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01/23/2017 11:34 am ET Updated Jan 24, 2018

3 Things Women Wish Men Did In Bed

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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert shares top three 'moves' her female clients WISH their man did in bed...

I find it so funny that my male clients think women don't want sex as much as men do! Not true! We love sex! We just may need a little more time to warm up, be wooed and savor the foreplay...

1. Make More Eye Contact: My female clients complain that men don't look at them in the eyes enough. They feel left out if he closes his eyes the whole time, or only look at parts of their body... which makes them feel like a piece of meat not a work of art. Mix it up!

2. Stay With Us No Matter What: Sex for women is often a place to release stress, past hurts, emotional wounds and we cry, freak out, get naughty, all sorts of unexpected delicious things. Please don't judge us, nor take it personally. Just stick with us through the emotional waves.

3. Stay Open for More to COME: Many women have no idea they are multi-orgasmic because no offense, yet after you come, many of you are done... yet what if we aren't? Stay connected even if you're not erect, so that we can explore more of our erotic nature.

Some men think you need uber technical tricks to be a great lover, and sure, those help. But most women crave your impeccable presence more than anything to splay their body mind and spirit wide open to you.

Remember to spread out your desire for sex with your woman throughout the  day... a sexy text, a sensual touch as she's making lunch for the kids... that way she won't think 'you're only after one thing' and she'll be far more receptive to your advances, and perhaps even proactive have her way with YOU!

This post originally appeared at the Good Men Project. Reprinted with permission.

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About Allana Pratt

Featured on CBS, TLC, FOX; coach to celebrities, a cum laude graduate of Columbia, Allana's a single mom who triumphed over an internal war of body shame and sexual guilt that was destroying her confidence, joy and softness. Now, author of three books, she pole dances for pleasure, and knows 'When Mama's happy, everybody's happy!' She inspires women to embrace their sacred erotic nature to attract all the love and attention they choose. She heals men's emasculated hearts, cures their 'nice guy' and awakens their noble badass honoring of women. Thousands flock to her sexy empowering show, Intimate Conversations LIVE. She's here to end sexual violence on the planet, have stupid amounts of joy as a mother, ooze sensuality and inspire reverence for our exquisite sexual nature. For your free report & video series, go to Get Her To Say Yes.

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Photo: Sandra Cohen-Rose / flickr

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