Stay at home or work. It really doesn’t matter what you do. You’ll find a way to feel guilty about something either way. You just have to do what feels right to you and what works best for your family,” explained a wise and dear friend of mine. As we chatted on the phone, I was staring out at the Space Needle from my luxurious, very quiet (aaah, I remember quiet) hotel room, rubbing my almost eight-months-pregnant belly.