a community rebuild itself before her eyes.

The Sikh community in Oak Creek reflects the broader Sikh community in America. Some choose to wear only one or two articles of faith; some wear turbans and others don't. Like all faith communities, ours is wonderfully diverse. But all Sikhs, no matter how they practice their faith, share in the spirit of "Chardi Kala" - a rising optimism even in dark times - and are coming together so that good can come from tragedy.

We believe that hate crimes against people who wear turbans, veils, yarmulkes, or robes are attacks on all communities marked as "other" in the American psyche. In a time when the economy is struggling, guns are easily accessible, and ideologues drum up votes through fear-mongering, we must renew our commitment to building safe and caring communities - for Sikhs and for all Americans.

So perhaps by passing along our story to you, it will embolden you the next time you see a turban. Perhaps you will think about the layers of history and resilience wrapped within - and offer a nod of recognition.

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01:56 PM on 09/08/2012
"When India was conquered by the British, Sikhs joined fellow Hindus and Muslims to fight for independence."

This is not exactly true. Sikhs, after their defeat in the 2nd Anglo-Sikh War of the 1840's, joined British Ranks and were instrumental in putting down the Great Sepoy Rebellion, also known as the First War for Independence in India.

It was only later on in the 20th century, after events like the Jallianwala Bagh massacre by British General Reginald Dyer, that the Sikh diaspora became largely anti-british and joined the Indian Independence Movement.
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01:14 PM on 08/18/2012
"There is no Hindu, there is no Muslim - beneath all husks and labels, humanity is one."

A worthy ideal equally applicable to atheists.
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03:48 AM on 08/15/2012
All very interesting as so many religions or faiths are. Reflecting the great
and amazing diversity of the world, that we must respect.

On the other hand requirements, or even suggestions, that people have to
wear certain clothes, or other rather odd idea's, simply do not make
much sense. Even as someone very religious, I have to keep asking
what a rational God would care about.....like
children, general health, fairness, the ability to have a
decent life and work, and Peace !

Would it, or he/she, care at all about wearing hat's, skullcaps,
covering a woman's face or body, etc. etc...or Mormon magic
underwear, etc.....it's all rather Nuts to a rational God I suspect...
and a vast waste of time and money.

Much of it also serves to divide us more or less.....and often
with a sort of Super Ego pov......which is a sad and often
destructive thing.

Of course we must always fight against those who would
even think of attacking a faith for any reason. We deeply
regret the attack in Wisconsin.
01:07 PM on 08/15/2012
God doesn't require us to wear anything. There are no magical clothes. However, symbols can serve a good purpose. In the case of Sikhs, the turban and other symbols are not worn for god but to remind the wearer to be a better person and as an open commitment to stand up for both their rights and the rights of others.
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02:36 AM on 08/16/2012
Ok....but you do see that nothing really should be necessary to be a good person....and especially, to me, not something so blank'n hot in warm weather.....I think these things tend to reward a tendency towards
division and the ego....but certainly there are many Sikh's around here,
and they seem successful and modest
12:04 AM on 08/19/2012
I totally agree with you that "much of it also serve to divide us and often with a sort of Super Ego pov." It is funny to me that people still believe in countries and borders when we are ONE species living on ONE planet.
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07:51 PM on 08/19/2012
yes...but I do think we need a strong border....we can not take
care of our own, let alone millions more
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09:50 PM on 08/21/2012
who's US pocket it comes out of does make a difference....but it's still US...

sure, war's $$$$ are nuts....but it's not only not fair...
the average taxpayer gets ticked about stuff like this...
so at best it's a distraction away from the
important things like war
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01:44 AM on 08/15/2012
I am learning something new everyday.
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10:49 AM on 08/14/2012
"There is no Hindu, there is no Muslim - beneath all husks and labels, humanity is one. He carried his message across South and Central Asia, rejecting all social inequalities, including caste hierarchies, gender discrimination, and religious persecution."

But do we really believe that? Apparently not, or we wouldn't be wearing our turbans, or crosses or hijabs, or yarmulke, or whatever else it is that sets us a part.
11:47 AM on 08/14/2012
Why do these things need to set us apart? Rather they should bring us together as Americans who are practicing our religions in our way. In a country started as a sanctuary for religious freedom, most of those in power want freedom only for those who believe as they do. They seek to deny those who don't believe as they do, saying only the bible has the truth. They seek to deny those who live differently. The deny-ers are the ones who are misguided. We just want to live our lives.
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07:20 PM on 08/14/2012
I have no problem with people saying that the bible is the only true word of God, or even Muslims saying that the Koran is the only true word of God, which they do, or the Jews, or the Potato Chip people, or the Church of Body Piercing (which actually is a real church and recognized as such by SCOTUS).......what none of them have a right to do is infringe on another, violate them, or their rights to dignity, devalue, demote, demean, deny, dismiss or diminish them.

