12/12/2012 05:57 pm ET Updated Dec 06, 2017

Are You Feeling Left Behind?

Are you feeling behind? This video is going to assist you in reconnecting with your vision, so you no longer have to feel like you're always trying to catch up.

There are so many women I talk to every day that say, "I feel like I'm never going to catch up. I feel like no matter what I do I'm never going to get there."

Watch: Are You Feeling Left Behind?

Today, I'm going to share with you three steps you can take when you're feeling behind so you can step out of that space, away from being overwhelmed and towards what it is you're really wanting and desiring. This is going to assist you in stepping into your truth as a woman, and point you in the direction of your goals, dreams and desires.

Step 1: Stop. I want you to stop. That might sound counter-intuitive. However, this is so important for you, so you can stop running for the sake of running. Simply stop.

Step 2: Reconnect. I want you to figure out if you're running your race or somebody else's. Someone once said to me, "Tara, run your own race." Make sure you are running your own race, moving towards your own vision. Reconnect with your vision and your dreams and your truth.

Step 3: Find short cuts. I want to allow myself and every single woman to achieve their desires in the most elegant, easy way possible. We can let this happen naturally. I want you to look for a short cut that will assist you in building your dreams! This is how I built my business and I know you can do the same.

(Hint: I don't want you to cheat, but I do want you so elegantly and gracefully to move towards your dreams.)

I know these three steps are going to support you in running your own race. I want you to achieve your desires without the sacrifice.

So share with me in a comment below. What do you do when you're feeling behind?

This video is for your New Yorker: Ever felt left behind? Make sure your New Yorker follows these steps before anything else.

This will assist your Frenchie: Instead of struggling to "catch up," your Frenchie will learn how to enjoy in step number two.

This will assist your Indie: Comparing can bridge a gap with your Indie; you will learn how to have freedom as you continue your path.

Visit me at Elegant Femme for more tips and techniques on living your truth and stepping into your true dreams and desires.