07/29/2014 09:08 am ET Updated Jul 29, 2014

What I've Left Unsaid On Balancing Career And Family As A Woman Of Color

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I thought the telephone interview was going so well: The woman was mature, had taken care of kids of different ages, and even (bonus points!) had experience with twins. We seemed to be on the same page about things like activities and discipline, and she had family in the D.C. area, which was why she was looking to make a move from the Midwest. I was researching flights and checking our frequent-flier accounts to bring her to town to meet us in person. Then she emailed me back with one more question:

What race are you?

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