When you think of someone who is COMMITTED, you think of courage, determination, someone with a strong character and a stick-with-it-ness no matter what. Sounds pretty noble doesn't it?
But, there are times when I don't like commitment and how it plays out.
Like when someone's committed to a marriage even though it's all wrong for them. They stay committed because someone told them that marriage is forever, and so they do whatever it takes to fit that square peg into that round hole, no matter what.
If only we had the same sense of commitment to our own personal alignment, to our own happiness.
All relationships have their troublesome moments, and a commitment to work it out can be a good thing. We don't just run away when there's conflict.
But, somewhere along the way, we've been told that it's our duty to put up with and endure someone or a circumstance that is clearly at odds with us, and that drains our energy. We cling to the belief that we have marriage vows and kids to honor, no matter what.
- If I ever felt that I could NOT be myself or be fully expressed, again
- If I ever found myself walking on eggshells around anyone, again
- If I ever felt unsafe, again
- If I ever felt pinched and restricted, again
- If I ever felt scared, again
- If I ever felt depleted by someone else's energy, again