04/02/2014 05:54 pm ET

It Happened To Me: A Bright Eyes Song Ended My Marriage

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I used to do this thing where I’d grab my husband by the collar and look deep into his eyes, like I was casting a spell. “You’re the only person I like in the whole world. Everyone else is horrible. We hate them, right? We only like each other.” I’d wrap my arms around him and whisper into his ear, “Never leave me. Promise you’ll never leave me.” 

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