After divorce or a particularly bad split, keeping up the facade that you're doing fine without your ex can be exhausting.
You don't want to dwell on the past -- and you don't want those close to you thinking you're regretting the decision -- so you bottle up any negative thoughts in the hopes that one day soon, you'll have moved on.
But sometimes, the doubts persist. The secrets below -- collected from Whisper, a free mobile app that allows users to share secrets anonymously -- reveal some of the most crushing things divorcés admit about the end of their marriages. See what they had to say below: