11/06/2012 08:37 am ET Updated Nov 06, 2012

Online Dating Advice from Iyanla's 'Fix My Life' (VIDEO)

Cheryl, a 42-year-old woman who describes herself as "terminally single," has a laundry list of deal breakers and her own binder full of men -- 126 dating profiles of men who couldn't keep her interest after the first date. Watch as relationship expert Iyanla Vanzant sets Cheryl up on more (unsuccessful) dates before confronting what's really holding her back: a fear of intimacy.

Cheryl takes a step in the right direction when she admits that she might be wrong about what makes the perfect guy and opens herself up to heartache.