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Lent for Atheists

Posted: 02/23/2012 4:20 pm

I walked into Commons early yesterday morning and saw blue-gray smears dotting the foreheads of a handful of my classmates. I'm embarrassed to admit that I was strangely surprised. Of course, I knew that it was Ash Wednesday. I knew that the beads and colored drinks from last night's Feb Club party were to celebrate Mardi Gras -- the last great celebration before the temperance of the Lenten season. But it still felt odd to see my classmates wear their religion so prominently on their foreheads. It was hard not to feel self-conscious on their behalf.

But I can't say that I didn't feel a little bit jealous, either. I've been an atheist since I was old enough to drive, and I don't find the stories in the Bible any more believable now than I did when I was 16. But atheists still miss out on a comfort provided by religion -- not necessarily in the beliefs per se, but in the ritual of it all.

I love Christmas far more than I have any right to, and I'd guess that I love it for the exact same reasons most Christians love it: there's something really special about spending time with family, giving thoughtfully to those in need and those we care about and listening to nostalgic music while drinking hot cocoa by the fire with your cats (or dogs, or grandparents). I don't see why Christianity is necessary to enjoy any of that, and I refuse to let the faithful have all the fun.

So it bothers me when other atheists are too quick to do away with the beauty religion cultivates, as if it were necessary to toss the beauty out right along with the cosmology. I think we make a mistake when we fail to distinguish the form from the content of religion. Doing away with both is like smashing a glass because we don't like the drink inside it.

Depending on context, the exact same techniques can serve propaganda when used by fascists or public service announcements when used by our government. The form is all the same, of course. Good advertising is good advertising. But what matters is what the advertisements are about. Goebbels was an evil man, but he could sure sell a point. If we can use his talents for good, why not?

I see the practices of religion a lot like how I see advertising. If there's one thing religions have gotten down since the Agricultural Revolution, it's enriching the human experience through ritual. So why not borrow some of that, even if the content that currently fills it leaves something to be desired? Not that I'm comparing Christians to fascists.

Something along these lines is the premise of the writer and philosopher Alain de Botton's upcoming book, Religion for Atheists. And while his ideas have been violently opposed by atheist bloggers (about as charming a group as you might expect), I actually find them pretty compelling.

So I was sitting in Commons yesterday looking around at all my classmates, and I began to think about Lent. Not about Jesus wandering through the desert for 40 days and 40 nights while being tempted by the devil, but about my Catholic friends' yearly test of willpower, sacrifice and self-improvement. I realized that was something worth doing on its own.

I decided then that I'd take part in Lent. I've been mostly a vegetarian for the last two years. But the reasons I object to eating beef and chicken apply equally to drinking milk and eating eggs: I don't necessarily object to consuming flesh per se, but rather how we treat livestock and how factory farming impacts the environment. So while I've been finding the transition from a vegetarian diet to a vegan diet particularly daunting, the Catholic Church provides me a perfect and relatively low-pressure avenue for a brief period of self-improvement. I don't see any reason not to try it out.

Is picking and choosing religious rituals and practices a bit irreverent and patronizing? Probably a little. Is it a potentially great way to enrich secular life? Definitely. That's as good a reason to practice Lent as I can think of.

This piece originally appeared in the Yale Daily News.

 

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I walked into Commons early yesterday morning and saw blue-gray smears dotting the foreheads of a handful of my classmates. I'm embarrassed to admit that I was strangely surprised. Of course, I knew t...
I walked into Commons early yesterday morning and saw blue-gray smears dotting the foreheads of a handful of my classmates. I'm embarrassed to admit that I was strangely surprised. Of course, I knew t...
 
