08/14/2012 08:24 am ET Updated Oct 14, 2012

Is It Time For A Midlife Makeover?

When I left my television news job in 2006, I didn't know exactly what I was going to do for the rest of my life. I had grown tired of being told what to do by people who were considerably younger and knew less than me. I was frustrated with being passed over for promotions. I definitely knew I didn't want to go back into corporate America and work silently into retirement. It was time for a midlife makeover.

Many baby boomers like me are quickly finding out that the golden years of retirement, as we once knew it, no longer exists. Whether we leave the workforce voluntarily or are forced out because of technology or younger employees, we now find ourselves having to create an Act II before the curtain falls for the last time.

What did I learn at the age of 49? Starting your own business is definitely against everything you learn in corporate America. When you work for someone else you're taught to go with the flow, play nicely in the sandbox and be a team player. Becoming your own boss requires a makeover in the way you think and act. Baby boomers didn't grow up with 24/7 technology so there is some catching up to do in the Web 2.0 world.

The first thing you have to do is believe you can do anything you want to do, no matter what your age. It is a mindset and if you don't have it, perhaps you need a business or life coach to help you.

Did you know Laura Ingalls Wilder didn't publish her first novel until she was 65-years-old? Her "Little House" series spawned nine books and created the hit TV show "Little House on the Prairie," which will live in the hearts and minds of the boomer generation forever.

Comedian Moms Mabley became the oldest person ever to have a Top 40 hit when her rendition of "Abraham, Martin and John" climbed to #35 on the Billboard charts in the summer of 1969 when she was 75. If they can do it against all odds, you can too!

The next thing you have to do is design, develop and implement your life reinvention business plan. It's one thing to have faith and a vision but without a plan of action, your business goals may never pan out. Before you decide to go into business for yourself, keep in mind that you need direction. That means you need a plan and your plan must include creating the kind of image that will make you stand out from the crowded field.

Finally, you need to dream BIG. Every success story starts with big dreams. If you're going to be a successful entrepreneur at midlife you have to believe the sky is not the limit. Just making enough to pay the bills or getting a few customers is not enough of an aspiration to fuel you forward. Have you ever heard Oprah say all she ever wanted to do was just pay the rent and get by? She had big dreams.

The journey to becoming successful in your own business at midlife will have its challenges, but you can do it with your complete makeover of courage, determination, motivation, inspiration and perseverance. It can be one of the most rewarding and best things you do for your Act II.

In my case, I decided to take the knowledge and experience I've gained over three decades and work on my own terms. I could put that same passion and energy into making myself as successful as I did working for someone else who didn't always appreciate it. So now just call me a media trainer.

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