Once, sometimes twice, a month I meet up with Justin, a 36-year-old divorcé. We go out for a meal and maybe to a club before spending the night in a hotel... My exhusband and I get on pretty well, but I don't want all the complications involved in getting into a relationship - I want to be able to concentrate on my children, my job and my life without introducing a man who might well walk out at some point, thus upsetting the children. Although I know I could go out a couple of times a month and find someone for sex I don't have the time or energy for a series of one-night stands - I want to know exactly what's going to happen without any worries about the next day.
What do you think? Would you ever get involved with a "Justin"? Discuss in the comments below! -Ed.