 
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the analyzer
09:00 PM on 04/10/2012
Reading all of the other comments I find it strange that people are telling the guy who wrote this about what is enjoyable and what is not. If he likes the tradition around christmas, let him enjoy it. Why does it bother others? Afraid that he is going closer to the 'dark' side and subliminally promoting it?
07:16 PM on 03/27/2012
"I've been an atheist since I was old enough to drive... But atheists still miss out on a comfort provided by religion"

Maybe a 3 or 4 on Dawkins' 7 point scale. You haven't understood the nature of the beast if you still seek comfort in that lair.
03:04 AM on 02/27/2012
the human world or the world we live in is drought with much pain and suffering for most people regardless of their belief or lack thereof. As such for some people religious rituals provide comfort and peace for others well... it just doesn't work that way. Some find religion a positive experience others a negative experience. Suffice it to say people have the right to find happiness and peace in their own way with or without religion.
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Julie Mortenson
Truth Seeker
11:15 AM on 02/26/2012
Christmas is far more than just rituals but that arguement is for another location.
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ILoveTheUSofA
BREAKING NEWS: There is no God.
11:42 PM on 02/25/2012
Vlad, thanks a million, but please, don't worry about doing us atheists any more favors. Please. There's plenty of other groups that need favors FAR more than we do. Seriously: no more favors. Thanks!
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PCPrincess
I'm probably gaming.
11:45 AM on 02/25/2012
Breaking the article down, I believe his core 'desire' was not ritual per se, but rather a need to find a motivating force to do what he believes is good for him. He sees that those who are religious have God for this purpose, others, are motivated by fear, desire to have, etc. What he appears to need is precisely the kind of motivation that many Americans get every year on Jan. 1; the day we all are supposed to make New Year's Resolutions.
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Vlad Chituc
01:40 PM on 02/25/2012
Absolutely. I think perhaps I wasn't as clear as I should have been in articulating my point.

I primarily meant to say that religious rituals have been particularly well-crafted at achieving a lot of secular benefits, that can exist entirely independent of the religious content associated with the (why I drew the analogy to Christmas). I felt that a 40-day trial period of a sort of kind would be a low-pressure kick-start to something really daunting I've been meaning to do.

New Year's could entirely serve the same purpose. It didn't for me. But I wouldn't say that's a reason not to try Lent, or that everyone should try Lent. Just simply that I don't think we should have qualms about doing things like borrowing Lent, if that makes sense.
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dschiff
Always learning
05:29 PM on 02/29/2012
As a fellow atheist student leader, I think you're presenting a healthy approach to the wisdom that can come from religious traditions.

Why not borrow the idea of lent? In our self-centered, materialistic ethos, it seems a good project to try. Of course, for an atheist, it would be detached from the other doctrines and context surrounding the lent season.

There are beautiful things in religious traditions (forgiveness, compassion) and quite bad things (original sin). It's good to recognize both sides.

Cheers.
11:44 AM on 02/25/2012
It's pretty cool that the atheists and gays are more self-righteous than we are

It makes watching them wallow in their secular lives almost enjoyable
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
07:46 PM on 02/25/2012
I find your remark unloving of your neighbors. How can you set up a stereotype like this? I know atheists who would give their lives for their neighbor if it were necessary. Who are humble and caring... And why would you single out gay people into some distinct category of self righteousness? I'm mystified by that. Finally, why would you want anyone to feel like they are wallowing in misery?
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ILoveTheUSofA
BREAKING NEWS: There is no God.
11:58 PM on 02/25/2012
"Almost" enjoyable? Really? If you have only found it "almost" enjoyable to watch the wallowing atheists, you obviously haven't been watching a very good selection of them. Here's a list of my personal favorites:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_atheists_in_science_and_technology
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bahramthered
Are you sure Rs arn't Decepitcons in desguise?
01:01 AM on 02/25/2012
This is just one of the dumbest arguments I've heard, on both sides.

So you like rituals and belonging. Your an atheist so you dislike how many of these rituals are religiously toned. Get over it.

Theists just because your ritual is enjoyable does not mean it is enjoyable because it is religious. Or even started out that way. Religion over it's long history has succumbed many activities and tried to rebrand them as religious. Also many rituals have lost their religious value completely. Get over it.

Or alternatively it would be good if everyone could come together and start a few new rituals that everyone could enjoy.
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
01:38 AM on 02/25/2012
"Enjoyable" is not an accurate word to describe the Christian experience of Christian ritual. Instead, our rituals are transcendentally beautiful. They help bring us into communion with God. Without this reaching toward God as their content our rituals would be meaningless and valueless.
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bahramthered
Are you sure Rs arn't Decepitcons in desguise?
02:15 AM on 02/25/2012
No, your wrong. Why else would an atheist with no belief enjoy them?

