06/24/2014 05:29 pm ET Updated Jun 25, 2014

Why I Purchased 'F**k Me' Heels Every Year Since My Split

If there's ever a time you need a little distraction in your life, it's during the divorce process. That's why we launched our Divorce Care Package series. With each post, we'll show you what things -- books, movies, recipes -- helped others relieve stress in the midst of divorce, in the hopes that a few of their picks will serve you well, too. Want to share what got you through your divorce? Email us at divorce@huffingtonpost.com or tweet @HuffPost Divorce

After you get divorced,everyone and their mother wants to know what went wrong in your marriage.

But what are you suppose to say when someone actually has the gumption to ask? Below, writer Lara Lillibridge shares with us the sage statement she gave anyone who was curious about her personal life post-divorce. Also up for discussion? The handful of things that made splitting up a little less stressful for the single mom and essayist -- including some awesome pairs of heels.

What Got Lara Lillibridge Through Divorce

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18 Quotes That Relieve Divorce Stress