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09/04/2014 04:58 pm ET Updated Sep 04, 2014

Joan Rivers' Jewish Identity Was Part Humor, Part Faith

Comedienne Joan Rivers died at the age of 81 on September 4 and will be remembered for her sharp and irreverent wit. As an pioneer in women's comedy, humor was central to her identity -- and, it seems, to her faith.

Born Joan Alexandra Molinsky in Brooklyn, New York, Rivers was the youngest daughter of Russian Jewish immigrants. As she pursued a career in acting and eventually found her way into comedy, her Jewish faith made its way into her humor:

"Everyone reaches God in any way they want to reach God," Rivers said on her reality show, 'Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best?' "And let's not forget, Jesus was Jewish... which made sense because he really loved his mother."

Rivers' brand of comedy was not always welcomed by the Jewish community but indicated that the comedienne identified, at least in part, with that aspect of her heritage.

Rivers' former talent-manager, Billy Sammeth, who recently offered a scathing "tell all" to The Daily Beast, told one story that captured the essence of her Jewish-centered humor -- which often focused on her own lack of knowledge about the faith. Sammeth relayed:

I once took Joan and Melissa to the Palm Court at the Plaza when Melissa was around 7 or 8 years old. Going to the Palm Court became like a ritual to Joan back then. Two old Jews came up to Joan that day when Melissa tagged along with us to the Palm Court. They said something to Joan in Yiddish. Melissa was roaming around the room like a little Jewish Eloise and Joan calls her over. Melissa traipses over and Joan told the old Jew to repeat what he had just said in Yiddish and Joan and Melissa fell all over each other hysterically laughing. My eyes were falling out of my head thinking how smart this little girl is to already know Yiddish. So after the old Jews walked away and Melissa goes off to pretend she’s Eloise, I turn to Joan and say, “My word, Joan. I’m so impressed. Melissa knows Yiddish?” Joan goes, “No. She doesn’t know Yiddish and I don’t know Yiddish. But anybody who’s speaking to you in Yiddish is telling you a joke so you laugh at the end of it. I’ve taught her that much so nobody will think she’s stupid.”

Rivers Judaism was flexible enough to allow her to celebrate Christmas, as she joked about in one sketch.

"I'm at the age where I figure, 'Screw it, I'm gonna have a Christmas tree...' I got a two-story-high Christmas tree... On the bottom I got the manger, I got the whole goddam thing going there. The wise men, the sheep. The only thing is, I had the baby, but I'm Jewish -- I got him a nanny."

Humor aside, Rivers was formerly awarded Woman of the Year by Hassadah, a women's Zionist organization, and reportedly supported several Jewish philanthropic causes.

Los Angeles-based Rabbi David Wolpe commended Rivers for her daring approach to humor. In an email to HuffPost, Wolpe said:

"In her pushing of boundaries, her transgressive brio and her unmatched eye for the absurdities of life, she exemplified the very best in Jewish humor. Sometimes she spilled over into a sharpness that could wound, but she offered the outsiders perspective, and brought us all laughter with a gasp -- the sudden shock of truth."

More than anything, humor was her bread and butter. In the words of her daughter, Melissa Rivers, in a statement about Rivers' death:

"My mother's greatest joy in life was to make people laugh. Although that is difficult to do right now, I know her final wish would be that we return to laughing soon."

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BEFORE YOU GO

  • 1 Joan Officiates A Gay Wedding
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    Last month Rivers officiated a gay wedding at New York's Plaza Athenee -- and it wasn't her first. In 2013 the comedian also presided over a King Kong-themed ceremony on top of the Empire State Building. "Every wedding I officiate has a cover charge and a two-drink minimum," she joked.
  • 2 Joan On Kissing A Woman
    In early 2013, Rivers <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/20/joan-rivers-exploring-sexuality-kissing-kisses-woman-
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    In early 2013, Rivers opened up on NBC's "Today Show" about a recent kiss she shared with a woman. "It was in the moment," Joan explained. "I like her very much. It's like the Katy Perry song, 'I Kissed a Girl.' I don't know if I liked it or I didn't like it. I woke up this morning with an incredible urge to play golf." She later told HuffPost Live, "I wasn't for her. To be rejected by both sexes? That's a heartbreak!" You could always keep us cracking up, Joan.
  • 3 Queer Visibility On 'The Joan Rivers Show'
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    Rivers used her talk show, "The Joan Rivers Show," in the '90s to provide visibility to the LGBT community in a way that had rarely been done before. In this clip, the gay icon hosted a segment with Leigh Bowery, Michael Alig, James St. James, Ernie Glam and Amanda Lepore -- the Club Kids and some of the most prominent queers in the community at the time.
  • 4 Joan's Public Love For The Gay Community
    Rivers has never been a stranger to expressing her deep affection for gay men and the gay community as a whole. While discuss
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    Rivers has never been a stranger to expressing her deep affection for gay men and the gay community as a whole. While discussing the Occupy Wall Street movement, the self-described "queen of the gays" once joked, "Gay men have better bodies, on the whole. That's number one, and number two: They care more about what they look like. Very seldom will you find a gay schlep. This is why there are no gay protesters in Zuccotti Park. Because there's no place to change, and no closets."
  • 5 Joan Congratulates Anderson Cooper On Coming Out
    Always one to cheer on queers on their journey to becoming their authentic selves, Rivers <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.
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    Always one to cheer on queers on their journey to becoming their authentic selves, Rivers publicly congratulated CNN's Anderson Cooper following his coming out. "I am thrilled that Anderson Cooper finally came out, because this explains why he never tried to date me," Rivers joked. "I saw him as the perfect package. I would have loved Gloria Vanderbilt as a mother-in-law. This explains everything."
  • 6 Joan Gets In Bed With Bianca Del Rio
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    In one her most recent installments of her web series "In Bed With Joan," Rivers cozied up with "RuPaul's Drag Race" season six winner Bianca Del Rio. With the "queen of mean" and the "Rolodex of hate" together under the sheets, literally anything was possible.
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