01/06/2012 01:20 pm ET

Why Men Can't Stand To Be Alone After A Breakup Or A Divorce

ONE cold, misty autumn morning, I slipped and fell. I was on my way out to do errands, the mossy wooden deck on the north side of my house was slick with dew, I was in a hurry, I skidded, and both feet flew out from under me.

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