06/20/2012 07:03 pm ET Updated Aug 20, 2012

5 Ways to Rev Up Your Sex Life

I love writing about sex. Big surprise, right? But I also love talking about it, which I've gotten a chance to do a lot lately. Recently I was having a conversation with my friend Megan Andelloux, the amazing sex educator and founder of The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, about sex, fantasies, toys, and erotica -- specifically, how they can make sex interesting and fun again. Rather than keep that between the two of us, I thought I would share our conclusions here. Behold, five of my favorite ways to rev up your sex life:

5 Ways to Rev Up Your Sex Life

But you don't have to take my word for it. Help each other out. What works for you? How do you rev up your sex life?

For more sex advice, catch my new show on Cafe Mom, "Mom Ed: In the Bedroom."