They don't have the right to buy the gov;ernment, but they ALL do!! Then whine when others do.

They ALL have their lobbiests buying them special favors, but have the nerve to whine when another religion does it.

Muslims have lobbiests, Jews have lobbiests, Catholics have lobbiests, Protestants have lobbiests, Evangelicals have lobbiests, LBGT people ;have lobbiests, Corporations have lobbiests.

They all point the finger at someone else, when they are doing the same thing.

None of them get any sympathy from me.

Sadly, they all do it
12:08 PM on 08/14/2012
Yeah, we should all be rich white straight male atheists so the world will be homogenous and no one would cry about all the icky different people. "Boo hoo, the people who don't look like me are scary!"
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10:28 AM on 08/14/2012
What I am wondering is what is the attraction of Sikhs to Yuba City Ca.? It has one of the largest Sikh communities in the US. Was it employment, farming, retail, military etc.?
09:30 AM on 08/14/2012
Shri Guru Gobind Singh intended to create a commune of saint-soldiers not just for India but the whole world. For him a brave person was one who fought for the poor and the downtrodden. Unfortunately his philosophy is not practiced in matters of governance in India itself despite constitutional mandate, not to speak of other countries. Governments of the day are more concerned about increasing the wealth of the Forbes List billionaires than ensuring that every human being gets two square meals a day. From the federal government's point of view in India a man who earns barely 32 rupees a day in urban India and 28 in rural population is not below poverty line. (1 US Dollar is roughly equal to 56 rupees) Was this the philosophy of Sikhism or Constitution of India? Sikhism was founded by manifest practitioners of divinity, real gurus. Today it is Aasurism that is replacing whatever modicum of Sikhism is left in the psyche of the governing class. Sikhism must revive in India in a big way before it can be understood, really understood by the white skinned Americans or for that matter westerners in general.
07:58 AM on 08/14/2012
"In recent history, Sikhs have continued to struggle for rights in India, and many Sikhs fled religious persecution in the 1980s to settle in the U.S."

Totally untrue, I was a practicing Sikh when I was in India and did outshine majority of students in my school and college life, be it School Captain or College Student Club President. I have never ever come across any Sikh who was discriminated on religious grounds.
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03:50 AM on 08/15/2012
Didn't a Sikh, part of the guard no less, kill an Indian PM....blowing themselves up ?

Did many Sikh's think things were that bad ?
12:53 PM on 08/19/2012
No, two Sikhs did kill Indra Ghandi, but after seeing the Golden temple in Amritsar, Punjab. They saw the destruction of the temple where people are seen equally. They saw how 10000 army troops stormed the temple, which is considered a national shrine of the world. Not only that, but witnesses who were present there saw how the army took off the turbans of male Sikhs and tied there hands with them and than shot them point blank in the temple. Innocent male children were taken away from their mothers because they wore turbans and kept their beards. A lot of inhuman acts were done in Punjab all over, not only the Golden temple but 44 other Sikh Gurdwara's were also attacked simultaneously in Punjab. To hide many of their actions a black out was put on the state which was dived in 1947 due to partition and than divided again making it smaller. in Punjab I would think Punjabi is the language that should be spoken but apparently the Hindus wanted to make it Hindi?
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12:04 AM on 08/14/2012
Religious garb doesn't threaten me. I think part of it is being educated in, and employed in, a diverse environment, in my case, around many students and researchers in the sciences and engineering. Sikhs were my classmates and are my colleagues. It's anecdotal, of course, but I've been struck by how soft-spoken and peaceful the Sikhs I've met have been. The turban and full beard register as familiar and friendly things to me. Like so many things in life, a big part of the problem is fear of the unknown "other." If someone isn't bothering you, that should be enough to leave them alone, but why not go a little farther and learn a bit about the background and culture of your fellow citizens? Thank you, Ms. Kaur and Mr. Singh, and know that I'd rise to your defense if someone were mistreating you.
11:29 PM on 08/13/2012
Another aspect people do not know about Sikhism is that they Pray 2 times a day to God, called, "Ardas" meaning Petition or request. In this prayer they ask God to give them strength to perform, "Desh-Qaum di seva ", Desh = Country/community, Qaum=Religion and Seva=Service....So you are brought up in a way that your religion is secondary to the community service.
10:59 PM on 08/13/2012
The indoctrination and brain washing of the Sikh young is very thorough. We can expect their continued cultural separation for generations.

