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04/08/2016 04:40 pm ET Updated Apr 09, 2017

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Welcome to Grandpa Does Grandma: The ABCs of Senior Sex.

www.GrandpaDoesGrandma.com www.philparker.com

This book is dedicated to all the grandpas and grandmas that are still doing it.

To all their children who refuse to believe that their parents ever did it!

To the younger generation who hope they can keep on doing it.

And, last but not least: To all who say "T.M.I."

{Too Much Information).

"Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner you better have a good hand." Woody Allen

Since this is my first post, let me begin by introducing grandpa.

I'm not a Ph.D. I'm not a CPA. I'm not an M.D. I don't have my MBA and I don't drive a BMW. Heck, I don't even have a JOB. As you can see, I have no initials after my name. I've traveled the highway of life for 77 years and have learned, laughed and cried along the way.

I have also been hired, fired, acquired; merged, purged, downsized, right-sized, but NEVER capsized. Recently, I've become senior-sized. Now, based on the feedback from my latest book "Grandpa Does Grandma: The ABCs of Senior Sex I've become a SEXpert!!!

As a professional speaker I have authored two additional books: Kiss Yourself Hello: From a Life of Business to the Business of Life; The Gift of Perspective: Let My Hindsight Be Your Foresight.

I am a former member of the National Speakers Association, the Georgia Speakers Association and the International Speakers Federation, I reside in Atlanta with my wife and life partner...Bonnie a.k.a. Grandma

I usually begin each day with a few friends over coffee at my local bookstore. On one particular day, a young female employee with whom I usually exchange morning pleasantries asked how old I was. "Going on 75," I replied. Expecting her to compliment me on how young and buff I looked, instead she hit me with the following question: "Now that you don't have sex anymore, what do you do for excitement? Was she serious? I replied that I "still have lead in my pencil," gave her a wink, and went about my business.

However, in the weeks that followed, I thought about her question and wondered how she came to the conclusion that older individuals don't engage in sexual activity. A light bulb when off in my head. I suddenly realized that I, too, could not imagine my parents or any other older couple for that matter, continuing to enjoy intimacy in their later years.

Grandpa Does Grandma is a sexual romp through the alphabet you NEVER learned in school and is about a sexual sunrise as we age. It's about acknowledging and confirming that we're never too old to enjoy our bodies and the pleasure we derive from exploring and fulfilling one another. It's coming to the realization that as we age, intercourse and orgasm have become less important in our quest for sexual gratification and that the absence of genital sex is not necessarily a tragic outcome. Grandpa Does Grandma is about reveling in what you've earned in respect, perseverance and taking pride in what you've accomplished by living well.
For my readers, who have not broken stride in their sex life, these pages may bring a tell tale smile or, better yet, give you some new insights!

There you have it. Whatever you learn and whatever you are willing to do to enrich, strengthen, and improve love and your love life, my hope for you is to have many rewarding years ahead to love, honor, and nurture each other. Keep in mind that Grandma can also do Grandpa! Stay tuned, as together, we journey through the sexual alphabet.

I welcome your feedback and insights. Phil a.k.a. Sexy Grandpa