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Valerie Tarico
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Valerie Tarico is the author of Trusting Doubt: A Former Evangelical Looks at Old Beliefs in a New Light and Deas and Other Imaginings. Raised in a staunch fundamentalist family, Valerie attended Wheaton College, where the Billy Graham Center houses a museum dedicated to the history of Evangelism in North America. She obtained a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Iowa before completing postdoctoral studies at the University of Washington. She subsequently joined the staff of Children's Hospital Medical Center, Seattle and ran Children's Behavior and Learning Clinic in Bellevue, Washington, before moving on to a private clinic.

For years Valerie maintained a psychotherapy practice and practiced "don't ask, don't tell" about matters of faith. But as it became clear that George Bush and Evangelicals were opening a public conversation about Christianity, she decided to join the fray. She shrunk her practice and began writing and speaking about fundamentalism, American style. Her articles frequently are featured at TruthOut and ExChristian.net. "TrustingDoubt's Channel" on Youtube offers life tips and insights for recovering fundamentalists. Only one of her brothers thinks that she is actually channeling Satan.

Not satisfied with spending her life energy critiquing all-too-familiar orthodoxies, Valerie is actively engaged in interspiritual dialogue that aims to find common ground in humanity's shared moral core. She speaks regionally to churches and secular groups about topics such as moral development, the psychology of belief, and wisdom convergence as well as the dark side of orthodox dogmas. She is a founder of WisdomCommons.org, an interactive site that allows users to find and discuss information about virtues that emerge repeatedly across secular and religious wisdom traditions.
Valerie Tarico's essays can be found at Away Point.

Blog Entries by Valerie Tarico

How the Catholic Bishops Outsmarted Washington Voters

(23) Comments | Posted May 23, 2013 | 8:58 AM

When it comes to matters of individual conscience, Washington State voters have a don't-mess-with-us attitude that makes Texans look like cattle--and it goes way back.

In 2012 Washington voters flexed their muscle by legalizing recreational marijuana use and marriage for same-sex couples. In 2008, death with dignity passed some...

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What Every Woman Should Know About Contraceptives and Weight

(3) Comments | Posted February 6, 2013 | 1:59 PM

Our ancestors struggled to get enough calories just to stay alive. Now, as we try to keep our weight in a healthy range, we look at all kinds of factors: diet, exercise, sleep, supplements, meditation, hypnosis, psychotherapy, prayer, or even surgery that might help us tip the scales a little...

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Abortion as a Blessing, Grace, or Gift -- Changing the Conversation About Moral Values

(0) Comments | Posted January 10, 2013 | 11:22 AM

How can we reclaim the moral high ground in the debate about abortion as a part of thoughtful, wise loving and living?

Most Americans think of childbearing as a deeply personal or even sacred decision. So do most reproductive rights advocates. That is why we don't think anybody's boss...

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Hey Ladies! Thinking About Ditching Your Period? A Doctor Answers 12 Puzzling, Scary and Hopeful Questions

(1) Comments | Posted December 5, 2012 | 1:31 PM

How often do you want to have your period?

When modern contraceptives first got formulated, back in the 1950s, the men in charge made a simple assumption that would affect millions of women over the next half century:  They assumed that women wanted to bleed every month.  A...

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9 Clues That Reproductive Policy Is Economic Policy

(53) Comments | Posted October 11, 2012 | 6:06 PM

Anybody who says that talking about reproductive rights is a distraction from talking about economics is not running the numbers.

On October 4, a study of 9,000 women showed that access to free contraception radically dropped the rate of unintended pregnancies, two-thirds of which according to the Guttmacher...

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My Abortion Was Different: Why Women Shame and Blame Each Other

(0) Comments | Posted September 18, 2012 | 2:47 PM

We've all heard stories, apocryphal or not, of women who picket family planning clinics and then cross the line when they find themselves with a problem pregnancy. One doctor tells of a patient in stirrups saying, "I don't belong here, you know." The subtext: "I'm not one of them."

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IUDS: Pamper, Pamper, Pamper -- Plus 9 Other Tips For Falling In Love With Your IUD

(42) Comments | Posted March 27, 2012 | 6:43 PM

You've heard that an IUD can give you five to twelve years of never-have-to-think-about-it contraception. You've also heard that, depending on which IUD you choose, you can have your period decrease by (on average) 90 percent. You've heard that in real world use IUDs are more...

