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Waymon Hudson

Waymon Hudson

Posted: November 10, 2010 03:27 PM

Benedictine University doesn't mind you being gay. Really. As long as you don't tell anyone.

Administrator Laine Tadlock, who was director of the education program at Benedictine, was forced from her job from the Catholic university in Springfield, Illinois after a local paper, The State Journal-Register, published her wedding announcement to her partner Kae Helstrom in Iowa. The university knew she was gay and about her out-of-state wedding. But apparently took issue with the announcement mentioning she worked at the university:

In a Sept. 30 letter to Tadlock's attorney, Benedictine President William Carroll wrote, "... By publicizing the marriage ceremony in which she participated in Iowa, she has significantly disregarded and flouted core religious beliefs which, as a Catholic institution, it is our mission to uphold."

That's right. Marrying her partner "flouted" the Catholic institution so much that she couldn't do her job anymore.

I wonder how many other legal weddings of employees disregard the "core religious beliefs" of the church. By this down-the-rabbit-hole logic, there must certainly be no one on staff that is divorced... or that *gasps* curses or takes the lord's name in vain in a public forum or on campus. That would flout the mission of the university, right?

This just boils down to plain anti-gay discrimination, even by the schools own admission:

Tadlock met that day with Carroll and Mike Bromberg, dean of academic affairs. Tadlock said Carroll told her he had consulted three Catholic bishops about the situation, including Bishop Thomas Paprocki of the Springfield diocese. At least one person, Catholic activist Steve Brady of Petersburg, said he complained to Paprocki. He also wrote and sent e-mails to other church officials condemning Tadlock and Benedictine following the announcement's publication.

So all it took was one anti-gay activist with no connection to the university to activate the Catholic Church's longtime bias against LGBT people and force Tadlock from her job, despite the University's own employee handbook statement on discrimination:

It is the university's policy to provide equal employment opportunity to all persons without discrimination on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, disability, handicap, veteran status, marital status, sexual orientation or any basis protected by law.

People wonder why we need things like the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) or need protections to simply live our lives in a way equal to our heterosexual counterparts. All it took was one person complaining to get a longtime educator removed from her job for simply celebrating a special (and legal) occasion in her life like any other person would do.

Discrimination doesn't get more plain than that.

 

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Benedictine University doesn't mind you being gay. Really. As long as you don't tell anyone. Administrator Laine Tadlock, who was director of the education program at Benedictine, was forced from h...
Benedictine University doesn't mind you being gay. Really. As long as you don't tell anyone. Administrator Laine Tadlock, who was director of the education program at Benedictine, was forced from h...
 
 
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01:28 AM on 11/15/2010
If she had been heterosexual and it came out publicly that she had been living in sin with a man (according to Catholic teaching) she would also have been fired. The Church is not against people with homosexual orientation, it is against sexual unions outside of marriage. The same laws apply to gays and straights. And that is what Jesus preached....at least that is what you believe if you are a Catholic.

If you can't accept the Church's teaching the solution is simple--don't become a Catholic.
08:35 AM on 11/15/2010
We did have a staff and faculty member living together while waiting for the annulment. They were married this year as well. Both are still working at their jobs.
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cwebster
predominantly exasperated
10:40 PM on 11/14/2010
Looks like a lawsuit for wrongful dismissal...
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LynnW49
"A great democracy must be progressive." TR
09:20 PM on 11/13/2010
Looks like a pretty good lawsuit in the making.
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Turtleposer
I have micro-bios in my tummy.
06:17 PM on 11/13/2010
"It is the university's policy to provide equal employment opportunity to all persons without discrimination on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, disability, handicap, veteran status, marital status, sexual orientation or any basis protected by law."

