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Is it OK to Celebrate Christmas, Even If You're Not a Christian?

Posted: 12/11/08 06:56 PM ET

I just love Christmas!" my friend Hannah confessed recently, "even though I'm appalled by Christianity." She sounded sheepish, as if loving Christmas somehow made her bad.

Poor Hannah. I understand her tone of apology. What Hannah is appalled by isn't the broad range of kind, thoughtful Christians in her community, but rather the thin cruel theologies that drive the Evangelical Right. People like Bill O'Reilly have claimed Christmas for their own -- deriding broader holiday traditions. "It's about Jesus!" They cry loudly. "Jesus is the reason for the season!" "It's a Christian holiday (and this is a Christian country)!" Who wants to be associated with O'Reilly and his minions?!

Hannah's Christmas isn't about Jesus, and she doesn't want to lend power to fundamentalists by joining in something they have defined as their celebration. But she needn't fear. Jesus isn't the reason for the season.

Yes, December 25 has become the time that Christians express the joy that comes from a sense of unearned forgiveness and unconditional love. It is a time when they relish the community of believers and family, and they look forward to a future when peace and joy will reign on earth "as they do in heaven" and the lion will lie down with the lamb. And for them, this is the very heart of the holiday.

That said, the Catholic Church chose December 25th (Winter Solstice in the Julian Calendar) to honor the birthday of the Christ for a very specific reason: It was already a well loved holiday -- a time of revelry, gift giving, and yes, celebrating the birthdays of gods.

Early Christians recognized this: Fourth Century Bishop John Chrysostom wrote: "On this day also the Birthday of Christ was lately fixed at Rome in order that while the heathen were busy with their profane ceremonies, the Christians might perform their sacred rites undisturbed. They call this (December 25th), the Birthday of the Invincible One (Mithras); but who is so invincible as the Lord? They call it the Birthday of the Solar Disk, but Christ is the Sun of Righteousness." (The Fourth Century is our first record of a December Christ-mass celebration.)

Not only did earlier generations of Christians recognize this, some of them were offended by the holiday's Pagan associations. Puritan leader Oliver Cromwell outlawed the celebration in England, and his prohibition against Christmas was kept by the Puritan colonies in the New World. Even Baptists in times past condemned the holiday, and to this day Jehovah's witnesses and some other fundamentalists perceive it as contrary to Christian teachings. And not without reason.

Christmas appears to have its roots in two Roman holidays: Saturnalia (December 17-23) and Sol Invictus (December 25) Saturnalia , the feast of the god Saturn, is said to have been the most popular holiday of the Roman calendar. People celebrated with visits to friends and giving gifts, particularly wax candles (cerei), that may have represented the return of light after the solstice. Natalis Sol Invictus (Birthday of the Unconquered Sun) is when the births of solar deities were celebrated including Sol, Attis and the Persian Mithras (who was, incidentally, born of a virgin). At the time of Constantine, the cult of Sol Invictus was the official religion of the Roman Empire. Small wonder, then, that he pronounced the 25th as the birthday of Jesus, center of the new official religion. (Excellent article here.)

The ways we celebrate Christmas reflect the intuitive, creative ways in which all human cultures and religions borrow, blend and adapt. We find what fits and make it our own. It's why French bread and coffee are part of Vietnamese cuisine. It's why T-shirts are popular in Kenya. It's why Egyptian hieroglyphs morphed into a Roman alphabet which then made its way around the planet.

My guess is that virtually everything Hannah loves about Christmas has roots that extend through and beyond the Christian tradition. Here are just a few for fun.

• Yule log - Ancient Norse tribes used the Yule log to celebrate Thor. The term "Yule" itself may mean "wheel," referring to the sun and its cycle of return.
• Holly - This plant has been special to many people. It was thought to ward off witches by Celts, and was used in Roman Saturnalia festivities.
• Evergreen boughs - Branches from evergreens symbolized everlasting life for Romans, Germanic tribes and Vikings.
• Mistletoe - This parasitic vine also known as "All heal" was sacred to Druids, because it grew in the sacred oak tree. Early Europeans left it hung in the house all year to ward off fire and lightning.
Decorated Trees - Uncut, outdoor trees were decorated by European Pagans and Druids at solstice. (The custom of cutting trees was brought to America by German immigrants and became popular during the 19th Century.)
• Twelve Days of Christmas- The sacred significance of the number twelve traces its roots back to ancient Babylonian star worship. It made its way into a 12 day Egyptian solstice festival, the early Hebrew religion (12 tribes of Judah), the Roman calendar (12 months), early Christianity (12 apostles) and -low and behold--modern star worship (12 signs of the zodiac).

