02/03/2013 09:32 am ET Updated Feb 02, 2016

My Partner Came Out As Trans While I Was Pregnant

A lot of stories about notable trans people usually have one line about how their supportive partners stayed by their sides. Sometimes it's one quick line about how the couple parted ways, but either way, it's not very illuminating.

When my partner came out as a trans woman, I sometimes wondered, "Am I the only one who finds this so fucking hard?!" All of my conflicted feelings just wrapped up into a sticky guilt ball that sat in the pit of my gut, right next to my baby.

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