Whoops! Benedictine College shouldn't have gone against its employee handbook by firing a woman because of the wedding to her female partner.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
08:06 PM on 11/13/2010
The problem with these hypocrites in various religion is that it's OK to be GLBT as long as we don't get uppity and feel we should be able to share happy events in our lives like getting married.
09:06 AM on 11/13/2010
If she was a child molesting Priest, the Catholic Church would have protected her. Talk about an institution that is stuck in the tenth century.
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briarus42
08:00 PM on 11/12/2010
Well nuns women that live their whole lives with other women, nothing going on there that would raise eyebrows?
07:55 PM on 11/12/2010
Is this legal? Thought there were laws against this? Such hypocrites the Catholic Church - coverup for petophile priests - against divorce, but you don't hear about them being fired - they don't believe in lots of things, but only gays get fired????????
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dblan9
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01:30 PM on 11/12/2010
I am so tired of Gay people trying to say the one Catholic Church they go to is ok with Homosexuality. None of them are ok with it. Catholicism is completely against Homosexuality. If you are Gay and you attend or work for a Catholic organization, it is going to bite you at some time.
08:41 AM on 11/15/2010
Laine did not work for a catholic church. She worked for a university. This university knew she was a lesbian prior to hiring her. Not only did they hire her, they promoted her. They hired her partner as well, knowing they were partners. They were told that the University was going to provide legally domiciled adult benefits (which includes coverage for same sex partners). Her supervisor knew about the pending wedding and offered his congratulations. Which of these actions says"Hey folks yo ae working for the Catholic Church and all hell is going to break lose when you post that announcement."?
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AGooglyMinotaur
Ahh, Theseus. It appears you are out of thread.
11:48 AM on 11/12/2010
It's 2010, people. Get out of the Middle Ages. The same part of the Bible that discourages homosexuality also says I can rape a woman as long as I marry her after and pay her father 50 silver shekels. That kind of advice isn't guiding my moral compass, and I sure hope it isn't guiding yours.

A lot of Christians seem to forget that Jesus made a new covenant with God's people, based on universal love, peace, and acceptance, that supercedes every division and conflict that came before. Another major point of Jesus' life was that everyone must question the institutions around them and look within their own heart to find how a true lamb of God would act. This includes questioning Catholic dogma! The Church has made countless mistakes over the centuries, and this prejudice is another.

It's a cliché at this point, but really, what would Jesus do? I just can't see the son of God calling this woman into his office and saying, "I'm sorry, my child, but although I am happy that you have found love and I congratulate you on your wedding, your behavior is inconsistent with the values of this institution and we're going to have to let you go."
07:38 AM on 11/13/2010
The problem with the Catholic church is that the don't worship the actual Almighty, who they worship is that man in the big hat. He's a symbolic image of someone who speaks the word of God. So many Catholics don't care (really) about the bible, but everything that has to do with what the Pope tells them to worry about.

Frankly, I don't think a lot of Christians actually care about the bible, just so long as it backs up their own bigoted/racist/sexist core beliefs.
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gregcurts
Any belief worth having must survive doubt”
10:49 AM on 11/12/2010
She worked for a CATHOLIC institution, what did she expect?
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Turtleposer
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06:18 PM on 11/13/2010
The handbook stated that it didn't discriminate against people for their sexual orientation.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
08:10 PM on 11/13/2010
They do what they want regardless of what is in their handbook.
10:47 AM on 11/12/2010
She wasn't fired...she QUIT.

They wanted to get her out of a role where she wouldn't be in direct contact with students. As a CATHOLIC institution, that is their right.

People get forced into job choices all the time; "we're moving the accounting dept. to Olathe, KS. You can choose to transfer there...same duties/salary...or you'd have to find another job with another company".

The job she was offered was NOT scrubbing toilets or anything...and THE SALARY/BENEFITS WERE THE SAME!!!! Refusing to take it & run crying to the media was HER choice...a misguided, dangerous one that will hinder her career options for years. She might think she has legal options/opportunities...she does not.

Details:

"n a statement released Thursday, Benedictine officials said Tadlock effectively resigned Oct. 27 when she refused to be reassigned as director of accreditation, assessment and institutional effectiveness.

The bishop of Springfield, John Paprocki, was consulted before Tadlock was given the ultimatum to accept the new job or leave, officials said. He said the school “is to be commended for its fidelity to the truth in upholding the faith and morals as taught by the Catholic Church.” "
11:20 AM on 11/12/2010
oops,

they wanted to get her IN to a role where she wouldn't be in direct contact with students.

And an additional comment;

I find it more than a bit offensive for someone who WALKED AWAY from a relatively high-paying job w/great benefits to run crying to the court 'o public opinion for sympathy.

