08/18/2011 08:23 am ET Updated Oct 18, 2011

Jennifer Love Hewitt & Ben Flajnik Not Dating, She Says

Jennifer Love Hewitt is trying to clear up rumors that she is dating 'Bachelorette' runner-up Ben Flajnik. The actress started the speculation when she wrote a flirty tweet during the show's finale.

"Omg! Ben f except my final rose !!! I love that ring. Neil lane u rock!! Happy for Ashley.... Gotta book a flight to Sonoma !!!:):)" she tweeted.

A week later, Life & Style reported that on August 6, Jennifer flew to San Francisco, where she and Ben went on a date at Lion's Pub and reportedly made out.

Wednesday Jennifer went on Ryan Seacrest's radio show and said she is "totally single" and did not plan a date with Ben--but didn't quite deny a make out session.

“We did meet, but totally by coincidence,” she said.

“Did you make out with him?” Ellen K, Ryan’s co-host, asked.

“Rumors are rumors,” Jennifer laughed.

It's not the first time Jennifer, who is new to Twitter, has sent a regrettable tweet. This week her feelings were hurt after followers reacted harshly to a photo of her new haircut.