#1 Cause of Unhappiness at Work: Bad Bosses. Here's What We Can Do About Them

11/19/2015 04:58 pm ET Updated Dec 06, 2017

Our brand new study of what makes people unhappy at work has a number of interesting findings but none more relevant (or discouraging) than this one:
The #1 cause of unhappiness at work is bad bosses.

This is hardly news - we know this already from several other studies.

It's partly about results


So why are bad bosses bad? Partly, there's a sense that the boss is not there for employees work-wise, is always too busy with his own tasks to help them or simply has no insight or no interest in the work they do.

Forty percent of respondents in our survey mentioned "A lack of help and support from my boss" as one cause of their most recent bad work day. 37% mention "Uncertainty about the workplace's vision and strategy."

One person wrote:

I love my actual job. It is rarely job specific tasks that make my days go bad. It is almost always frustration about having to work through hierarchy despite that fact that my boss is recognized as ineffective throughout the organization. (just writing that made my day better!)

Another wrote:

"My boss suddenly started to instruct me on things that I've done for 15 years. Very annoying."

When you lack support from the boss, it becomes unreasonably hard to do your job well and get good results. And getting great results that you can be proud of is a major source of happiness at work.

... But it's also about relationships


35% of respondents name bad behavior from bosses as one cause of unhappiness at work. One person wrote:

"My boss contributes to the bulk of the cause of everything else that is bad at work. We have a new director, and my job has not changed. Just bosses changed. I used to love my job. Now I hate it."

Good workplace relationships and social support are crucial for our happiness at work and studies show that the most important workplace relationship is with the immediate manager.

When employees have a good relationship with the boss, they are much more likely to be happy at work. When they know that the boss sees them, respects them, trusts them and appreciates them personally and professionally.

On the other hand, when bosses show that they don't care about their people, e.g. by being rude, disrespectful or simply by ignoring them, it is a clear sign of bad relationships and this makes employees miserable.

Crucially, this bad behavior can come from both the immediate manager or from executives higher up on the org chart. One respondent wrote:

"I love my new boss, but the c-suite is clueless and mean."

Another wrote:

"My VP is an HR nightmare. He constantly makes derogatory remarks about employees behind closed doors during meetings that I'm forced to attend."

So it's not enough to have a good team managers, the whole company must have a good leadership culture and top executives who are highly visible inside the organization must be good leaders.

Dire consequences


The negative effects of bad bosses are profound. Our study showed that 2 out of 3 employees had at least 1 bad work day every week. 19% say they have a bad day at work "every day or almost every day." When the bad work days become too many, they can really harm people at work and at home. And as mentioned, the #1 factor that makes bad work days bad is the boss.

Respondents wrote:

"This is the first position I have ever held where I actually hate my job. I never understood people who say 'I hate my job!' or who constantly complain about their work lives until this last year. Now I know what those people are talking about."

"I don't sleep well at night, when I have a bad day at work because the anticipation and anxiety of the next day is always on my mind."

Bad bosses are bad. Thank you Captain Obvious. So what do we do about them?


Given that bad bosses are the most common cause of unhappiness at work and given the negative effects they have on employees and on the company's results, we clearly need to do something about this problem.

Here are our top 5 suggestions.

1: Realize that good leadership is about happiness


Good bosses are happy themselves and do their best to
. Therefore, workplaces must realize the value of these happy leaders and do everything they can to celebrate and spread their good example.

2: Hire and train managers for happiness


On an organizational level, we can recognize that good management skills are not an inherent trait in most people. It's something we can look for when we
, and something we must systematically train bosses to do well.

The best way to do that, is to realize that the best leaders have excellent relationship-building skills. They are excellent at understanding and relating to many different kinds of people - bad bosses relate only to people who are like themselves.

3: Listen to employees' problems


Additionally, managers need to
and
. Bad bosses can't take criticism and don't care about any problems their employees face.

4: Stop bad managers


And crucially, we need to stop bad managers. Every workplace has them; bosses who should not be bosses because they lack the professional or personal skills to manage well. If bad bosses can not learn to be good bosses, they need to stop being bosses altogether.

Most importantly: Never ever accept jerks in management positions. They're incredibly toxic.

5: Learn to recognize and deal with bad bosses


On an individual level, each of us can
it and realize exactly just how badly it affects us professionally and personally.  And if you find yourself working for a bad manager with no desire or skill to improve their ways, the best (or even the only) solution may be to
.