I imagine there are tens-of-thousands of unemployed LGBT individuals who would be thrilled to be hired as "director of accreditation, assessment and institutional effectiveness" at a university....even a Catholic one.
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Douglas Campbell
09:43 PM on 11/12/2010
The detail you omit is that she was being effectively punished for doing nothing wrong.
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Doug Watt
Not ready for 2012
11:50 PM on 11/14/2010
What a strange comment. You seem to be angry at her for bringing to light what happened.
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LynnW49
"A great democracy must be progressive." TR
09:31 PM on 11/13/2010
The university president, after a complaint from a Catholic activist about the announcement, claimed in a letter that Tadlock “significantly disregarded and flouted core religious beliefs which, as a Catholic institution, it is our mission to uphold.” She was offered early retirement and a reassignment and refused both; she ultimately left her director position Oct. 28—the university claims she resigned; she denies it.
http://www.newser.com/story/105144/wedding-announcement-costs-lesbian-her-job.html

Tadlock left the program Oct. 28. The university says Tadlock resigned. Tadlock says she didn’t.
http://www.sj-r.com/top-stories/x1109354817/Newspaper-wedding-announcement-costs-gay-woman-her-job-at-Benedictine-University

According to documents Tadlock furnished to the newspaper, the university offered her an early retirement deal Aug. 27 under which she would have been paid one year’s salary, two-thirds of her salary the second year and one-third the third year. The offer also included a confidentiality clause prohibiting Tadlock from talking publicly about what had happened, as well as a waiver prohibiting her from filing suit against Benedictine.
http://www.queerty.com/benedictine-university-fired-laine-tadlock-not-for-being-a-lesbian-but-for-announcing-her-lesbian-wedding-20101110/#ixzz15DhGMuIu

Forcing someone to choose to retire, or to take a position that is not a match, ONLY when the announcement was published and not because of organizational changes has different overtones. It looks very much like a violation of the school's own policy.
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Larry Motuz
More prayers, fewer preyers.
03:59 PM on 11/17/2010
Thank you for this background.
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THETINGLYONE
10:15 AM on 11/12/2010
BSERIUS libs,,,,,She signed legal employment forms that the HR dept scoured before termination,,,, It is a private institution ...

NOW or Planned Parenthood can do the same if one of its members or employees came out as pro life
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LeftRight
TANSTAAFL
10:30 AM on 11/12/2010
WRONG! Their own policy states:

"It is the university's policy to provide equal employment opportunity to all persons without discrimination on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, disability, handicap, veteran status, marital status, SEXUAL ORIENTATION or any basis protected by law."

And so NOTHING that she signed said that she couldn't get married to a member of the same sex, OR that she couldn't post it!
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AGooglyMinotaur
Ahh, Theseus. It appears you are out of thread.
11:33 AM on 11/12/2010
Fanned for actually making the effort to know what you're talking about :)
12:50 PM on 11/12/2010
NOTHING that she signed said that she could not be shifted to another position with the University that would not affect salary, benefits and/or her pension.

She was offered that option, she chose to decline it & not show up to work.
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satanlite
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09:08 AM on 11/12/2010
A perfect example of why LGBT community is being bullied in school - that attitude of the principals and our government filters down to the lowest voltage members of society, and the criminal Republicans and hate filled conservatives feel justified in their attacks. Another sickening aspect of so-called American society (which is becoming just a loose associaton of rabid individuals all out for themselves no matter what the price).
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Doug Watt
Not ready for 2012
11:59 PM on 11/14/2010
Absolutely right.
08:59 AM on 11/12/2010
Why oh why can't we separate personal life from our professional life???
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LynnW49
"A great democracy must be progressive." TR
09:34 PM on 11/13/2010
So no heterosexual wedding announcement should ever refer to where the marrieds are employed?
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Riverman
The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars,
07:25 AM on 11/12/2010
Why is it that every time some form of bigotry is being defended you can always rely on the followers of Jesus to be in the lead? I can't find any examples of Jesus being a hateful bigot or a money grubber. He was a liberal socialist and his only act of violence was against the mix of merchants, priest and government using religion to make money and when he objected to them they had him arrested and after a trial and two appeals lawfully executed him for interfering with commerce. In the modern world the group that self identifies as church + state + capitalist are the tea publicans. Good thing Jesus isn't real or these people would be in real trouble.
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satanlite
Liberal blogger
09:09 AM on 11/12/2010
They are not "followers of Jesus" (that haters anyway). They are merely justifying their hate using the Bible, going from examples they've grown up with. Sickening.
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Larry Motuz
More prayers, fewer preyers.
04:04 PM on 11/17/2010
For their Bible, go to Conservapedia (Bible Project). It's very good at moral simplicism, and as a B-LIE-BLE, a good guide to the ignorance of 'right' Christian teaching.