02/06/2015 01:11 pm ET

Shared Custody: So Even On Paper, So Hard On The First Night - NYTimes.com

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The first night I spent away from my son, I was certain I would never sleep. He had left with his father only a few hours before and was less than a mile away, but still my own crying was keeping me awake.

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