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By Becca Daniels

In June of 1998, I lost an uncle to an AIDS related illness. He was brilliant, he was Christian, and he was gay. I was only five years old when he died and I didn't know anything about AIDS. I just knew I was sad to lose such a great uncle.

Today, I find myself fighting a hate group in his honor.

When my friend told me the Westboro Baptist Church planned to picket my high school, I didn't know much about them, so I dug into stories about the group's ideology on the Internet. The so-called "church" (based in Kansas with no real Baptist church affiliations) goes around the country protesting at fallen soldiers' funerals, saying their deaths are paying for the "sins" of the country. The church is anti-Semitic, anti-homosexual, anti-government and a downright hateful group. They've even picketed President Obama's daughters' school in Washington, D.C. (their website calls the girls "satanic spawn" as previously reported by HuffPost.)

The Westboro Baptist Church website says they picked my school, Henry W. Grady High in Atlanta, Georgia, because of our tolerance for homosexuality. They sometimes bring signs to their protest rallies that read, "Thank God for AIDS."

I cried when I read that.

How could a group of people thank God for a disease that has affected millions of people and left the families of the victims, families such as mine, devastated? I have never attended a protest in my life, and I contemplated ignoring the picketers and not giving them the attention they crave, but I knew this rally was my call to action.

Today, I'm holding a student led demonstration of my very own -- a complete antithesis to Westboro's -- and it's at the same time as theirs. I've created a group on Facebook that has 2600 fans and counting. People from all over the country, who I have never met, are posting words of encouragement to me.

Our actions today are about unconditional love, tolerance, and acceptance towards others. My friends and I coined the name A-T-L, standing for Acceptance, Tolerance, and Love. We will congregate with signs devoted to love, have stations for participants to make shirts with the A.T.L. logo on them, and collect donations for AID Atlanta, a non-profit organization helping people living with HIV/AIDS in the Atlanta area.

As soon as school gets out today, the Westboro Church is scheduled to be on our sidewalk. Our rally will be across the street, in Atlanta's 185-acre Piedmont Park. This experience will no longer be about Westboro. Grady High students are taking the story away from the church to tell a different one.

This is Atlanta: the home of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., the cultural center of the South. Today, we'll live up to our city's slogan: "too busy to hate."

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HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Middle Blue
What's a micro-bio?
10:39 AM on 05/11/2010
Where is the million baptist march outside of their church?

For such an inflamed group with strong views, they have done nothing to discredit, unveil or destroy this 'church'.

So, I think that that baptist fundamentalists should be, but are not, your natural ally.

Why is that?
03:24 AM on 05/11/2010
This is just another example of how the Christian religion has been twisted and turned on its head . The westboro church is an example of what Jesus would NOT do .............
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Todd Surfs
Therapist, gay activist
04:21 PM on 05/08/2010
There's no way of fanning or favouriting you sufficiently, so I've followed the link provided to Facebook, where I'm posting this on my profile.

I've also joined the page in support of your magnificent effort.

Go Grady High School - Go Gray Knights!
02:16 PM on 05/07/2010
these people you protest against are not worth the time or effort. they are entitled to there opinion no matter how far out there it is. so to the students at GHS if your going to protest against them you need to make it fun, you need to find out what drives them off the deep end and use it get all the people you can and protest all it's members at there homes so all there neighbors know what lives around them. use what offends them the most and go with that. since it would be impossible to talk to these people you must drive them nuts it won't be a long drive.
11:49 AM on 05/07/2010
As an Atlantan, i have to say GHS students make us PROUD!
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lizipoo
Sick of sockpuppets
12:39 AM on 06/02/2010
I'm way over here in Oregon and very proud too!!! And a child shall lead them.....
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momcat54
10:55 AM on 05/07/2010
WHat a fine young lady you are I know your family must be so proud of you. I hope your rally went well . Please know that even though your uncle is gone the love he had for you is still there ,love endures forever
10:45 AM on 05/07/2010
Thanks for this article and hope everything went well at the counter-rally. While you aren't likely (at all) to reach any of the Westboro monsters, you might be able to open a mind or two with others who might sympathize with any number of their things they "hate". Kudos to you and your school!
10:13 AM on 05/07/2010
Bravo to the author for fighting these hateful, insane people. I would also like to inform all reading this that yesterday, I read on cnn.com a story they have done on the Westboro Baptist Church, putting a positive spin on this group and the "good" they have done. Sorry I don't have the link, but google it and see for yourself. Yes, that is now what CNN has become.
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rambot02
A modest proposal...
05:42 PM on 05/08/2010
Some other CNN stories had CNN been around at the time:

"Mussolini makes the trains run on time."
"In lifeboats, Titanic survivors enjoy singing '100 Bottles of Beer' as they await rescue."
"Black Death makes it easier to book your summer getaway."
"Vlad the Impaler a boon for wooden stake industry."
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ZenGardner
This is NOT the Zen you're looking for.
09:29 AM on 05/07/2010
"Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule." - The Buddha

Simple to say... difficult to practice.
09:15 AM on 05/07/2010
You're wasting your time. These people are insane.
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LemonMeringue
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08:46 AM on 05/07/2010
Don't even counter-rally them. Ignore them completely. They crave the attention.

When they gathered on the street in a city nearby where then-candidate Obama was speaking, many people took their pictures or engaged them in conversation. They happily posed for the pictures. They were angry about the conversation, even yelling "don't say that" when someone kept telling them "God loves you."

Really, just walk on by and pretend you don't see them.
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hagagaga
My comments are funnier than yours.
08:20 AM on 05/07/2010
In the words of Judy Shepard, "Fred Phelps is a sad old man."
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07:04 AM on 05/07/2010
Wanted to add my voice in support of the Grady students. They were great yesterday. It was so much fun to get there and stand on 10th street and watch the Grady students coming out with there signs and standing across the street from WBC group.

We were a mix of students, parents and supporters. Their teachers watching them was also cool. Becca helped to make a positive out of a very negative think. Maybe we should take a lesson.
03:40 AM on 05/07/2010
Go get em! This group should be followed and protested everywhere they go and at their home. Hate does not belong anywhere in this great country of ours. These people should be ashamed of themselves for their evil deeds.
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Jimboy17
11:07 PM on 05/06/2010
The answer to everything with this group is simple. They are hateful, evil, idiots.