04/26/2012 02:49 pm ET

The Birds, The Bees, And Blended Families

Dear Dr. Diana,

I have been divorced for a year and I don’t want my ex-wife back.  Just to be clear.

Turns out that she cheated on me repeatedly over the years and took advantage of my generosity and trust.  She is not a good person.  I recently found out that she is getting re-married.  Ever since, I’ve been preoccupied with thoughts about our marriage and everything that happened.  I’m thinking about warning the man that she is marrying (even though I don’t know him personally) about who she really is.

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