03/28/2013 01:26 am ET Updated May 27, 2013

9 Secret Regrets Of Cheating Exes

Nothing rocks a marriage likes infidelity, and quite often the result is divorce. But once the truth comes out, do the cheating spouses regret the affair -- or just regret getting caught?

Many people whose secret regrets are featured in my bestselling Secret Regrets book series are truly sorry for betraying their spouses, and are ready to accept responsibility and learn from their mistakes. Others try to justify their actions and don't regret the affair -- they regret the way they handled the situation.

Here are nine secret regrets of cheating exes from my online confessional and book series:

9 Secret Regrets Of Cheating Exes