08/15/2011 11:11 am ET Updated Oct 15, 2011

Maybe I Do And Maybe I Don't

Both men have been through so much, both before they met and since they became a couple. Both have fought tirelessly for gay rights. And both celebrated with much of the rest of New York when this state adopted marriage equality.

Finally, Kevin and Howard could get married legally.

But now, they realize, they don't want to.

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