05/11/2012 01:56 pm ET

Why You Blame Yourself For Bad Relationships -- And How To Stop

Many years ago, Tina, 28, a bright, hard-working software engineer, came to me for help with persistent feelings of self-doubt and depression. She’d met a man at work, Ken, and fallen madly in love, but as happy as she felt most of the time, she still couldn’t shake the feeling she was doing something terribly wrong.

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