Earlier this year, I was watching a repeat episode of "The Oprah Winfrey Show." The guest on this particular episode was Dr. Oz, who was tasked with answering a series of health questions, many of which were related to women's reproductive health.
After Dr. Oz answered a question about douching,...
Posted November 22, 2011 | 11/22/11 12:00 PM ET
Three months ago, I launched a website, The Current Conscience, which primarily features my point-of-view and my writings about women, gender inequality, popular culture, and politics. It's also been eight months since I began actively writing about women.
In my writing, I discuss issues that brilliant women writers...
Posted November 15, 2011 | 11/15/11 12:57 PM ET
The shocking and tragic events at Penn State that have unfolded over the past two weeks, which have allegedly exposed former assistant football coach, Jerry Sandusky, as a sexual predator, have (yet again) brought the issue of child sex abuse to the forefront of our collective consciousness.
In light of...
Posted October 24, 2011 | 10/24/11 03:22 PM ET
It's great to be a man in our society. The perks seem to be endless. Everything is built with the intention of accommodating our needs. It's fantastic, really. We men are constantly validated.
And the bedroom is one place where we receive consistent validation. I'm talking about women faking orgasms...
Posted October 17, 2011 | 10/17/11 06:07 PM ET
My friend Karen (all names changed to protect privacy) was confused and frustrated when she called me on a Friday night.
About a year ago, she met a guy, Michael, through work. They met a few times for drinks with colleagues and then one night, she met him for dinner,...
Posted September 12, 2011 | 09/12/11 04:34 PM ET
You're so sensitive. You're so emotional. You're defensive. You're overreacting. Calm down. Relax. Stop freaking out! You're crazy! I was just joking, don't you have a sense of humor? You're so dramatic. Just get over it already!
Sound familiar?
If you're a woman, it probably does.
Do you ever...
Posted September 9, 2011 | 09/09/11 04:22 PM ET
It's September, which means it's Menopause Awareness Month. But most of us aren't aware of this. Nothing comes up on a cursory search on Google News: no real news stories on menopause, despite the fact that this year, another 2 million women will reach menopause. These women will join approximately...
Posted August 29, 2011 | 08/29/11 07:13 PM ET
The other day, my friend Dina was talking about her experiences of being catcalled--street harassment is a more accurate term--while walking around the streets of New York. This wasn't the first time I've heard about the epidemic of street harassment. Many of my women friends have remarked about experiencing and...
Posted August 25, 2011 | 08/25/11 05:02 PM ET
When I tell people I'm Iranian and gay, they inevitably ask two questions: do your parents know, and if they do, what was their reaction?
I came out to my parents 9 years ago, when I was 22. Before I told them about my sexuality, I managed to create a...
Posted August 22, 2011 | 08/22/11 04:24 PM ET
When most people are seeking love, they have a basic list of check boxes they hold up to their prospective partners. On this list are questions like: is he single? Is he ready to be in a relationship? Is he emotionally available? Does he want to be in a relationship...
Posted August 15, 2011 | 08/15/11 02:36 AM ET
A few weeks ago, there was a hubbub over Congresswoman Michele Bachmann's decision to sign, "The Marriage Vow," a fourteen-point pledge drafted by Iowa conservative Christian group, The Family Leader.
The controversy over the pledge centers on the fact that signers are asked to oppose same-sex marriage on all levels...
Posted August 10, 2011 | 08/10/11 05:33 PM ET
I was born a boy and a feminist on Thanksgiving Day, 1979. We are all born feminists, just as much as we are all born free of racial discrimination. The definition of feminism is the same now, as it was on the day I was born: a man or woman...
Posted July 18, 2011 | 07/18/11 02:21 PM ET
Last December, I sat in my friend's living room, glued to her television as we watched one of the last episodes of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. I was completely hooked on The Real Housewives series. I loved the characters and their loud, crazy, dramatic interactions with each other....
Posted June 29, 2011 | 06/29/11 07:37 PM ET
This past weekend, as I was leaving the shopping mall near my apartment, I overheard a man tell his son and daughter that they needed to rush home for dinner because, "We don't want mommy to get really upset."
For the record, the guy seemed like a...
Posted June 26, 2011 | 06/26/11 06:30 PM ET
Ricky Smith used to spend his Sundays on Jones Street, doing drugs and sleeping on cardboard. His three children never saw him and he spent his days working as a pimp. He was one of many chronically homeless living in San Francisco.
But after years on the streets, he finally...
Posted June 22, 2011 | 06/22/11 05:31 PM ET
I want to explore an issue that has bothered me for some time: politicians who are publicly pro-choice while claiming to be against marriage equality, aka gay marriage.
As an LGBT activist and former political staffer, I have never been blind to the reality of what...
Posted June 17, 2011 | 06/17/11 06:32 PM ET
Before submitting my writing for online publication, I often send it to my friend Craig for feedback. The advice he offers ranges from pointing out typos to critiquing overall themes. But it was his response to my latest piece, "I Didn't Go to College and I'm Proud of...
Posted June 9, 2011 | 06/09/11 03:26 PM ET
I love the mistakes I've made in my life. What I love most are my biggest mistakes. But I am always mystified as to why we seem unable to learn from other people's missteps. Why must we travel down the same bumpy road, the one other people already regret traveling...
Posted June 7, 2011 | 06/07/11 11:29 AM ET
For most people, there is nothing more exciting than a press conference given by a politician who is confessing to his/her personal transgressions.
There they are, completely vulnerable and exposed to the world. They bare their private lives for all to see, asking their families and...
Posted June 1, 2011 | 06/01/11 03:28 PM ET
PayPal co-founder and Facebook investor Peter Thiel recently announced that he was going to give twenty-four college-age students a $100,000 grant to pursue their entrepreneurial ambitions instead of going to college.
Many commentators have criticized him for diminishing the value of a college education by encouraging his...

Posted February 1, 2012 | 02/01/12 04:16 PM ET