12/18/2013 06:54 pm ET

One Guy Tells: How To Stay Friends With Your Ex

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My best friend is a girl and we get along famously — like peas and carrots or clams or the couple from UP, before she dies, of course. We hang out often and it’s easy. Effortless. We talk on the phone every day, usually when she’s walking to work or when I’m walking home. We rarely fight and when we do it’s about something sophomoric, like “We’ve already seen that episode of Chopped!” “Um no, we def haven’t.”

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