Is that a good thing? (not in the long term)
Is that a bad thing? (not in the short term)
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11:46 AM on 08/14/2012
If you say this about one religion, you must say it for all. But then you should also know the difference between the religions. If one is to "brainwash" their child in any religion or philosophy then I hope they choose Sikhism or Buddhism. They both teach peace and personal responsibility.

Very much unlike the Abrahamic religions who teach to blame gawd and to react with violence.
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12:28 PM on 08/14/2012
Hardly, its just easier to point to something far away and "exotic" as "better". You have hardly any understanding of it, and you are not rubbing shoulders with it constantly.
Fascination of the "orient" has been a part of European and American culture since the 2nd millenium.
01:31 PM on 08/14/2012
tim...

If I come to believe that all religions practice the same level of child indoctrination, only THEN will I be "musted" to say it for all. They do NOT.

Sikhs and Buddhists are also people, thus capable of extreme violence and cruelty, even in the name of their religions.
12:21 PM on 08/14/2012
Cultural separation? I don't understand. Please explain? Thanks.
02:05 PM on 08/14/2012
Limner...

Much of the American culture is anathema to Sikh values. Their behavior must therefore be outside, apart, separate, from much of American culture. For example, much of the American culture is secular, as in not exhibiting religious affiliation in public. No Sikhs are secular by dictate of their written unchangable religious dogma.
10:28 PM on 08/13/2012
Unfortunately, america is overpopulated with morons. And due to the anti muslim hate campaign conducted by the chosen ones in the government and the media, anyone wearing a turban is a target.
08:58 AM on 08/14/2012
Any scope for 'tie-a-dastar-turban day'? With enough media amp, it could educate a few that not all turbans are equal.
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12:02 PM on 08/14/2012
Islam is antithetical to all of Western Liberalism. It is a dogma of hate and violence.

Further, those who want to come to the US - should respect the culture of the US - instead of holding themselves out as superior to us.
10:04 PM on 08/13/2012
During the height of the cold war, a separatist movement to carve an independent Sikh state of Khalistan (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khalistan_movement) out of India was fostered by forces aligned against India (including notably, the Pakistani ISI). The Sikh militants launched attacks against civilians and Indian military from the safety of the Golden temple in Amritsar (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Blue_Star). Indira Gandhi, then prime minister of India, ordered an army operation to clear the temple of militants. This action eventually cost her her life at the hands of her own trusted Sikh body guards (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assassination_of_Indira_Gandhi). The angry mobs that took to the streets attacked Sikhs indiscriminately (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1984_anti-Sikh_riots). It is during this period that many Sikhs left India to settle in Canada and the US. Some engaged in acts of terrorism - for example, an Air India flight was blown up by Sikh militants during its flight from Canada to India (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Air_India_Flight_182) . So the real story is more complex than that portrayed in this article. That said, the vast majority of Sikhs are honest, hardworking, law-abiding, patriotic citizens of the nations where they live. The attack on Sikh temple in Milwaukee was a despicable act of domestic terrorism.
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04:28 AM on 08/14/2012
Many years ago while flirting with someone, I came up with a definition of Truth.

"Truth is nothing more than one's perception of misconstrued lies"

e.g. WMD ;)

When searching for truth, one must look at all empirical evidence and then make a decision. If it was exactly how it was as described by the State run media then why was it the Amnesty International was not allowed, or UN, or international journalists?

History is literally HIS STORY -- So you should try to educate yourself with the other side of the coin first!!!! http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Operation_Blue_Star
07:25 PM on 08/14/2012
Perhaps you should learn about the life of Sikhs who have grown up in India in the past 25 years - I am married to one. They don’t live rehashing the hateful propaganda paid for by Pakistani ISI. 
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04:37 AM on 08/14/2012
There isn't a country in the world where Sikhs have a safe motherland--since India and Pakistan divided (in the late 70's?) many Sikhs immigrated to other countries in the British Commonwealth. We probably have the same number of Sikhs in Canada as there are in the US, yet our country is much, much smaller. I'm embarrassed by how much I've learned about Sikhism this week, since I'm a Christian with Interfaith interests. I haven't been to a Gurdwara yet, but we should see if we could get a speaker at our Church.
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10:03 PM on 08/13/2012
Sikhs make the best friends you can ask for and that is my personal opinion.
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09:49 PM on 08/13/2012
Both from my experiences with expat Sikhs in the US as well as in India, Malaysia, Indonesia, and other places, Sikhs are some of the kindest, most gentle and egalitarian people in the world. Please remember that the next time you meet one. Be as kind as you can possibly be; he or she will still out-kind you, but the game is fun to play. :)
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04:28 AM on 08/14/2012
I am truly humbled by your comment.
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08:21 PM on 08/14/2012
Sat sri akkal, my brother.