So, I say to my friend Hannah: Love any Christmas tradition that is dear to you, including the ones that originated in Christian cultures and stories. And no more apologies! We all are borrowers, and especially at this time when people around the world celebrate the renewal of warmth, light, and life, we are all the richer for it.

 
 
 

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I just love Christmas!" my friend Hannah confessed recently, "even though I'm appalled by Christianity." She sounded sheepish, as if loving Christmas somehow made her bad. Poor Hannah. I unders...
I just love Christmas!" my friend Hannah confessed recently, "even though I'm appalled by Christianity." She sounded sheepish, as if loving Christmas somehow made her bad. Poor Hannah. I unders...
 
 
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LaurieAnn
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05:25 PM on 12/25/2008
Our pagan family celebrates "Yule." It may look alot like Christmas to most people but you won't see any nativity in our home. Just lots of decorated trees, Yule logs, mistletoe, singing/dancing/festing, story telling and lights, lights,lights. I don't want to insult the many fundamental Christians I live near by calling our holiday "Christmas." I also don't like it when some Christians criticize my family for celebrating an alternative holiday. Sorry, but you can't have it both ways.
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messy
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02:36 PM on 12/14/2008
Christmas is about Jesus. Nothing else. If you don't believe in Jesus then you're celebrating something else.
11:15 PM on 12/25/2008
If you think you're celebrating Jesus's birth on December 25th, it's you who are actually celebrating something else.
01:21 PM on 12/14/2008
As a Celtic Reconstructionist Witch, it took me many years to re-embrace the traditions of Christmas, because they have been so conflated with Christianity. Given the pagan traditions of the holiday and the social and mental health implications, I returned to the joy of the season without its Christian trappings. The tree is up, pretty bright flashing lights are up, and simple gifts with meaning are exchanged. I see the sweet and fatty foods as necessary during the winter months, as we are mammals, after all, and need these kinds of food for our bodies. I understand the candles and flashing lights to be necessary for the human psyche to stay balanced and whole. The traditional socializing is needed to keep away the seasonal emotional changes consciously experienced by many people and likely experienced by all humans. All in all, as a traditional holiday, the customs of Christmas (or Yule or the Winter Solstice) are well rooted in ancient human practices that keep us optimally healthy and whole during the season of winter. Besides, who can turn down something sweet, a gift, bright lights, great sounds and smells, and seeing our friends and families - especially when we need them the most?

Bright Blessings to us, one and all. :)

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05:46 PM on 12/20/2008
You are awesome...have a great holiday season!
...don't forget the nice warm "spirits".....;-)
02:57 PM on 12/12/2008
Thank-you Valerie for a well- expressed article. I always appreciate the breadth of your knowledge and the perspective you bring.

It is amazing how many "Christians" know nothing about the history of their religion and are not curious. Many actually believe Jesus was born on Dec. 25. I find the phrase "reason for the season" pretty ironic since there is so little reason in (fundamentalist) Christianity.

Regarding the appeal of Christmas, there is also something powerful about the child archetype that connects to each of us.

We were all children once and we can perhaps remember the innocence and freedom. It's good to ask ourselves whether we still know how to laugh and enjoy life. The image of a baby instinctively raises questions, and brings up feelings.

On the deepest level, the Child connects to matters of the soul - the way we actually experience being alive. This is not the Christ child or just a symbol of hope -- this is the Original Child that is in each of us. This is the Child we all know is still present but may be lost or buried. Our life patterns, our "personalities," our many roles, our anxieties, our regrets, our plans, our endless thoughts, all conspire to distance us from who we once were – infants with magical capability for presence and joy, free of internal commentary, judgment, or fear. Let's not forget this in ourselves!

"Honor the Child" is at marlenewinell.net
10:52 AM on 12/13/2008
I appreciate this comment. We all grumble about the rampant and often disgusting commercialism of this season, but the fact is that all of that marketing is successful because it coopts something deeper. Most of the time, advertisers work to tap sexual arousal, desire for social status, anxieties about rejection and magpie instinct (gathering and hoarding shiny baubles). All of these have deep roots. They are related to how our anscestors survived. We are social information specialists who are also ordinary animals, utterly dependent on the cycle of the seasons.

