My Huffington Post blogs usually center around financial literacy and responsibility for mothers and children, or the family as a unit. In recognition of Father's Day, I want to take this opportunity to focus on fathers' vital role in raising financially secure children.
Be Involved.
Fathers are increasingly more involved in the raising of their children, but they still spend a great deal less time with them than mothers do. Unfortunately, the percentage of children living apart from their fathers has almost tripled -- to nearly 33 percent -- in the past 50 years.
The involvement of a father in his child's schooling is associated with the higher likelihood of the student getting higher grades and staying in school. Children who live without a father figure in the home are at least two times more likely to be poor, experience educational problems or drop out of school.
It's straightforward, your children will earn more if they have more education. They will also be less likely to become unemployed. A survey from 2012 shows that average earnings grow from $471 to $652 per week, just by earning a high school diploma. Getting a college Bachelor's degree increases average earnings to $1,066 per week. More education pays off in higher earnings. The typical bachelor's degree recipient can expect to earn about 61 percent more over a 40-year working life than the typical high school graduate earns over the same period.
Be Aware of Your Power.
A large portion of children's learning comes through observing the behavior of their parents.
- Watch the money messages you send your kids. When they see you pay with a charge or debit card, make sure that they understand that the funds are not magic. They need to know that you get a credit card bill every month that has to be paid, or the money is debited from your bank account. Explain that the only way to get money is to earn it.
Whether biological, step or adoptive, the influence of a father figure in a child's economic life is wide reaching and long lasting. Even the absence of a father figure has a lifelong effect on a child. This Father's Day take the time to appreciate your amazing gift of fatherhood.
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