03/06/2013 02:17 pm ET

How Much Do YOU Dress For Your Partner?

I have a dress at home hanging on my rail that I will probably never wear again but am incapable of throwing away. It is what my boyfriend Chris and I refer to affectionately as my "'Slag Dress" -- a bright pink, one sleeved body-con number that I once had the misplaced confidence to actually wedge myself into, back when we were first "dating" (I use this term loosely).

I remember buying it, thinking that it was going to knock his socks off. And it did, he loved me in it, and I felt sexy and hot and like some kind of special superhero with the special powers of being able to make the man I wanted turn to putty.

Read more on xo Jane