The Christian Christmas has appeal for nonChristians because it too, taps archetypes and yearnings that are ancient and a part of who we are. I appreciated your article, "Honor the Child."
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10:02 PM on 12/11/2008
I've struggled all my adult life with Christmas. As a kid I loved it, as an adult I've found it an incredibly depressing time of year. As I became aware of my homosexual orientation I became aware that I was celebrating the most important date on my oppressors' calendar. Yet the social pressure to participate was almost overwhelming - oppression times two.

I resolved this conflict by throwing big annual parties on the real winter solstice with bonfires, candles, food and friends. This solved two problems. It was a way to shake off the scrooge label while at the same time celebrating what was really important to me about the season - the sun's return.

I still see the gay community celebrating Christmas and often wonder why they demean themselves by doing so when the real Winter Solstice is so underrated and so deserving of recognition.

Christmas is the Winter Solstice co-opted by an oppressive religion co-opted by consumerism. What's to love about that?
11:02 PM on 12/11/2008
I enjoyed your take on the "oppressor's calendar." I never felt bad about Christmas. Just one day I heard a Rabbi teaching about the High Holy Days (he happened to be a Messianic Rabbi) and he said, "People, turn off your Christmas lights and listen to the Word of God." I was convicted and done on the spot. So, we have different views of Christmas, et al, but nonetheless, I appreciate your post.
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05:48 PM on 12/14/2008
So he wasn't a rabbi at all, then. He's a protestant minister who's jokingly pretending to be a rabbi.
10:56 AM on 12/13/2008
Don't you think more people would follow your path if they knew about the roots of Christmas? I think most people don't know. Of course what you do requires a certain level of intention and energy that many people may not want to devote to their holidays. Still, I think many gay people of necessity have learn to create family and community because they couldn't fall back on the easy way--relying on the ones they were born into. So maybe thoughtfully creating holiday traditions isn't very far from what's familiar.
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10:32 PM on 12/13/2008
My experience is that people respond really well to a Winter Solstice celebration, Christians and non-Christians alike. But I think it is a stretch for many people to substitute the Solstice for Christmas. Gay friends of mine are aware of the roots of Christmas but rationalize their involvement in countless ways. It's like trying to get them to give up their favorite comfort food even though they know it isn't that good for them. I've had some funny logic-out-the-window arguments about it with my gay friends

I'm just grateful that the two events don't fall on the exact same date.
07:28 PM on 12/11/2008
While the majority of the trappings of Christmas find their roots in earlier non-Christian cultures, they have been reappropriated and instilled with Christian meaning. And while the date selected to celebrate Christmas is historically not the date that Jesus was actually born, it is the date that has honoured the birth of Jesus for the past several hundred years. It is a Christian holiday whether or not Christian choose to focus on that aspect of this holy day.

As an observant Jew, I see the beauty of this non-Jewish holiday and wish that more people would treat it as a holy and religiously meaningful holiday. And, as a Jew, I have no right to strip it of its religiousity just because I feel left out of the warm-fuzzy sentiments that abound this time of year. Just as it would be wrong for non-Jews to strip one of my holidays of its religiousity just because they might like some of the food and other festive, non-religious trappings.

We have cultural occasions that we share (Independance Day, Thanksgiving, Inaguration Day) and we have other occasions that we can admire without co-opting.
08:27 PM on 12/11/2008
Aahh...but the Torah forbids mixing the holy with the unholy. I no longer celebrate Christmas precisely because of the reasons in the commentary. In fact, Jeremiah even forbids putting up the tree. So, what are we to do? Go on going against Scripture. I say no. Repent and stop. There is no God and no Messiah embedded in the ridiculousness of these Gregorian dates and times that have nothing to do with HaShem's holy days laid out in Leviticus. If we pay attention to them, we will see that these days and times point to Messiah and tell us more about his birth and life.

I'm down with the Scriptures, not some nonsense from the Catholic church, who by the way, had the audacity to try and change Shabbat. No thank you.
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09:10 PM on 12/11/2008
And non Jews should care because of?
11:00 AM on 12/13/2008
Rivster -
I am not suggesting that nonChristians should try to strip the holiday of it's meaning for Christians. But it is a federal holiday. And it is a time of celebration across cultures and traditions. My experience is not that others seek to delegitimize Christmas but that Christians want to stake exclusive rights to the holiday. It's like wanting to patent the human genome or something.

The difficulty for orthodox Christianity is that it makes exclusive truth claims -- and claims of offering the only acceptable path to the only God. That makes all other religions and non religions threatening.