Why would religion steal so many rituals with no religious value and make them parts of religion? Need a history lesson?

So you can believe they're transcendent and meaningless without god. But they can still be enjoyable. So do what intolerant theist do best, announce the guy who doesn't believe what you do is going to hell and move on. Quickly. Before the logic permeates.
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Killermolls44
The night is dark and full of terrors.
12:56 AM on 02/26/2012
This person needs to find some fun things to do. Go for a hike, a bike ride, rock climbing, white water rafting, ziplining, or just go to the beach for a day. Those things are all much more enjoyable than any religious ceremony.
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bahramthered
Are you sure Rs arn't Decepitcons in desguise?
01:49 AM on 02/26/2012
Well of you do it with friends, form a club, and have arbitrary dates to look forward to, I'd agree with you.
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05:53 PM on 02/24/2012
"But I can't say that I didn't feel a little bit jealous, either. ... atheists still miss out on a comfort provided by religion -- not necessarily in the beliefs per se, but in the ritual of it all."

I don't "feel a little bit jealous" when I see people walking around with smudged foreheads. And I don't feel like I "miss out on a comfort" of any kind, by not following antiquated rituals.

Even when I was a theist, I didn't care much for the rituals. I wouldn't have admitted it then, but "holy communion" kind of creeped me out even then. I went along with the rituals because I thought I was supposed to. I certainly don't miss them.
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
12:53 AM on 02/25/2012
Hi.
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Killermolls44
The night is dark and full of terrors.
12:58 AM on 02/26/2012
Yeah the communion thing is kind of creepy. And the ash thing isn't that great. It's just some old guy with dried up crusty fingers wiping ash on your forehead.
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JShankel
I want my country forward
05:52 PM on 02/24/2012
I used to practice Lent, but I had to give it up.
05:18 PM on 02/25/2012
One of my favorites: I gave up any sort of self-control for Lent. Awful and irreverent, but it made me laugh.
11:03 AM on 02/26/2012
I gave up quitting things.
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02:08 PM on 02/24/2012
I find it fascinating that Mr. Chituc zeroes in on the one thing about religion that often generates some of their greatest scorn--namely, ritualism.

Fascinating because, if you follow standard atheist logic which maintains that if the metaphysical assumptions are false, then the ritualism intended to express those assumptions should be doubly false.

It is not for me to attempt to dissect what either sustains or justifies Mr. Chituc's inner world of disbelief, but the prospect of salvaging ritualism as what is presumeably the one worthwhile thing left over once you've dumped doctrine and dogma is not a particularly satisfying one.

Ritualism? Then, for the sake of what, shall the atheists let himself be guided by ritual? Why would submit to something he otherwise denigrates?

Crass commercialism?

The consumerist fantasies which feed our drearily materialist existence?

The nauseating feel-goodism of our political collectivism?

Or simply that enduring and self-endearing American appetite for doing something strictly for myself (which quickly empties ritualism of what makes it distinctively ritualistic: participation with other people).

But, if all of this is too demanding to consider, one can always invoke our currently most sacred effect and justification for any type of behavior or opinion--enrichment--and, having done so, walk away feeling like wisdom is in one's backpocket.
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Kirk Job-Sluder
04:57 PM on 02/24/2012
Go define ritual only in terms of god, is to dismiss the wide variety of things we have ritual for, along with the experiences of billions of people around the world.
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
01:41 AM on 02/25/2012
fatherdjohnson is expressing in a much more articulate way than I could exactly what I was trying to share with you about why I found the idea of atheists temples so strange.
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gloriaswanson43
Ask and you will get more info.
05:25 PM on 02/24/2012
What in the world are you trying to say here.
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06:33 PM on 02/24/2012
I was trying to look at Mr. Chituc's piece in a number of ways.

First, there's the precious sight of a professed atheist looking from afar at something religious people do and then experiencing a sense of regretful loss over something that his brain has forbidden.

Second, he makes allowance, on the one hand, for religious ritualism and all of what makes it specifically RELIGIOUS, and then, on the other hand, there are the countless other ways in which we indulge ritual behaviors in areas of life that we would not judge to be religious--and the latter run the gamut from all the mythologizing ritual that makes up our patterns of consumption to entertainment to our sometimes highly structured patterns of social interaction and finally to what we can generically term the 'political'.

