Have you ever stifled yourself from saying what pops into your head. You know when someone says something so dumb, or cruel, or passive aggressive, and you have this zinger on the tip of your tongue that you are dying to unleash, but you don’t, because you are too polite for that. Well, sometimes you have to dispense with niceties. Sometimes you just need to let someone have it, get it off your chest, let it go. That’s what I have been wanting to do ever since I started telling people about my divorce.