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03/18/2013 01:43 pm ET Updated Feb 02, 2016

Getting With Girls Like Us: A Radical Guide To Dating Trans* Women For Cis Women

Recently, I went on a dinner date with a cis woman that ended a bit awkwardly. Some of the conversation we shared was nice, we talked about film (fyi - an easy topic to hold my interest, ladies!), our common roots back in the States, and her background in performance art. At one point she shared with me her frustrations over a performance meant to showcase artists from our region in the U.S. The thing is, whoever put together this particular exhibition had invited a number of men from her theatre program to participate -- meanwhile she and several of the other women who graduated from the program found out about the event later when one of the guys posted it on facebook.

It's pretty easy to feel anger over such blatant sexism, and it immediately reminded me of some of my own experiences of feeling ignored at times in my own workplace. But then she said something that struck a really odd chord:

"Yeah, it's supposed to represent artists from the South, but it turns out it's just a total sausage fest."

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