04/30/2012 07:32 pm ET

How To Stepparent: 'Divorce Court' Judge Lynn Toler Offers Advice

How should step-parents discipline their step-kids?

In the video above, “Divorce Court” Judge Lynn Toler offers her step-parenting tips.

"You guys have to be on the same page and the natural parent has to take the lead -- you back them up, but you can't come in there swing orders right from the beginning," she says.

Watch the video below to hear more of Toler's advice, then share your own tips in the comments.

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