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Child Friendly Faith

(14) Comments | Posted March 6, 2012 | 11:23 AM

Does religion help or harm children? Viewpoints range from those who believe that it is impossible to raise loving, moral children without faith to those who see religious immersion as child abuse. A new effort,...

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Picture a Technology Revolution. In Contraception. It's Here.

(26) Comments | Posted January 26, 2012 | 2:11 PM

Imagine a future in which we can simply toggle the default on human fertility, so that accidental pregnancy is a thing of the past and women become fertile only when they want to become pregnant. By nature, adolescence switches our fertility default to "on" and it is stuck there for...

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What Is a Person?

(65) Comments | Posted November 8, 2011 | 9:46 AM

Egg Being FertilizedThis week the citizens of Mississippi will vote whether to legally assign the status of "personhood" to any human egg that has been penetrated by a sperm. I, for one, think that being a person is a serious...

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Should Freethinkers Shun or Claim the Language of Spirituality?

(54) Comments | Posted October 28, 2011 | 5:35 PM

On reading an early draft "Trusting Doubt," which looks at my old evangelical beliefs from my current vantage as a nontheist, one reviewer commented, "This is a very spiritual book."

What?! I thought. A part of me protested: I don't believe in...

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Confronting Religion and Child Abuse

(14) Comments | Posted May 10, 2011 | 5:48 PM

Author Janet HeimlichValerie Tarico interviews Janet Heimlich, author of Breaking Their Will: Shedding Light on Religious Child Maltreatment. During eight years working for NPR, Heimlich never shied away from controversial topics. She won nine journalism awards, in part by doggedly...

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U.S. Army Christian Flag Folding Ceremony Shows Official Sanction of Church-State Violations

(35) Comments | Posted February 13, 2011 | 1:00 PM

(Part 1 of a three part series on religious boundary violations in the U.S. military and what soldiers are doing to fight back.)

Star Logo for Military Comprehensive Fitness Program


When American soldiers come forward with tales of...

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Is Praying Before Football Games Cheating?

(4) Comments | Posted February 10, 2011 | 7:42 PM

How many times have you seen football players -- on the screen or just off the field -- huddling for prayer before a game? You know what they're asking for, right? They're asking God to tweak the rules of biology...

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Atheists, Humanists Resolve to Give More

(2) Comments | Posted January 19, 2011 | 2:28 PM

As we head into 2011, humanist leaders around the world have resolved to give more and get their fellow freethinkers to do the same.

When research in recent years suggested that churchgoers give more than others, some freethinkers protested that recruiting costs (aka proselytizing missions) shouldn't be considered giving, nor...

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God Cares About What I Care About

(99) Comments | Posted January 5, 2011 | 6:42 AM

You can safely assume you've created God in your own image when it turns out God hates all the same people you do. --Anne Lamott

Divorce, fags, figs, workers of iniquity, homophobes, Lady Gaga, remarriage, Ireland, techno, furries, war, a coward, shrimp, lying lips, abortion, your outfit, bad manners, amputees,...

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Celebrating Love and Light: 10 Holiday Tips for the Post-Religious

(22) Comments | Posted December 16, 2010 | 12:49 PM

Is the holiday season more glitter than glow for you lately? Are you a former Christian who finds that hymns don't resonate anymore? Do you roll your eyes about the "war on Christmas" manufactroversy? Does the cherubic little Jesus-in-a-Manger fail to flood your body with sweetness? Do you...

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God's Emotions: What Does 'Jesus Loves Me' Actually Mean?

(33) Comments | Posted December 12, 2010 | 7:48 AM

Note: This is Part Seven in a series, "God's Emotions: Why the Biblical God is so Very Human." Parts 1-6 are available at this website or at www.awaypoint.wordpress.com.

I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody else does -- The Smiths

In Ira Levin's...

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God's Emotions: Does God Get Angry?

(31) Comments | Posted December 2, 2010 | 11:11 AM

Editor's Note: This is Part 5 in the series God's Emotions: Why the Biblical God is So Very Human.

[Wicked men] are now the objects of that very same anger and wrath of God, that is expressed in the torments of hell. And the reason why they do not go...

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Obama's Commitment to Christianity Trumps Commitment to Constitution

(13) Comments | Posted November 30, 2010 | 6:26 PM

Faith based social services; Christian language from the presidential bully pulpit; executive support for Arizona tax credits that divert dollars away from public coffers and into religious schools...

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