09/12/2012 06:06 pm ET Updated Dec 06, 2017

How to Add Value to the People in Our Lives

We all want to feel more confident. We want to know we are here to feel good and know that we are providing value. There is a simple, easy shortcut that we as women can take to help us accomplish this and more. We have to find out how to add value to the people in our lives.

When we ask the right questions we can add value to those around us. And when we add value to the world... we naturally feel better, we feel confident and we feel fulfilled.

Here are some questions you can ask your loved ones to ensure you are aware of how you can add value to their lives.

  • How do you know that I love you?
  • What was the last really fun thing we did together?
  • When you get hurt how do you want me to respond?
  • What is the most important thing to you?
  • How do you like to celebrate?

These questions may be asked interview style (for example with a girlfriend) or you can ask them in passing as you engage with your children.

The questions are simple and effective to assist you in engaging in your life in a more productive and focused way to assist yourself in providing value to the people you love most.

Now, I have the same desires that you do. And I want to do my part and add as much value to you as I possibly can.

In order to add value we need to know HOW we receive it.

And now it is time for you to tell me what value you require.

Take one minute and fill out this short survey. Take the minute now to help me add more value to your life.

We all want to provide value in this lifetime; it is a part of our purpose. Knowing how you can serve the people you love the most will allow you to add value to your own life as well.

Enjoy creating value,

Tara Marino

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