07/12/2013 10:46 am ET

The 5 Completely Unavailable Guys I've Met Online


I don't have ick-factor feelings about online dating. I have no problem with it. I like meeting new people, dating, and modern conveniences. Online dating combines all three. I'm online because I'm hoping to (at the very least), go on a fun date, and (at the most), find someone to begin a relationship with.

I am in no position to tell people how to online date. Do as you like, for your own reasons. I'll mind my business. But today I speak to a topic that's been on my mind for a while, because it keeps confronting me.

My profile is honest. I do not lie, mislead, or suggest that I want anything other than to actually date people. I expect the same from those who contact me. And yet, as if an organized mob, completely unavailable men swarm my inbox, batting their virtual eyelashes in my general direction. Put those things away.

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