09/04/2014 09:38 am ET Updated Sep 04, 2014

Former Harvard Sex Blogger: My Ex-Boyfriend Leaking Nude Pictures Of Me Changed Who I Am -- Forever

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The nonconsensual posting of my photos was a terrorizing invasion of privacy that altered my reality and irrevocably changed the way I live, think and write

In 2008, there were no words for what happened to me. Today we call what happened to Jennifer Lawrence and other celebrities—the public nonconsensual distribution of sexually explicit photos—revenge porn or cyber bullying or online harassment. I wasn’t naive. I’d been slut-shamed before. But I never considered that people would think my willingness to talk about sexuality precluded me from the expectation of privacy.

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