And finally, Mr. Chituc makes a few forays in these directions, but the results are meager given that our secular ritualisms fall short of anything which might suggest finality, and his final note is one of nostalgic loss. In fact, his is the determined but forlorn attitude of a person who would like to claim that he's still entitled to appropriate a bit of something he's renounced....and that none of us should stand in the way of his personal effort to 'enrich' himself.
12:50 PM on 02/24/2012
What a lovely article!!! I too, am and atheist and what a great way to help promote religious tolerance for all.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
thebigbike
ran away to be a cowboy
12:25 PM on 02/24/2012
..."So it bothers me when other atheists are too quick to do away with the beauty religion cultivates, as if it were necessary to toss the beauty out right along with the cosmology"

examples please
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gloriaswanson43
Ask and you will get more info.
03:53 PM on 02/24/2012
Some old churches are pretty. Some of the artwork is good. I still like the old gospel, slow type music.
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Bob Metcalfe
Caught at 1st. slip trying to cut
04:11 PM on 02/24/2012
Gregorian chants.
thebigbike
ran away to be a cowboy
04:56 PM on 02/24/2012
I was not as clear as I should have been, I was looking for examples of "religious beauty" that atheists are quick to do away with. Certainly there is a great deal of religious music, architecture and visual arts that have great beauty, and when examined on those grounds alone deserve preservation and enjoyment, even by non-religoius persons. I certainly see no reason to do away with them. I just don't wish to have the religious aspects of them supported by public moneys. A beautifully illustrated Book of Hours in a public museum? great! A performance of gospel music or The Bach St Matthew passion, in a public venue, unaccompanied by external proselytization- great stuff.

Followed by a sermon and a collection plate for sectarian missionary work? not so great - IF supported by public moneys. If under the auspices of the church? that's fine.
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CMB1969
raging moderate
12:03 PM on 02/24/2012
Self discipline (and exercises to develop said trait) is certainly a good thing. It would seem that the existence of practices like Lent in a wide range of religious traditions represents the codification of a folk memory about the beneficial nature that is derived.
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Joel Mendez
actual atheist reverend
11:20 PM on 02/24/2012
much ritual is devoted to keeping in sync with natural rhythms in nature (yes, the pagans are sort of right about that). as such, it's entirely apropos i think, as atheists, to find our own expressions of synchronicity with nature. we already do, we just don't really explicitly call them rituals: our morning run, an evening drink b4 bed, reading to the kids, afternoon sunbathing, all sorts of things. i see no reason not to make it explicit. i would question the author's use of lent, perhaps. self discipline, sacrifice, and a test of will power are not time sensitive. i for one would like to see more atheists develop this aspect of our lives, publicly, and with great fanfare. whatever it is that we are, just a brain, or the emergent properties of a brain, whatever, (here the theists would say spirit or soul), doesn't really matter, what matters is that we all have rich inner lives that could probably use a test of will every so often, for whatever personal or social reasons might strike our fancy. being an atheist doesn't mean not being a human being-to the contrary.
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Vlad Chituc
02:01 PM on 02/25/2012
Exactly. Thanks for the thoughtful comment, Joel.
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Killermolls44
The night is dark and full of terrors.
12:59 AM on 02/26/2012
There was a horrible earthquake on ash Wednesday when I was a kid. That traditional day is bad luck.
12:00 PM on 02/24/2012
I think he's missing the point. Why is he trying to replace a religious holiday/tradition with an atheistic one? The whole point is being free to do what you want and not care. Next thing you know you'll have atheists shunning you for not having an A embroiled on your vest... :))
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Joel Mendez
actual atheist reverend
11:24 PM on 02/24/2012
"The whole point is being free to do what you want and not care." no, that's not the point, that's nihilism, it's rather childish, and frankly, i expect more from you, if you're going to call yourself an atheist. the point is to underline the silliness of believing in fairy tales. the evidence available to us from neuroscience, psychology, and even biology, all point to there being tangible benefits to rituals. more so a ritual intended to strengthen self discipline, and to test one's will against outside influences.

and it's 'embroidered' fyi.