09/12/2012 09:36 am ET Updated Dec 06, 2017

It Ain't Over: She Struck Gold By Turning An Office Building Into An Oasis

One of the reasons I started my website is that I wanted a place for women to come together and dream. We women need to know that we don't have to hang on to an old dream that has stopped nurturing us -- that there is always time to start a new dream. This week's story is about one woman who thought she was buying an office building to rent it out, but started down a whole new path when she took over the little spa that came with the building. -– Marlo,

By Lori Weiss

At the ripe old age of five, Heidi Lamar learned how to turn lemons into lemonade. It wouldn’t have been an unusual feat for a girl her age, had she decided to set up a stand and sell the refreshing drink to passers-by on a hot summer day. But even as a child, Heidi seemed to see opportunity where others might have seen impossibility -- or in this case -- a very cold snowy day in Seattle.

“Looking back, I’m not sure my logic was all that sound,” Heidi laughed, “I had to put on a snowsuit to set up the card table.”

Heidi’s mother warned her that if she was serious about this venture, she’d have to keep her little stand open until she sold every drop -- most likely thinking that once frostbite set in, the young entrepreneur would come to her senses. But it wasn’t long before a family drove by, rolled down the window and bought the entire pitcher.

“I sold it to them for a dollar,” Heidi recalled, “and they thought that was such a great deal, that they asked what else I had to sell. So I led them to the garage and showed them boxes of apples my mother had stored away. And they bought each of those for a dollar too! I didn’t really understand the whole bottom line thing back then or that those apples weren’t exactly part of my inventory.

“So there I was, rapping at the door with my mittens, and holding up a fistful of dollars. And that’s when I was hooked. Everywhere I looked, I saw an opportunity to sell something.”

By the time she was six, Heidi was a budding young DJ. By putting a box over a radio and allowing a slot for quarters, she created her own jukebox. At eight, she used the purple bike she’d gotten for Christmas to deliver groceries to the neighbors. And by 10, she was making her way down to the Cedar River, loading up buckets of wild blackberries, and selling them for five dollars a bundle.

“I was taking the zip lock baggies from my mother’s kitchen,” she said with a smile, “so there was no overhead! I just held up a sign by the road that said, If you bring your wife blackberries, she’ll bake you a pie. I don’t know how many of those men actually got pies, but I sold a lot of blackberries.”

Heidi saw opportunity everywhere, so much so, that by the time she was 16 and all the other teenagers were talking about the kinds of cars they’d like to buy, she already had several savings accounts and CDs. She even started thinking about putting a down payment on a house and renting it out, so she’d have a steady source of income.

So no one was surprised when she got her real estate license and bought that first piece of property at 21 -- a home she still rents out today. Nor were they surprised when, as she was approaching 40, she bought an office building with the idea of leasing out the space. She was an entrepreneur, after all.

But it was the skill she learned at five -- turning lemons into lemonade and selling it in the midst of a snowstorm -- that would help her turn that nondescript building into a luxury destination. Something she never planned on doing, but would change her career path and her life forever.

“There was a spa inside the building that wasn’t doing well,” Heidi explained. “The owner had died suddenly and her father was selling the building, but hoping to find someone who would keep his daughter’s vision alive. I refer to it as my gift with purchase. I didn’t know the first thing about running a spa. I can count on one hand the number of times I’d even been in one. But I knew the location was great and if I could get someone in there to run it, it would be a great investment.”

And that’s what Heidi did. She hired a spa director with lots of experience and thought she was on her way -- until a family emergency summoned the woman back to her hometown in South Africa -- and with two days notice, Heidi found herself holding the keys to the spa and to her future.

“I tried to hire someone else, but she missed her kids and moved back to Miami. And it was at that point that I realized I was going to have to learn how to run a spa.”

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It Ain't Over: Heidi Lamar

So the successful real estate agent immersed herself in the industry, going to trade shows where she quickly realized that she was the only one who hadn’t begun as a massage therapist, hairdresser or aesthetician.

“People would say, 'do you realize there are more spas per capita in Phoenix than any other city in the world?' Everyone thought I was crazy, but they’d been telling me that my whole life.”

So in a city literally blanketed by high-end resorts, Heidi looked for an opportunity, and as she had her entire life, she found one. The desert area had no shortage of pricey getaways and what Heidi refers to as “the AND spas”, places that were actually hair salons, but also offered facials. What didn’t exist though was a place that offered local residents and business travelers the same kind of luxury that vacationers came to experience, at a price they could afford.

With absolutely no experience, Heidi not only renovated the worn-out spa, but gave the entire building a makeover. As tenants moved out, she took over the space, adding a yoga studio, hair salon and event room and doubled the area for nail and aesthetic services. She turned the aging building into the kind of space that makes one feel as if they’re visiting a wealthy relative’s estate.

And then she sold the spa’s services in the same way she sold lemonade in a snowstorm -- with a little bit of charm and a whole lot of moxie.

Heidi developed a trade agreement with the Phoenix Suns. By providing services to their cheerleaders, she landed a spot on the scoreboard. And it wasn’t long before the spa suddenly had a large influx of male guests.

“I’m pretty sure they come in hoping they’ll run into one of the girls,” she laughed, “but they return because they like it. And now women come in, because they know the guys hang out here!”

Next she established relationships with hotels that didn’t have spas and even the ones that did. “We became the place they sent their guests when they were full or if they sensed the person would go without a massage rather than pay a resort rate. And we always made sure everyone came back raving. There’s one hotel that even linked the spa button in the rooms directly to our desk -- which allows them to advertise a spa package.

And today Spa Lamar is the largest privately owned resort-style spa in Scottsdale, Arizona. But Heidi hasn’t forgotten her roots. As you enter the atrium, where guests relax before their services, the first thing you see are pitchers of ice cold lemonade -– a sweet reminder of the lessons she learned so early in life.

“In the spa industry, you’re not supposed to have 'happy endings,'” Heidi said with a grin, "but I definitely got mine.

"I think in life you have to learn to look beyond the lemons. I guess it’s an attitude -- a way of seeing things. And that’s a choice -- to be open to the possibility that something might be sweet. There’s opportunity everywhere. You just have to be open to it."

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