You wish he'd look at you the way he used to. You long to feel adored and desired as you did when you two first got together. You want to know, without a doubt, that your partner still finds you beautiful, even though you've been married for a long time. After years — decades, even — together, you and your husband probably know each other very well. You can guess what he'll order when you go out to eat and he's able to predict (with relatively high accuracy) how you'll respond to certain situations.